Psychic Red Ext. 9226

Red Responds: Who Should You Choose?

May 4, 2013 at 12:00 am

How to Manage Difficult Romantic Decisions

Lisa from Harrison asks:

Two years ago my fiancé cheated on me and we broke up. I started dating someone else and fell head over heels, but because of a lot of confusion and miscommunication I thought he didn’t feel the same way. Meanwhile, my fiancé and I got back together. He has tried to make it work and has been good to me as much as he can, and I know he loves me, but the guy I dated while we were apart is still communicating with me and has told me he is in love with me. I’m so confused, I can’t stand it. I feel like I’m in love with both of them. I’m used to the one I’m with and we have an easy, comfortable relationship, but I feel so connected to the other that I can’t focus on my existing relationship. I don’t know which of the two I should be with. I know it’s selfish, but I love both of them and I can’t get over the other man. What should I do?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Lisa,

First and foremost, I want to let you know that it is possible to be in love with more than one person at a time. There are many who will argue this, but, we people like to have a pretty clean instruction manual on the do’s and don’ts of life. Unfortunately, the human experience often veers off of that nice, clean, A-B-C path.

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Red Responds: You Cheated. Now What?

April 27, 2013 at 12:00 am

Dealing With the Aftermath of Infidelity

KM in Southern California asks:

It still makes me feel guilty to this day, but I sorta had a threesome with my old roommate and her boyfriend. My boyfriend knows that I was involved with the girl but he doesn’t know I was with her boyfriend as well (The girlfriend was there when this happened, and she’s okay with it because we were all drinking and I didn’t do it behind her back. I think she has a thing for me as well as her boyfriend.). The reason I say sorta is because I was drinking and I was only there for like 10 minutes when I realized what I was doing and didn’t feel right about it.

I’ve been in a long-term relationship and I do love him with all my heart and am now moving in with him. I asked him in a way that wouldn’t connect the dots to me, that if he were in a similar situation, what would he do about it. He said, “For things like that I would take it to the grave and deal with it and never say anything.” That made me feel a bit better, but why do I still feel SO guilty? Should I really take it to the grave as he has said and deal with it, or speak up? I’ve been open, honest and very communicative with him and he has with me, but that’s one thing that I cringe about. It’s one of those things that I feel you just don’t speak of ever. Can you guide me as how it would be if I did or did not tell him? Please help!

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Red Responds: Walk Away From Your Ex

April 6, 2013 at 12:00 am

Does a Divorce Mean it’s Over?

Anita from Winston Salem asks:

I have been divorced since 2003 and I am still mourning my divorce. My ex will not even speak to me. He acts like it was all my fault. He cheated on me and kept all the money to himself, yet we did have a good relationship (or so I thought). I saw him at his mom’s funeral. He kissed me on the forehead and looked at me like he still loved me. I believe he does, but he just won’t talk to me. I have tried dating others, but I have had no luck. I’m just not interested. It’s like I am holding a torch, hoping he will call or want me back. I am 61 and he is 58. I have moved back to NC and he is still in GA.

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Anita,

You have quite a history with your ex husband. That is something that is hard to forget; harder still to just walk away from. But, you need to try. The two of you built and shared a life, but it is no longer that time or place. Your ex has moved on. I’m not saying he doesn’t still care for you, because he does. He always will. Sadly, it’s not the same kind or depth of love that you still hold for him. I’m sorry to say this, but I don’t see him coming back to you.

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Red Responds: What is Your Life Purpose?

March 30, 2013 at 12:00 am

They Only Seem Like Detours

Andrea Lynn from Uxbridge-Milford asks:

Hi, Red. I’m really starting to question my life purpose/destiny and I’m never sure I’m on the right path. I want to make a difference, be successful and have a family of my own. I thought I knew what I was meant to do and be, but now I feel like I have taken too many detours. What will I end up doing with my life? Am I on the right track to getting there? I keep wondering if destiny can be altered? I do know I made some wrong turns, but I also know I’ve learned a lot. I just want to be happy and achieve what I was put on earth to do,even if it means I won’t have the 2.5 kids and true love I used to desire. I would rather have the dream house! All in all I guess you can see why I am questioning spirituality, life paths and destiny. I need guidance and wonder if anyone has been assigned to help me on my path because I feel lost. Thank you for your valuable intuition.

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Andrea Lynn,

Your life path presents almost in sections, so I’d have to say some of the “detours” you’ve taken were extremely purposeful, and not necessarily a detour at all. Instead, I’d have to say they were pit stops on the road to enlightenment. You have learned a lot and had some fun in the process. There’s nothing wrong with that!

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Red Responds: Will You Find Love Again After a Divorce?

March 23, 2013 at 12:00 am

When Will Your Life Pick Up?

Jennifer from Chapmanville asks:

Within a four-month period, my husband told me he didn’t want to be married anymore, I went through the heartbreak of divorce and I found out he had been cheating on me with some other woman for God only knows how long. My question is, will I ever find love again?

Dear Jennifer,

I’m sorry you’ve had such a rough time. I’m not trying to be unkind, but your husband really could be a bit of a putz at times. In a way, he did you a favor, albeit a painful one. Some blessings aren’t gift wrapped. In five or six years, you’ll be able to look back and be grateful for the happy life you have, especially when compared to the one of struggle you would be living if things hadn’t gone the way they did.

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Red Responds: Is Your Past Life Ruining Your Love Life?

March 16, 2013 at 12:00 am

Past Lives and Relationships: Do They Mix?

Thach Vang from Westminster asks:

Are we destined to end up with someone we have a karmic connection with? I’ve recently met a guy and now I feel a strong bond and a familiar, comfortable connection that is indescribable. He made me feel like being next to him is exactly where I’m suppose to be and he makes me feel protected and safe. I’ve never, ever had that same feeling with anyone before. The problem is he’s the ultimate playboy. I feel like a past life or something that is stronger than either one of us realizes is drawing us together. He’s completely wrong for me, yet I’m drawn to him. I’m also dating other men who are much more mature and much more open to commitment and I really like them a lot. Am I destined to be with him because of our karmic bond or is it possible that I may end up with someone else? Should I even consider him as an option even with all his negativity towards relationships and commitment?

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Red Responds: Did You Miss Your Chance at True Love?

March 9, 2013 at 12:00 am

Don’t Let Love Get Away From You

Dawn from Toronto asks:

I’m wondering why I can’t see what blocks love from me, as I do believe I met my soul mate. I always wanted him to be happy. Did I slip up or miss something, or was this karmic and it’s completed?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Dawn,

Not all loves are meant to last. Some are simply meant to help us grow. The man you see as your soul mate isn’t truly your soul mate, but more along the lines of someone with whom you have a great deal of karma. I’m sorry to tell you that I don’t see the glow of marriage, or “happily ever after” energy between the two of you. Try to appreciate that you didn’t make some mistake that altered your course, and use that knowledge to find the will to move forward and not look back. The reality is, if the two of you had invested more deeply in a relationship, he would only have caused you more pain.

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Red Responds: How to Break Up

March 2, 2013 at 12:00 am

How to Move On When it’s Time to Move On

Carey asks:

How do I get up the courage to tell my current boyfriend I want to move out and leave the relationship when he has no idea?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Carey,

It is clear that you still care for your boyfriend, but, at this point, you are not truly in love with him any longer. He’s not a complete idiot—he has sensed your frustration and moments of irritation, and knows things have changed between the two of you. It’s just not as fun or easy as it once was. He’s hoping this is some kind of phase, or just a stressful period of disconnect, and not actually the beginning of the end. Rather than bring the changes to light in conversation, he’s hoping that if he ignores what he’s sensing, it will fade away and things will go back to normal.

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