Knowing When to Release Your Soulmate

July 17, 2009 at 1:00 am
By Psychic Jesse ext. 9027

In the 37 years since I began doing professional psychic readings, (yes, I did start very young), the #1 question most often asked is: “How can you tell when a great love affair has finally run its course?” The answer to this dilemma varies greatly from one person to another, but there seems to be some universal factors.

In each case, one or both people recognize each other from a past life. They may not know the exact placement of who the person was “before” or what role they played at the time, they may not even believe in past lives, but there is an unstoppable passion that seems to challenge all practical and common sense. The energy that flows between them is the stuff of legend and it is as chemical and addicting as any drug. “Therein lies the rub!” as the Immortal Bard would say. Just like any drug, too much can destroy everything. So it is with some great passions.

When a person recognizes their passionate connection with someone, many things begin to synchronize. First, there is the originality and spontaneity of the situation. Often the love affair or attraction is taking place at a time when many of life’s more “mundane” issues have taken over the quest for personal expansion and growth. Quite often the romance is in the realm of forbidden temptation: one or both people are married to others. Another focus is that the one who is most “stricken” by this passion is often feeling very miserable and unloved in their current situations, thus opening the door for many things that may feel like a rescue from their present woes. Enter the “soulmate.”

In one lifetime, we have many, many “soulmates.” These are fellow travelers who are here to help us develop in ways that would be impossible at any other stage or time. Some soulmates repel us keeping us from making serious mistakes that would be made by going in the wrong direction. Have you ever met anyone with whom you had an instant dislike? That person was, indeed, a soulmate. How about the person who, in an instant, makes you feel like you have known them your entire life? That person, too, is a soulmate. They will assist you in other areas of life’s journey. Then there are the ones who take your breath away. Those are the ones we are focusing on right now. Those are the ones who can either warm the house or burn it to the ground.

If you find yourself being drawn to someone and the relationship is very damaging or potentially dangerous, ask yourself one question: if this was a situation involving my best friend, how would I advise them? If the answer is “Get your things and RUN!” you have your answer. If you are putting far more energy and time INTO the relationship than you are getting out, the answer is very simple: end this madness before more bad things happen! Being alone is NOT the end of the world, especially if you are really working on making the world better for others instead of focusing all your time on yourself. If, however, you are addicted to drama and simply want to have a miserable, albeit, passionate lifestyle, then proceed at your own risk.

When you ask your psychic for help in determining whether or not things are going to get better in your relationship, try to keep your expectations out of the reading. Many “false” readings are created by the unyielding intentions of the querant onto the psychic impressions that the reader is trying to gather. Do not ask a question if you do not want the answer. If the answer is not what you want to hear, please try to accept it. Going to dozens of readers until you find one who will give you the answer you want to hear is not only unfair to yourself, it simply sets you up for a greater disappointment when things don’t transpire as you want. In the South we have an expression: “If 50 people tell you that you’re dead, lay down!”

Personally, if I have to inform someone that the time to end things is approaching, I try to do so gently. However, some people simply refuse to hear me, or just as bad, they will want to know when the next “one true love” is coming (as if instantly having another romance will somehow replace the current one!) When you leave a relationship, it is Nature’s way of giving your some time to heal and assess the situation. What is it that you are really seeking in your life? Give yourself healing time that is equal to at least half of the amount of time you put into the relationship. Be gentle with yourself. There is more room in a broken heart that has healed. Moving too quickly into another relationship will leave you unprepared for the life lessons you were meant to learn.

Relationships move in seasons: the young discovery and first excitements of Spring when you initially meet, the white hot passion of Summer when the love becomes physical, the cooling contentment of Autumn and the cold, frightening chill of Winter…and, if you have a relationship that has real roots, it will stand the Winter and bring you another Spring…every time! Anything else is an affair that will make for an interesting tale to be told or remembered before the evening’s fire. To make it into something it isn’t means that you are trying to force Karmic actions into place and that never works! Do not allow yourself to become cynical about love for it comes to us all…time and again…and in its own Time.


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  1. Jennifer Spaelti-Incaviglia December 5, 2011 at 10:17 am

    I understand about needing time to heal and not just move on to the next relationship. I learned so much with my last man and I do believe he was or is my soul mate. Treating your partner with love and respect and being honest is very important. Being honest with yourself and who you really are and what you want. I lost him do to honesty and I will never repeat the same behavior again. I am 40 years old and divorced and still learning about relationships. I haven’t been in a serious one in 5 years and If I could go back and do things all over again with the man I was with 5 years ago I would in a heart beat. I love him and I lost him and it taught me to be a better person. He showed me true love and what I want now.


  2. jamesinflowood March 3, 2011 at 10:04 pm

    Shelly,

    If you are who I think you are. Maybe not but worth a try. I have not forgotten you and want you in my life.
    I am living very close to where we met on that fateful day.
    James


  3. Brian March 14, 2010 at 12:56 pm

    Not all married men being unfaithful are creeps…of course with a 17 year old is wrong…probably statutory rape. I am married 24 years and never unfaithful to my wife. I have had more than my share of opportunities but did not want my sons in a broken family. However for 23 of those 24 years my wife has accused me of being unfaithful…she is so hard on me and has been violent to the point that I had the Police involved. As I get older it seems I get at least one soluid “come-on” from a woman a month and other less intense ones once a week….especially from younger women…many of who are very attractive. However since I met this woman 3 years ago who I was involved professionally with, all other women just don’t stack up. She is not beautiful to most but to me she is…she is unmarried, has a superior intellect (smarter than me for sure) and financially independent. It was 15 months of contact with her before I woke up one morning and felt so vulnerable and so attracted to her that I had to run for cover. I was way too scared to face her again . I could not tolerate it though and got back in touch with her …she was pissed off but made an effort …and I backed off again. She took some drastic action that has now nade me more fearful of her than anything…but I still want her so bad. Especailly when my wife is being so hard on me…I have paid “the wages of sin” for years but never sinned…now that I fall for one I am too stupid to treat the angel right. I am knotted up with fear, lust, longing. hatred and love …all for the same person. So all married men are not the same. It is more than likely I will never have an affair with this lady but that doesn’t make me therefore look for another…it is her, not me that is the reason for my feelings. I fear the loss of this woman …and have had loss. I was involved with another woman when I met my wife. That other woman could not seem to let her ex out of her mind though, she still loved him but wanted to get even with him. So I started dating my wife. I then received an invite to Thanksgiving with her and by the time I got back in touch with her she was dead. My wife was there to pick up the pieces and by the time I was really aware…I mean really aware. I was married and my wife was pregnant. The rest is history. My sons are both living with their women and I am married, unloved, a convenient target and a bank. Every married man or woman for that matter, who is looking for love is not the same,


  4. leah March 12, 2010 at 8:19 pm

    I think that is so interesting and true. But I do have to say I wonder about a psychic, finds love and a family when you can see so much? Waiting for you must be someone coming from your past. life. I do understand … The funny thing I found my soulmate at 16, he saw me before talking to me and said he was going to marry me. I meet him once and was like I have always known him, I am 33 now and still love him/and visa vers / the same as I did then… It is very strange. I wonder though why does it end if it was something so special? Even when I tried a brief seperation, it was like for both of us something terrible missing him sleeping in my parking lot, it was strange experience. something myself and he doesn’t want to repeat. If you find, it how can you let it go? Sorry for my ignorance.But I would like to understand..


  5. Julie March 12, 2010 at 7:53 pm

    Karen, my dear in your 10 month romance you found passionate energy and fantastic sex. however these things do not equal love. True love is platonic. Of coarse true love can have great sex be a part of the relationship.However,if sexual passion overshadows the chummy platonic aspects of the relationship,the courtship becomes all about the sex. when that happens, the friendship has no room to grow. Perhaps the universe was simply trying to teach you that there is more to love then just sex. When the universe once again grants you another sweetheart, hold off on the sex for a little while.Allow the man to pursue you, and romance you first. You may find a friend in your future lover.Consider this sex without love is smoke and mirrors.Sex with love is pure heaven.And you deserve to be loved.Good luck!


  6. Ms. Daisy Dee March 12, 2010 at 9:19 am

    I understand this concept of karmic connections. 5 years ago I met a man and it was instant recognition! It was like when I met him, he was not in the body I knew him in, but I recognized his spirit/soul. I felt that he had been away somewhere and was just returning. (like he had gone away to war or something and now was coming back and I was waiting for him!) Keep in mind that I had never met him before this. We had this sympatico relationship. Lots of fun, lots of conversations, etc.
    However, it ran it’s course and I believe that we came into each other’s lives for a reason and that reason is now fulfilled. The karmic debt has been repaid. We tried to keep it going, but when it’s over, it’s over. Trying to keep it going, created lots and lots of problems. Would I wish it never happened – as we had invested a lot of time in a relationship that ended? No way! It taught me lots of things and solidified what I want in a relationship. I know he feels the same. People come into our life to settle karmic debts or teach us something valuable.


  7. Barbara March 12, 2010 at 6:29 am

    You are very fortunate to have gotten free of a married man who would start an affair with someone who was only 17 (sounds as if). This man is an unfaithful, devious creep. I pity his wife and family. Now you can take care of yourself and find love that you deserve…Good luck!


  8. foxyroxyvala March 12, 2010 at 1:40 am

    hi jesse i am in the same boat as you i know its over with my husband but i dont kno how to end it the more we row is the more nicer hes bein right after makin me feel so guilty like he knows but tries to cover it up ,its hard cos i have 2 kids with him i just dont know what or how im goin to do it


  9. Pat Ilott March 5, 2010 at 3:34 am

    Having been married for a long time now, one tends to fall in and out of love with your spouse, love and hate seem to go hand in hand.

    If children are involved, it is probably better to try and stick it out in my opinion. The grass is never greener on the other side in other words.


  10. Karen October 20, 2009 at 6:33 pm

    Hi- I have never commented before but after reading several of these post….I so connected with the emotional turmoil that some of these folks have. I too loved passionately a man that I only knew for 10 months. He is the first thing I think of in the morning, the last thing I think of at night and all through the day. He was not ready for us and we ended rather disappointedly due to timing. Never to regroup again because of circumstances and he was not that in love with me as I was with him. At any rate, I too was married for almost 25 years and I never felt the passion and intrigue and desire and love that I felt for this man. What was his purpose? To show me I can feel this? To taunt me with the thought of having felt it and now not having it? Is it truly better to have loved than to never have loved at all? Making the best of it. Karina


  11. Shortcake October 19, 2009 at 10:44 am

    Dear Jesse,
    I strongly agree people can have several soul mates in life. Two years ago I met a fabulous man. It was love at first sight and we felt we had known each other for a life time. I thought I was finally going to be happy with the man of my dreams. I met him August 26, 2007 and November 26, 2007 I received a call at work he had been rushed to the hospital after taking my son hunting. I never got to speak to him again or hear his wonderful voice. He passed away that day from a heart attack, just five days after my birthday. I have almost given up hope of ever finding any one like him again.


  12. Shelly October 17, 2009 at 1:31 pm

    A wonderful, timely article! I’ve been going through three years of some of the most intense emotion with someone to whom I felt very connected, from the moment I saw him. While I tried my best to stay realistic, the “want” and the connection was so strong, I knew that he had to serve some purpose, even if it wasn’t a happily ever after with him. After much time and many tears, I’m finally getting a clear picture of reasons why we crossed each other’s paths (again, in this life…) and, I’m extremely grateful that it happened, even though just a couple of months ago, not having this person next to me for the rest of my life was the single saddest thing I could think of. Now that I have “released” him…I feel like a whole new person.


  13. deedee October 16, 2009 at 8:30 pm

    HELLO, I HAVE BEEN WIDOWED FOR SEVEN YEARS, AND EVERY GUY I HAVE DATED JUST WANTS WHAT MY HUSBAND HAD. EITHER WITH ME OR HIS POSSIONIONS. WHATS UP WITH THAT????


  14. Leigh October 16, 2009 at 3:43 pm

    WOW!! i am a 20year old girl that has just ended a 2 and half year affair with a married man. its been hurting more then i can say but reading that has made me see a side of things i never thought of. A broken heart holds more room when its healed!!! thank you!!


  15. JD October 16, 2009 at 9:59 am

    Hah!
    I was happily married for 22 years to a man I felt was my soulmate; he died.
    I don’t think I want to wait 11 years to recover before I find another relationship…


  16. fafo415 October 16, 2009 at 7:41 am

    Jesse,
    Thank you so much for this blog, let me tell you everything in your message I felt. It was like you answered alot for me, things I know that must happen but I just let it continue for so long. You are so right, nothing will change until I make it happen. Thank you again, now I just have to act on it. I want to so bad but I also know that it will not be easy my spouse is already making things so DIFFICULT.


  17. Thao September 14, 2009 at 8:06 pm

    Jesse,
    This is such a great article! I’m glad I started getting into the blog, there are some really good and solid information on here. As always thanks for the insight! :)


  18. Honeybee September 14, 2009 at 7:37 am

    Hello Jesse, First I want to thank you for the great reading last night. You just amaze me with your ability to bring so much positive energy into my readings. I always feel like I can do anything after talking to you. You are such a wonderful person, I just love you! Second, I wanted to say I read your article on CP website on how to create you perfect day, and I really enjoyed it. I’ve seen how just by changing my thoughts, I can change my experiences, and so it makes perfect sense that by planning out every single detail of your dream, you can make it happen. I am going to try the exercise you recommended in the article. It’s funny how even though you know you can manifest anything you want in life, that it can still feel a little scary… But who better to depend on to make these dreams happen than myself, right? Anyway, I can’t wait to give you my next update on my progress with the good doctor and “Mr. P”. So please stay tuned. Take care! Melissa (aka Honeybee)


  19. Fran September 8, 2009 at 5:23 pm

    Dear Jesse,
    For some reason, every time I went onto “Knowing When to Release Your Soulmate” there weren’t any comments showing! I’ve been wanting to write to you to find out how you are now that you’re settled into your new home. (All of a sudden I thought of that song…..”Deep in the Heart of Texas!”)
    The other night, my daughter was getting ready for bed, and she heard a voice whispering….she said it either said her name, or it said, “get out.” She couldn’t tell. But it frightened her a little. She surrounded herself with white light and asked the “voice” to go away. She didn’t hear it anymore after that. She’s very sensitive, and is always seeing spirits. One in particular was the “blue man” …..someone who she would see lurking in the hallway at night, and he looked blue…..blue skin, blue clothes, blue aura. But the blue man never frightened her. She would even see him sometimes when she was out and about. She hasn’t seen him in a while, though.
    I’ll make sure to read your new article and get back to you on it. I sent Jen something, too. Not sure if she’s going to post it, though.
    Hope all is well with you. Sending love your way…..
    Fran


  20. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 September 5, 2009 at 8:33 am

    I’m finally moved in here in Texas. How is everyone doing? Haven’t heard much from ya’ll lately!
    I have a new article out on the site today. It’s all about how to have your “Perfect Day”. I’d love to get some feedback on it.
    What kind of plans do everyone have for the weeknd? Keep me posted and thank you all for your wonderful wupport during this change.
    With love and blessings,
    Jesse 9027


  21. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 September 3, 2009 at 11:02 am

    Ooh! Sweet ST,
    You have a true gift for writing! I don’t know what you do for a living, but
    I know what you COULD do! LOL!
    Savannah sounds just as lovely as I have always imagined it would be. I am
    such a gypsy that I never know where I will end up, but I now have a new
    target destination. Thank you so much!
    It is wonderful to be back home in Texas…and I do love the women here
    because I understand our ways so much better, but it is really hot and
    humid! Lake Travis (the largest lake near Austin) is down more than 37 feet!
    I am doing every kind of positive Magickal work I know to bring rain!
    Unfortunately, one of my predictions for California seems to be occurring
    these days with the wildfires. I had predicted that they would be starting
    earlier than usual and would be much more severe than in past years.
    We are going to be in for at least one more serious hurricane that will
    affect the east coast, but I think that Savannah will be fine. She has
    withstood a lot and this one looks like it is focused more on the southern
    regions. There will be lots of flooding in a lot of areas, however…but I
    really feel you will be safe ;-)
    I am going to be with my dear friends on my birthday this Sunday, so I will
    endure the heat for that event, but the rest of the time, I am living
    indoors! LOL! Going from 57 degrees to 101 has been challenging, but it’s
    worth it!
    Thank you again for sharing your beautiful words and your lovely Savannah.
    It’s wonderful to hear from you!
    With love and blessings,
    Jesse 9027


  22. SeaTurtle September 2, 2009 at 8:30 pm

    Hi Jesse,
    I hope that you are settling in from your big move!
    Well, a liitle bit about this part of the country….I think the “low
    country” as it is called is one of the most beautiful places in the world…
    Imagine 200 year old (and older) live oak tress with branches that twist in
    all directions…the branches bend and drape and twist and each and every
    tree looks like a sculptural piece of art…and then there is “spanish moss”
    dripping from those branches….
    The spanish moss blows in the wind…
    The wind is soft on the skin and gentle to breathe…and the scent of the
    air is like nothing I’ve ever experienced before…
    There is a beauty, a wisdom, a gentleness, an auora of mystery and of
    history…
    I would describe this area to have a “feminine energy”…mixed with a
    strength…(not sure if that makes any sense )
    And then just 30 minutes from Savannah is my island…all of the above and
    yet miles and miles of white sandy beaches, 100 ft. bamboo, flowers year
    round, wild life in abundance, we were the first “eco friendly” designed
    community in the country…long before it was fashionable to be…oh, I
    almost forgot the lagoons and the alligators!
    Harbors and shrimp boats, and fisherman in big boots, and sea turtles, and
    pelicans, and sand pipers, and dolphins and shells….and yachts, and sand
    castles and bicyclists, and bike paths and walking paths everywhere…no
    neon lights…no “golden arches”…very dark at night…gorgeous sunsets…
    And nice, nice people…
    A place where one doesn’t care who you are or what you came from…a place
    where the millionaries and the locals are friends…and people are judged
    by who they are not what they wear…
    And, in spite of all of this one of the wealthiest communities in the
    country…and you can not tell who is and who isn’t…most with money here
    are very comfofortable with who they are…
    I find southern women fascinating…they get what they want…and yet
    personify a “helplessness”…even when they are being rude or manipulative
    (being a New Yorker…that is something that I do NOT like nor want to
    emmulate) :)
    But, there are “more of us” here …we have a joke…that the north now
    “owns this area”…and we do! LOL!
    I felt “as if I was “home” from the very first moment I arrived on this
    island”…and one of my favorite somgs has always been James Taylors “Going
    to Carolina”…and now I am here!!! And, God willing, here to stay…
    And, just in case you couldn’t figure this out…I LOVE IT HERE!!! ;)
    I would love to show you Savannah and my island someday my new friend!
    Sending you hugs,
    ST


  23. Ellie September 2, 2009 at 2:56 am

    Jesse,
    Thank you so much for your support last week! You literally pulled me out of a hole. You helped me focus on now instead of the past. This article you wrote drove it home.
    So, because of you, I have looked to the future, written my perfect day, and, all of a sudden, there is a lot bigger world out there! Huh!
    LOL!
    Love to you,
    Ellen


  24. Karen August 31, 2009 at 10:11 pm

    Hi Jesse,
    Dear Jesse,
    The reading I had with you today was awesome…I could have chatted with you much longer about my budding romantic situation with the “young man”. I would like to keep in close contact during the unfolding process…I will need your support and guidance. I hope this message gets to you this time.
    Blessings,
    Karen


  25. Y in Alaska August 31, 2009 at 1:04 pm

    Hi!
    Not sure my message posted?….
    Wanted to let you know Saturday night was amazing and more than I expected!!
    Posted a photo of us for you. I will be talking to you soon I am sure! Much Love~Y in Alaska


  26. Y in Alaska August 31, 2009 at 12:57 pm

    Hi Jesse!
    Saturday night was amazing and more than I expected!
    Wanted to say hi and let you know I feel a tremendous amount of peace in my heart right now. I put a photo of me and my honey up so you could see. Talk to you soon I am sure! Much Love, Y in Alaska!


  27. MD August 29, 2009 at 4:19 pm

    Hello Jesse! I hope you are not too overwhelmed with the move and that you are starting to feel organized. My first relaxing weekend in a long, long time.. slept late.. took my vitamins.. had a haircut.. had my nails done.. am going to hit the gym in a minute… The Dolce Vita, for a change..!!! It helped also that the man in question sent me a very nice e-mail – he has a good sense of humor ( a plus in my book). He is traveling and won’t be able to look at it until after 9/10 but at least he answered – and nicely! “Ex” is a tiny bit annoying but I am just ignoring him.. still worried about money, but trying to keep the worry at a decent level. Love,
    M.


  28. Fran August 29, 2009 at 3:52 pm

    Just one more thing….what happened with those mirrors you mentioned? Now I’ve just GOT to know…


  29. Fran August 29, 2009 at 3:48 pm

    I can’t wait to hear more ghost tales from you! You’re a very brave woman. I’m a big chicken! Hahaha!
    What great advice about writing the letter. I’m going to tell my friend D that she should do that, and I’ll keep you posted about the results.
    Is it hotter than heck in your part of Texas? It feels like Hades here…..it’s cooling off a little bit though. Now it’s only 108, down 2 degrees from a couple of hours ago!
    Sending love your way,
    Fran


  30. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 29, 2009 at 1:39 am

    Dearest Fran,
    Oooh! Good one! You are very, very good at paranormal insights! I believe
    you really got to the root of this one. Anytime anyone buys anything that
    has a sentimental feel to it from a yard sale or antique shop, there is no
    telling what they are really bringing into their life. (As a real second
    hand store junkie, I have had some crazy things happen when I have bought
    old mirrors!)
    It feels to me like your friend really needs to write her mother a letter
    and ask her advice about what is going on with her kids. Later on, she
    should pay special attention to see if she doesn’t get either a dream
    response or image or a real paranormal interaction…maybe a day or two
    later.
    With a wonderful and spiritually gifted friend like you, she will never have
    to wonder too long what is going on in her life! Great job, Fran!
    After I get settled into my new place, I have already found 5 places that
    are reposrted to be haunted beginning back in the late 1800s. (This is a
    very old area of Texas with a really wild and colorful past! ) I’ve already
    taken out my paranormal investiagting tools: EMF meter, copper divining
    wands, digital voice recorder, laser surface temp. gun, etc..to make sure
    they survivied the move and it looks as though they did! I hope to be able
    to share some new ghost tales with you later in September. Wish me luck!
    With my love and many blessings,
    Jesse 9027


  31. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 29, 2009 at 1:28 am

    Dear MD,
    I’m so sorry I haven’t responded sooner, but I just now got the computer
    online. As with all moves, this one was/is filled with surprises…even for
    a psychic! LOL!
    I really don’t think you shot yourself in the foot, baby girl. I really
    believe (as you do) that this man should fully understand why you are doing
    this and what is your goal. I believe you did just great!
    I hope you had a restful weekend and I look very forward to hearing about
    more of your project! I am very proud of you!
    Love and blessings,
    Jesse 9027


  32. ClaraBell August 28, 2009 at 10:45 pm

    Hello everyone!
    I know I’ve been away. It’s been a very trying time for me lately. I thought I had things figured out and I’m now thinking that I don’t. :p
    Not sure where to turn from here. Just a bit frozen with an overwhelming feeling that I’m supposed to be doing something— and yet I have NO idea *what* it is I’m supposed to be doing. :/
    Jesse, I hope the move went well. I miss you here in the NW (even though we never met…) but I hope TX is treating you well. :)
    Blessings and hugs to you all,
    CB


  33. MD August 27, 2009 at 1:42 am

    Hi Jesse,
    It was good talking to you as usual.. hope the move went well and that you are starting to get organized. I heard from my friend (after we spoke) who liked the paper very much; I made a couple revisions and then sent it to its intended beneficiary.. and now, until I hear from that person, I will be on pins and needles. I am very nervous because I felt I had to explain in my e-mail where I. personally, stand on the matter and you know I am never bashful about what I think!! I hope I did not shoot myself in the foot and turn him off. On the other hand, he should know who I am right away – no need to realize half way through that we don’t get along… but I am still worried that maybe I was not subtle enough and that he will be put off by it.. Did I mess up???? Agh.. why must I make my life so complicated all the time….
    M.


  34. Fran August 26, 2009 at 10:27 pm

    Hi, Jesse!
    Hope all the prepping for the move is going smoothly. When do you actually settle in to your new home? I’ll be thinking about you…
    Hey! I’ve got a paranormal story for you, and it’s recent! A very dear friend of mine is going through a lot of heartache with her grown children…the oldest (28) in particular. Anyway, she had purchased a picture frame at a yard sale that contained a beautiful poem about being a mother. She has it hanging in her bedroom . The other day she told me about it, and she said the strange thing is that about 3 to 4 times now, she’s found it off the wall, lying face down on a small chest of drawers that’s below it. Each time, she would replace it back on the wall. (I’m getting chills just telling you about it!) She asked the kids if any of them took the picture off the wall and placed it down, and they told her no. I was there a couple of days ago, and I took a look at it. There is NO WAY that this picture could have fallen off the wall and landed face down as it had. If it DID fall off the wall, there was enough space that it would have fallen to the ground!
    When she told me what was going on, my very first thought was that someone from the other side was trying to tell her something. I immediately thought of her mother, who had died years before. I felt that her mom was trying to send her a message about her relationship with her son. You know, my friend told me that as soon as she told me about the incidents, she stopped finding the frame face down. I told her that’s because Spirit wanted to get her attention, and it did!
    What do you think? That’s a good one, isn’t it??? Now I won’t be able to get up to go to the bathroom without turning on a light! LOL!!
    Lots of love,
    Fran
    (p.s. — hope the move goes smoothly!)


  35. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 26, 2009 at 8:10 pm

    Dear ST,
    I can’t wait to hear all about it! I only know what I have read about it and
    it seems magnificent!
    Isn’t it great that we can all share such wonderful things with one another
    through this blog?
    I hope you have found wonderful reflections in your introspection…(hey!
    that rhymes! LOL!)
    have a wonderful evening…I probably won’t be online for a couple of days,
    but as soon as I unpack the computer, I will really enjoy hearing more about
    your world…
    Many blessings,
    Jesse 9027


  36. SeaTurtle August 26, 2009 at 12:12 pm

    Thanks Jesse!
    Am feeling bettter…going through a lot of introspection…
    But, not so sad anymore…oh dear…that is not usually my style…but I did
    feel so down.
    Am running to an appointment, but will tell you all about Savannah and my
    beautiful island later this evening>
    Love and Hugs,
    ST


  37. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 25, 2009 at 9:31 pm

    Dearest MD,
    WOOHOO! I am so happy for you! I have some time tomorrow (Wed.) and then I
    will be on again on Sunday. My time zone will change, but I think the
    scheduler will work that out. In the meantime, congratulate yourself! You
    did it! I am so happy fo ryou and so very proud of you! You made it! It will
    go great!
    You are wonderful!
    With love and genuine admiration,
    Jesse 9027


  38. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 25, 2009 at 7:56 pm

    Dear ST,
    I’m sure sorry to hear that you are not feeling well right now. I’m sure I
    speak for everyone when I say that I will certainly be sending you loads of
    love and healing energy to get back to your sweet and wonderful self very
    soon!
    Be gentle with yourself and write when you can…
    Love,
    Jesse 9027


  39. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 25, 2009 at 10:13 am

    Miss Krystal,
    Thank you so much for the good thoughts! After the “yard sale of the
    century”, I have greatly reduced my belongings, so that helps a lot! LOL! I
    still can’t believe that I am going to change temperatures over 30 degrees
    in less than 4 hours! Yikes! LOL! But that’s great…just to be back home!
    New energy and new life…the possibilities are endless!
    Many blessings to thee and thine, darlin’ one!
    Jesse 9027


  40. Miss Krystal ext. 9192 August 25, 2009 at 7:42 am

    Goodluck with the move Jesse.
    I wish much happiness in your new environment. I also moved, too, this year. I did not move far but I like the fresh start…still was great for a energy shift.. Hugs, Miss Krystal


  41. MD August 25, 2009 at 12:03 am

    2 a.m. but it’s done !!! and saved in 300 places (!) just to be sure.. what should I expect now? A little bit nervous, I must admit. Just let me know when we need to talk… Love, M.


  42. MD August 24, 2009 at 7:04 pm

    Hello Jesse,
    Funny, I received your message exactly at the time I was opening my blog page to see what you were up to !! I am working on the conclusion of my project, will read it one more time and will send it to my would be partner. I feel quite at peace with myself right now, although a bit lonely at time, but I am managing it.. I continue to network and as soon as I am done with that paper, I will move to the next phase.. I am a little worried (no, I am lying, I am a lot worried) about money but I try to remember our conversations and to not over stress about it.. it is not always easy. That far away country is calling me and I am itching to go back but it is not the right time, and I know it. But I must say: a piece of me is definitely already there .. I just have to be patient. As for you, yes moving can be a lot of fun.. the trick is to keep an open mind but you are so positive that I can’t imagine that being a problem. They are going to love you wherever it is you are going.
    Take care, my dear friend.
    M.


  43. SeaTurtle August 24, 2009 at 7:03 pm

    Hi Jesse,
    I’ll write more later my friend…would love to share with you about this
    MOST INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL part of the country…
    Just not feeling myself right now…
    Will write more soon.
    Love to you,
    ST


  44. n-vancouver August 24, 2009 at 5:08 pm

    Jesse…..Good luck in your move – You should move to Vancouver next! I will adopt you!
    Thanks for the marathon conversations, and don’t stray to far from the phone as I am going to need you! I might even say some Canadian words for you!
    Thank you so much, stay safe
    You are a true blessing to me!
    n-vancouver


  45. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 24, 2009 at 4:41 pm

    Dear MD,
    I am never too busy to offer my love and support to you! The move will be a
    real shock to the system, but it will also make me happy…much like your
    recent move was for you! ;-)
    I am so glad you are getting the work done. Have you finished the project
    yet?
    I am always here for you, baby girl! You keep on getting strong and and more
    powerful! We are ALL right behind you!
    With love and admiration,
    Jesse 9027


  46. MD August 24, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    I noticed you are moving.. Good luck with the move Jesse. Hope it
    brings you all the good things you deserve .. and more.
    Love
    M (formerly M. of Chicago – Now MD)


  47. MD August 24, 2009 at 1:07 pm

    Hi Jesse,
    Just to let you know that I have changed my sign-in information from M.
    of Chicago to MD. I had a productive weekend and I am making progress.
    Not quite finished but that’s because I am making more changes. I will
    work on the conclusion tonight and will let you know when it is sent to
    its intended beneficiary. Otherwise, feeling pretty good right now.
    Love,
    M.


  48. Psychic - Jesse - x9027 August 23, 2009 at 8:47 am

    Dear ST,
    You are just the woman I have been needing to find! (Talk about kismet! ;-)
    I have often thought about finding a place in or near Savannah, but I don’t
    know much about it. Something always told me that I would like that area.
    Were you born there? What brought you to your island?
    I know I will really miss living here on my little peninsula ( I can
    actually see both the Cascade mountains and the Pacific ocean from my study
    window!), but it will be good to be back home in Texas for a time, too. I am
    a true gypsy and, as anyone who knows me will tell you, if I stay any place
    more than 2 years, I must have a broken leg!
    My next adventure will probably bring me to either Savannah or to Puerto
    Rico. I have always allowed my Spirit to guide me where I should go and it
    has never let me down. Even where I live now was shown to me. I didn’t know
    a single soul when I decided to head this direction and it has been a
    wonderful adventure!
    The yard sale is almost over and the final moving will be finished this
    week. Some folks may think I’m getting a bit long in the tooth to keep
    moving around as much as I do, but I don’t! LOL! I love exploring what is
    just around the bend! Who knows what this new year of my life will bring?! I
    just stay open and connected to wonderful people like you…and keep being
    amazed at how big and beautiful life can be!
    Enjoy your island, baby girl! It is truly magickal and blessed to have you
    there!
    Love,
    Jesse 9027


  49. Carin August 22, 2009 at 4:11 pm

    Dear Jesse,
    The reading I had with you last night was awesome…I could have chatted with you much longer about my potential romantic situation with the “young man”. I would like to keep in close contact during the unfolding process…I will need your support and guidance.
    Blessings,
    Carin


  50. SeaTurtle August 21, 2009 at 8:12 pm

    Hi Jesse,
    You’re welcome! You are a nvery easy person to care about Jesse..your sweet
    spirit just shines though this site!
    And, you were missed…
    Glad you are well…moving is such hard work…but I’m glad you’re going
    back home to Texas as you seem to love it there…
    I live on an island at the tip of South Carolina, between Savannah and
    Charleston…this island is my haven…fell in love with it from the moment
    I laid eyes on it…
    The summer weather is hot..in the 90′s..but as we are an island we have a
    gorgeous breeze for most of the year…which actually makes it feel like
    it’s around 10 degrees lower than it really is! The humidity is also great
    for my skin…keeps it looking young and is so soft to breathe!
    Hope your move is a smooth one and that you don’t get too tired…
    Love to you too,
    ST

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