In the 37 years since I began doing professional psychic readings, (yes, I did start very young), the #1 question most often asked is: “How can you tell when a great love affair has finally run its course?” The answer to this dilemma varies greatly from one person to another, but there seems to be some universal factors.
In each case, one or both people recognize each other from a past life. They may not know the exact placement of who the person was “before” or what role they played at the time, they may not even believe in past lives, but there is an unstoppable passion that seems to challenge all practical and common sense. The energy that flows between them is the stuff of legend and it is as chemical and addicting as any drug. “Therein lies the rub!” as the Immortal Bard would say. Just like any drug, too much can destroy everything. So it is with some great passions.
When a person recognizes their passionate connection with someone, many things begin to synchronize. First, there is the originality and spontaneity of the situation. Often the love affair or attraction is taking place at a time when many of life’s more “mundane” issues have taken over the quest for personal expansion and growth. Quite often the romance is in the realm of forbidden temptation: one or both people are married to others. Another focus is that the one who is most “stricken” by this passion is often feeling very miserable and unloved in their current situations, thus opening the door for many things that may feel like a rescue from their present woes. Enter the “soulmate.”
In one lifetime, we have many, many “soulmates.” These are fellow travelers who are here to help us develop in ways that would be impossible at any other stage or time. Some soulmates repel us keeping us from making serious mistakes that would be made by going in the wrong direction. Have you ever met anyone with whom you had an instant dislike? That person was, indeed, a soulmate. How about the person who, in an instant, makes you feel like you have known them your entire life? That person, too, is a soulmate. They will assist you in other areas of life’s journey. Then there are the ones who take your breath away. Those are the ones we are focusing on right now. Those are the ones who can either warm the house or burn it to the ground.
If you find yourself being drawn to someone and the relationship is very damaging or potentially dangerous, ask yourself one question: if this was a situation involving my best friend, how would I advise them? If the answer is “Get your things and RUN!” you have your answer. If you are putting far more energy and time INTO the relationship than you are getting out, the answer is very simple: end this madness before more bad things happen! Being alone is NOT the end of the world, especially if you are really working on making the world better for others instead of focusing all your time on yourself. If, however, you are addicted to drama and simply want to have a miserable, albeit, passionate lifestyle, then proceed at your own risk.
When you ask your psychic for help in determining whether or not things are going to get better in your relationship, try to keep your expectations out of the reading. Many “false” readings are created by the unyielding intentions of the querant onto the psychic impressions that the reader is trying to gather. Do not ask a question if you do not want the answer. If the answer is not what you want to hear, please try to accept it. Going to dozens of readers until you find one who will give you the answer you want to hear is not only unfair to yourself, it simply sets you up for a greater disappointment when things don’t transpire as you want. In the South we have an expression: “If 50 people tell you that you’re dead, lay down!”
Personally, if I have to inform someone that the time to end things is approaching, I try to do so gently. However, some people simply refuse to hear me, or just as bad, they will want to know when the next “one true love” is coming (as if instantly having another romance will somehow replace the current one!) When you leave a relationship, it is Nature’s way of giving your some time to heal and assess the situation. What is it that you are really seeking in your life? Give yourself healing time that is equal to at least half of the amount of time you put into the relationship. Be gentle with yourself. There is more room in a broken heart that has healed. Moving too quickly into another relationship will leave you unprepared for the life lessons you were meant to learn.
Relationships move in seasons: the young discovery and first excitements of Spring when you initially meet, the white hot passion of Summer when the love becomes physical, the cooling contentment of Autumn and the cold, frightening chill of Winter…and, if you have a relationship that has real roots, it will stand the Winter and bring you another Spring…every time! Anything else is an affair that will make for an interesting tale to be told or remembered before the evening’s fire. To make it into something it isn’t means that you are trying to force Karmic actions into place and that never works! Do not allow yourself to become cynical about love for it comes to us all…time and again…and in its own Time.
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My sweet and precious M,
You can’t give up! The world, and I really mean the world, needs your work,
your vision, your heart!
The new work is really going to be even better than it ever has been before
and you will have even more recognition for your efforts! I am very proud of
you! I am so honored to witness this amazing effort!
I love you, my dear friend. You are a blessing to us all!
Jesse 9027
Hello Jesse, Were you able to view my posting to the Soul Mate blog from the other day? Since I am new to this, I am not sure I did it right. I just wanted to make sure you knew that I was trying to connect. Honeybee
Hi Jesse,
Just seeing your name on my screen brightens my day, my dear friend ! I
am a lot calmer and i am now determined to make the best out of this
very unpleasant experience. I am happy with what i have re- written so
far and i intend on locking myself in this weekend and finishing it. i
have finally received my desk and i have been busy rearranging my at
home working environment, which i like a lot now. Quiet and peaceful…
One thing for sure, I am not giving up, Jesse.. I am not giving up !
Love,
M.
Dear M,
How are things going with your project? You know I ma keeping a candle lit for you, sweet angel!
Love,
jesse 9027
Dear ST,
How sweet of you to notice! You are such a precious angel!
Actually, I have been getting ready for my move next week. I have been
trying to get in more time on the line, too, but it’s been a bit
challenging.
How are you doing, baby girl? I don’t know what part of the country you live
in, but I hope the summer has been kind to you. I still can’t believe that I
am about to add more than 30 degrees to my daily temp!! But it will s till
be worth it to be back home and back to my tribe!
Thank you so much for caring! You are truly a blessing!
Love,
Jesse 9027
Hi Jesse,
Miss seeing you on here…
Are you okay?
Hugs,
ST
Miss Krystal,
Yes, I USED to do that! Now one piece leads to the entire box!
Dreading tomorrow…a young man here committed suicide last week-the Mom is a good friend of my sister’s…I don’t know here very well…but am thinking I should go to the memorial service to show my support…
Just dreading going…
Way too sad…
How are you doing?
HUGS,,ST
Hi Fran!
Wow! I am impressed that you figured out how to upload a photo! WAHOO!
I’ll have to go in and give it a try!
Well, I know what you’e saying and I too have had the same problem
with thinking about “D”…but, I think I’m doing better…he was and
still is one of the first things I think about at night and before
going to sleep.
I’m still hopeful and OPEN…
Kind of will be amazing if it does happen!
And, yes, it would be a blast if we could get together..maybe we could
have a Cp Blog Party!
How was your day?
Love you,
ST
On Wed, Aug 19, 2009 at 3:45 PM, TypePad
You see, I wish I could do that. One piece of candy is just a teaser for me. Would rather wait until I could indulge a little lol Everyone is different. Hope you are doing well. Hugs, Miss Krystal
Hi Sea Turtle,
But HOW do we stop thinking and obsessing? I agree with you that it’s not
healthy, but that doesn’t mean that it’s an easy thing to accomplish.
Especially when it’s your first thought as you wake in the morning,
throughout your day, and before you fall asleep at night. And sometimes
even WHEN your dreaming!! But it’s something that we’ve gotta try. And try
HARD!
I think that rather than stay HOPEFUL that “D” will call, you should remain
CERTAIN that he’ll call. I have all the confidence in the world in Gina
Rose. She keeps telling you not to worry. Sometimes our fear makes us act
crazy and we start thinking things, and second-guessing ourselves. But if
you stay confident in your KNOWING, then it will all start to fall into
place. (And it doesn’t hurt to say a prayer or two.) Just make sure you
answer the phone!! LOL! LOL! LOL!
Can you believe I actually figured out how to upload a picture?! Just log
onto your profile, and click on the Browse button to go into your Pictures
file on your computer. Find one you want to use, click Open, and voila!
Make sure at the bottom of the TypePad profile page you click the Edit
button.
I sure hope we can meet one day, too. I can just see us hugging and
screaming and jumping around like excited little kids! Fun, fun!
((Fran))
Hi Jesse,
LOL! Here is an email that I meant to send to you and sent it to myself! SORRY!
SeaTurtle said in reply to SeaTurtle…
Morning Jesse,
I can see that the last email wasn’t complete…sorry.
I didn’t think I had sent it at all! YIKES! You’re not the only one that’s computer challenged!
I was going to ask you why you said “D” had a “great deal of insecurities” about me…
I know why I’m insecure about him.
Going to try not to think about him so much.
I’m planning to focus mostly on business and continue to work on myself and get healthy and fit…physically and emotionally.
Gina Rose is confident of his call and his interest in me and I will remain open to him if he does so…so we will see.
My daughter’s are both home. My oldest hasn’t been home since December…it’ so nice to have them both here! We spent the afternoon at the beach yesterday and then went out for dinner and then for a drink. We had a blast…they are so funny and we laughed so hard!
One leaves this afternoon and the other in the morning. I LOVE being a Mom and really miss those years when we were all together…oldest works on wall street-youngest a producer of the news and journalist. BOTH are beautiful to look at(which is a gift from God) BUT, more importantly, are such nice young women…I’m proud of them.
Hope your day is a good one.
Blessings!
ST
Hi Fran,
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I just LOVED reading your sweet note…thank you.
And, I agree with you…we do seem to have so much in common…it’s
rather amazing really?!
I KNOW you know how I feel…
Well, I will remain open in the event that he does call…but am
trying to distract myself and STOP thinking and obcessing. I’m
serious, I’m not sure it’s a healthy thing for me to be doing.
I don’t want to kid myself and want to face reality if in fact “D” is
not into me. Wouldn’t that be just awful if he had no interest in me
what so ever…?
I don’t know how to upload a photo and it seems you figured out how to
follow! YIPPEE!
I hope that one day we can meet. I love you already too and am
accepting and sending you a BIG HUG too!!
ST
On Tue, Aug 18, 2009 at 1:58 PM, TypePad
Miss Krystal,
Yes, that’s the best way for me too…for most of my adult life I have
had even a minatue chocolate after a meal…
Just love it!
ST
On Tue, Aug 18, 2009 at 1:58 PM, TypePad
Not doing so well Jesse… my paper is gone.. disappeared.. when I opened the document this evening, I got a blank page.. I don’t know what happened. I must have done something that erased it but in any event, it’s gone.. I am going to bring my computer to the IT guy in my office tomorrow but if he can’t help, it’s hours and hours of work lost.. I am not even sure I could rewrite it… I have cried for two hours and now, I just feel empty and I sick…. so if I am truly being guided with my work, how can this be explained?
Hello Jesse! As promised in our last reading, I (code word “honeybee” –
) was going to figure out how to post a comment to you, and I have! And at just the right time and with just the perfect article! There is so much in this article that rings true for me and my situation with “Mr. P”! As you know, I’ve often come to you asking if it is time to move on with my situation. I trust in you completely to be honest with me. I know how dedicated I can be to my goals and not wanting to let go, and at the same time, I recognize my impatience is what pushes me to sometimes want to throw in that towel and say “I’ve had enough”. I know I came into Mr. P’s life as a way to make him see just how unhappy he was, but it doesn’t make it any easier. When we last spoke, I was making plans to go hiking with “A”, the good doctor (which is still planned for this weekend); so who do you think would show up all of a sudden and ask to go out?!?! Mr. P! Can you believe it? He absolutely stunned me when he said he wanted to spend time together (which we did last night). I know this is not just a coincidence. I know he senses I’m making myself open to other options. I am curious if he noticed a difference with me when we were together, because while we had a great time, the way I felt I responded in this situation was different than in the past. Knowing I truly feel open to other options has made a difference. I also did not feel the need to get things more defined by him, which is SO unlike me. I hope I can keep it up. I’m going to continue to live my life while leaving the door open and we’ll see if he continues to come forward. I thank you for your continued support and insight and look forward to the next twist and turn in this situation. You are the best! Love, Honeybee
Oh, Sweetie…
I really know what you’re feeling about everything regarding ‘D’ and not knowing if you should keep hanging on or move on.
You love him. Plain and simple. And it’s the hardest thing in the world to turn off your feelings. How do you tell yourself that you’re going to stop loving him? You can’t. The only thing you can do is continue living your beautiful life day by day.
I know that sounds very simple. But what I mean is this…
I think that if Gina Rose told you that the end result is that you and ‘D’ will be together, then you’ve got to hold onto that. But I also think that you should open yourself up to other opportunities while his soul is “playing catch-up” with yours. You should definitely continue dating. Go out and have a blast. It will do you a lot of good to get your mind off of him, even if it is just for a little while.
It’s amazing how I feel like I’m in the same boat as you are. In so many ways.
You know I love you. I wish I could be there in person for you. Even if I don’t have the answers, I love to listen. And with all this extra padding, I give great hugs!
(hey…a sidenote…I have registered with TypePad, but how do you get a picture and how do you follow people, and how do you get email notifications?)
BIG GIANT HUG,
Fran
I can be stronger than chocolate, but it is all mental work….I have to
use my mind, and not my emotions. There is no happy medium for me. This works
better for me….It’s too bad that all those yummy foods have a price for
some of us to pay lol The reality, right? It’s all mind control for me.
But sometimes, I have to admit, I just have to indulge in the goodies some
of the time, or what is the use? LOL A little chocolate here and there,
works best for me….Hugs,
Miss Krystal
Morning Jesse,
I can see that the last email wasn’t complete…sorry.
I didn’t think I had sent it at all! YIKES! You’re not the only one that’s computer challenged!
I was going to ask you why you said “D” had a “great deal of insecurities” about me…
I know why I’m insecure about him.
Going to try not to think about him so much.
I’m planning to focus mostly on business and continue to work on myself and get healthy and fit…physically and emotionally.
Gina Rose is confident of his call and his interest in me and I will remain open to him if he does so…so we will see.
My daughter’s are both home. My oldest hasn’t been home since December…it’ so nice to have them both here! We spent the afternoon at the beach yesterday and then went out for dinner and then for a drink. We had a blast…they are so funny and we laughed so hard!
One leaves this afternoon and the other in the morning. I LOVE being a Mom and really miss those years when we were all together…oldest works on wall street-youngest a producer of the news and journalist. BOTH are beautiful to look at(which is a gift from God) BUT, more importantly, are such nice young women…I’m proud of them.
Hope your day is a good one.
Blessings!
ST
Dear ST,
I think only part of your comment went through, baby girl…you may want to
try that again
Love and blessings,
Jesse 9027
My dear M.,
I am so proud of you for continuing to take on such world altering projects!
If you could only see how big this is going to be! (But maybe it’s best that
you don’t…it may be too intimidating! LOL!)
When you finish with the paper, you will still feel like it needs even more
“tweaking” and you will remember a million things that you should have
written instead of what was delivered, but that’s the task of writing. It’s
like raising a child…once they leave your hands, there will always be
things you wish you would have done differently, but that’s when the
Universe has the chance to really take over and shine. Your work will never
go unnoticed, my dear friend!
Love,
Jesse 9027
Jesse,
I find it interesting that you said “D” has a great deal of insecrites w
On Mon, Aug 17, 2009 at 1:01 AM, TypePad
Hey, cool ! I can get used to this…! Well, the “whip” worked… I stayed up all night (literally) but i am almost done with my paper and i feel a lot better about it (albeit a bit in a cloud this morning!!). It needs a little bit more tweaking but we are definitely going somewhere now (format and content). Thanks again, Jesse. You really are the best…
xxoxx
Hi Jesse,
Oh, no problem…there are times when this computer can really
challenge me as well!
Another favorite song of mine is by James Taylor, Going to
Carolina”…now of course I AM in Carolina full time! I just fell in
love with the south and especially this island with all of it’s
natural beauty…live oak tress dripping with spanish moss, miles of
ocean and beautiful beaches, abundant wildlife, and so much more…I
especially love the softness of the air…he (James Taylor) in fact
recently moved here, or so I’m told…
Yes, Gina Rose is special…as I can tell are you.
I have not called many psychics, I guess when I find someone I click
with that I stick to that person (seems to fit the pattern in ALL of
my relationships) LOL!
I do think that I will be calling you sometime though. I so enjoy
“talking” to you via the blog and would like to do so “in person” as
well!
You have a very calming and nurturing way about you Jesse.
Love to “listen in” on stories about Texas between you and Brown Eyes
and smile when I think of your van!
So far as “D”, I was feeling so disappopinted tonite that he had not
called. I think it might be best just to try to find tools to stop
thinking about him. I’m kind of wondering if thinking about him so
much is not helathy for me. I don’t want to “kid” myself…seems as if
he was interested in me that he would have let me know by now.He does
seem to “go after” what he wants…and maybe I’m just not “it” for
him.
But, as you said, “things are going to work out with “D” as they should”.
And in spite of being disappopinted that he has not called…I woke in
the middle of the night to a sweet note from a new friend (you) and am
lying here with my faitfhul companion, my puppy Charlie and my primary
emotion is one of gratitude that I am so blessed.
Sometimes I ask my little guy if he is really an angel that God has
sent to me! He brings me such comfort and companionship and oh does he
make me smile! Sometimes darn right belly laugh!
Sending love and blessings to you too Jesse,
ST
On Mon, Aug 17, 2009 at 1:01 AM, TypePad
Beautiful M!
Yes, It worked! Great job! I am so happy you are among us all now out here
in the “cyberworld!” LOL! Jump on in, the water is fine!
With love and geuine admiration,
Jesse 9027
Dear Jesse,
I just sent you a reply without signing in. I have now my account and wanted to see if sending you a reply after signing in makes a difference..we should be all set now. As usual, thanks for everything Jesse. You are the best !
Dear ST,
I’m glad you are following her advice.
I am so glad that you understood about my computer challenged brain! LOL!
And “Brown Eyed Girl” by Van Morrison is an incredible favorite of mine,
too! It is the perfect summer song! Do you have any favorite “summer songs”?
I’d love to hear more from clients as to what are some of their personal
favorites of various things.
Thank you for clearing up some of my curiosities about things with you and
“D”. Personally, if Gina Rose told me something, I’d take it to the bank!
I am very impressed that you know how to keep yourself focused and balanced!
Great job! Kudos on not surrendering yourself just to make someone else
happy. That is great wisdom!
I know things are going to work out with “D” as they should. Please stay
strong and stay focused!
Love and many blessings,
Jesse 9027
Hi Jesse,
Just following up on our conversation.. i am not very good with computer, so i am hoping this will work.
xx00xx
Fran,
I sometimes feel as if I’m listening to myself talk when reading your
emails.I too, felt as if marrying my ex was “the right and sensible”
thing to do. I’m so glad that I did as I have my girls…BUT, I knew
he wasn’t the right man for me…if there is such a man.
I wrote an email to Brown Eyes..please read that to see where I am in
my thought process with “D”.
All I know for sure is that I don’t know much…Now, I’m wondering if
it would be “safer” to forget the passion and accept a life mate that
is more settled and sensible that could ease some of my stress in
life.
How odd it would be for me to go through so much only to end up with
another boring but stable and sensible man…
This “passion thing” for “D” makes me feel like I’ve lost my mind…
I’m kind of rambling….sorry my friend.
Guess I’m more disappointed that “D” hasn’t called than I’m willing to admit…
So sad…might be time to move on…
Wil sign off for now before I depress the whole gang with feeling
sorry for myself.
Sorry..
ST
On Sun, Aug 16, 2009 at 9:11 PM, TypePad
MIss Krystal,
Well, we have reversed roles..now you are eating healthy and I have
fallen off (or onto) the sugar wagon! LOL!
I’m trying to get back to good habits…I did my pliates, and a beach
walk…ate healthy…until I went to the store tonite…I had brownes
with nuts in my cart..BUT, I did put them back and bought one of those
weight watchers snacks-individula serving…so I have one small
victory!!
Sugar really is addicting for me…
I’m proud of you…keep up the good work! You are stronger than the chocolate!!
ST
On Sun, Aug 16, 2009 at 9:11 PM, TypePad
Dear Sea Turtle,
I like that…just “float” for a while. I have a book called Flowdreaming by Summer McStravick. It’s all about manifesting and really just going with the “flow” which is an actual place you see in your mind…like a river or a current of energy. It’s pretty cool.
I can’t believe that I’ll be 47 in October. How did so many years go by in such a short amount of time??? I still feel (in my mind, anyway) like I’m in my 20′s, but my body is sure starting to feel like it’s in its late 40′s!!! LOL!!
You know how you were talking about “knowing” when the time is right? Or just “knowing” when you’ve got to do something? That’s what it was like when I got married. I knew that I wasn’t in love, but I had this feeling in my gut that it was the thing I had to do at the time. And it hasn’t been awful. Just…I don’t even have words to describe it. It’s just been. You know what I mean? We have three kids. My son is 19, my middle daughter is 15, and my youngest will be 13 in October. They’re such nice kids. Sure, they drive me crazy sometimes, but we have a really close relationship. I guess I’m most worried about how they’ll handle everything. The last thing in the world I want to do is hurt them, but I need to do this. I need to leave. But I am waiting until I know in my gut that the time is right.
You’re so sweet for wanting to share your experience with me. If it’s too painful for you, then I don’t want you to relive it. But if it’s something you want to talk about, I have two shoulders you can always cry on.
Were you able to see the meteor shower on the East Coast the other night? The first night was way too cloudy, but the next couple of nights were clear, and we saw several shooting stars. That’s one of my favorite things to do.
Thanks for being such a sweet, dear friend.
Love,
Fran
Hi Jesse,
That’s okay…my oldest daughter has beautiful brown eyes…whenever I
hear the song “Brown Eyed Girl”, I think of her! And, I don’t mind
being mistaken for “Brown Eyes” on this blog as she is such a
sweetheart!!
As far as why I am not calling “D”. Two reasons at this point…Gina
Rose told me not to chase him and that he would call me-so I’m hoping
that what she and the guides have told me will happen-meant to happen
aytime now…once he does, I will make it very EASY for him…!
Also, he hurt me last Dec. and I’m not interested in more of the
same…I guess I need a sign or reassurance from him that he does have
legitimate feelings for me. He usually goes after what he wants with a
vengeance, so it seems as if he did miss me and want me…that he
would let me know…?
I would like to be with him, but not at any cost..not over my self
respect. I think I would add a lot to his life and would like to be
free to love him…but so far he has been quite the player…and that
I am not interested in.
I’m not able to have “casual sex”…not judging anyone for doing
so…sometimes I wish I could….just doesn’t work for me.
And so, here I am hoping that he does think of me, want me, miss me,
and will call.
Thanks for your kind words…I always love hearing from you!
BIG HUG,
ST
On Sun, Aug 16, 2009 at 1:59 PM, TypePad
Hi ST,
I feel the same way about sugar. I wish I could be one of these people that
can just take a bite of stuff. But I am not…
Now that I have been taking a break for a long time, I don’t want it as
bad. So I am back on my path….I keep asking myself, “Who is stronger, the
chocolate or me?” lol
Hugs,
Miss Krystal
Dear ST,
I am so sorry that I addressed your response with BrownEyes’ title. I knew
who I was writing, just put the wrong name to it! I hope you find it anyway.
If not, I’ll be happy to send it again.
These things are what happens when I am turned loose on a computer. LOL!
Love and blessings,
Jesse 9027
Dear Brown Eyes,
Thank you so much for sending me your original post. That was very sweet of
you!
Wow! It looks like there is a great deal of passion around you and always
has been. “D” has a great deal of insecurities when it comes to you and that
is very obvious.I really believe that pride and insecurity are the two
things that can kill even the very healthiest of relationships….and, it
appears, that you and “D” have more than your fair share of them both.
Is there any reason you won’t call him? I’m sure it must have occurred to
you that it was no “real” accident that you called his number when you were
trying to reach your mother. I find it interesting that you were intending
to call someone who traditionally represents your first connection with love
and instead called the person who represents the greatest passionate love
you have known in your life….and the most recent.
Without having a proper reading with you, these are just feelings and
thoughts of mine. I don’t know if they will help, but I sure hope they will,
baby girl. You are a truly beautiful spirit and ANY man would be darn lucky
to call you his own!
With love and many blessings,
Jesse 9027
Hi Fran,
I was reading what you wrote to “happinessintheworld”, and I sure can relate as those were my exact concerns when married to my children’s Dad…I too was very close to my in-laws and especially my father-in-law.
Do you mind me asking you how old you are Fran? I kind of notice a pattern with women of a certain age…myself included.
As you know, I did go through with leaving my husband. A lot of good has come from it…however, it’s not an
easy road to choose and there are some regrets.
I can’t rememer the kids ages?
If you would like for me to share the down side that I have experienced..let me know. It’s kind of painful to think about…but if it might help you or other women…I will do so.
One thing I have discovered is that when I’m not 100% sure about a decision…I have found it best to do nothing until I know that I know…I call it “floating”…just try to be still and listen as you pray.
There really is no hurry…especially when making such a life changing decision.
Just “float” awhile my friend..until you know that you know that you know…
Love,
ST
Miss Krystal,
Glad you’re feeling better about your friend moving.
Well, I’m NOT doing so well with my eating…oh, I’m eating for
sure…I ate the entire time I was in NY and for the entire 18 hour
trip back home! Tootsie rolls, chocolate covered pecans, a
donut,scones, chocolate zucchini cake, itialin pastries in NY, rum
cake, greek food, italian food,…lots of stuff!!
I haven’t even felt “true hunger” since I got to NY.
My 14 year old niece is visiting me for a week or two, so we went for
a beach walk with the boys and are going to do some healthy food
shopping this afternoon.
Sugar is like a drug to me…once I start…it’s difficult to stop! IREALLY!
I feel so much better when I eat healthy foods…
If “D” calls today I wouldn’t want to see him as I feel like a
“WHALE”! YUK!! LOL! Hey, could be good birth control!! LOL!
Happy Weekend!
ST
On Sat, Aug 15, 2009 at 3:35 PM, TypePad
Hi ST,
I was shocked when I first heard the news. Of course I don’t want her to
go, but then, I thought about it, and realized that I will just have to
visit, as I do with other friends who have left L.A.
It was just the initial shock. I am fine now. But I wish she could stay, of
course. All is good now.
Glad you got back safe. So happy for you that you got refreshed. I am still
on my little health kick…I don’t want to eat candy all of the time,
anymore. I want to go back to my original way, which is a reward here and
there….It works better for me, as I will just want it all of the time if I do
not do that. It’s strange how some times the candy can kinda call your name
lol
I am trying to show the candy I am stronger than it is lol
Seriously….And besides, it taste so much better when I use it as a
reward.
Hope all is fine,
Miss Krystal
Hi Jesse,
Here is my original answer to your questions..so you don’t have to look for it!
SeaTurtle said in reply to Psychic – Jesse – x9027…
Hi Jesse,
Your words truly resonate with me and often bring tears to my eyes. You are obviously a very special woman.
In answer to your questions about “D”.
I was married for 22 years to my children’s Dad-he is a physician.
Shortly after the divorce I met a handsome man that looked like Pierce Brosnan-English/S. Afican. I made the mistake of marrying him-he was/is a true deadbeat-never worked-lied and stole from me. It took me seven years to get the courage to divorce him. I knew immediately that I had made a mistake-but was so embarassed to be facing a second divorce.
Around 6 weeks after I legally separated I met the man who I can’t get off of my mind.-His name is “D”-we met on aon internet dating site-live on a small island at the tip of S. Carolina-he is also a physician.
We spoke for around one and a half months before we met-we really talked about everything and liked each other very much–lots of laughter. Then we met-sparks flew-and then a strange “on again” “off again” relatonship of eight months ensued.
When we were physical, it was intense, we seemed to stimulate each other mentally, and I “thought” we had developed a very nice friendship as well.
Yet, his pattern was to come close and then to disappear.
Last December he tried to come back into my life. Called 30 times in one week, said he missed me, cared about me, afraid he was getting to close, pulled away, etc. etc.
I finally gave in-I answered after the 30th call…see him..make love…and then a few days later as I am coming out of a restroom in a restaurant…he is sitting there with another woman. He looked at me as if he were a deer in headlights!
I acknowledged him with a nod and smile. Did not make a scene. Went home and cried for a month. Had not seen or heard from him until around two months ago.
He calls-hangs up-does not leave a message- I did not call him back.
Then around two weeks ago. I am calling my Mom-from a new private number-dial him by mistake-realize it was his cell phone-hang up-he calls the number back and hears my voice message.
He then calls me four times the next day…I finally return his call and am honest and tell him I called him by mistake.
A brief polite few lines exchanged.
I see him at a birthday party last Saturday…
And am wondering/hoping if he will call again or wants to be back in my life?
That’s it in a nutshell…
So, we will see.
Sending you a BIG HUG,
ST
Hi Miss Krystal,
Well, I made it back to my island! WAHOO!
Can’t wait to get on that beach with “my boys”!
I’m so glad that you’re feeling better. I know that it was a sad time for you…I’ve been there myself.
And, yes, you’re right…now you have another person to visit! Hopefully, she moved somewhere pleasant.
Talk to you soon.
ST
Hi Sea Turtle-
I am totally fine now about my friend moving away.
It was hard at first. But I look forward to getting closer to the people
I already have in my life, and to be open to the new folks coming around.
But thanks so much for your concern. I am truly fine with it, and am ready to
embrace it! And, besides, I now have another person to visit….
I am glad you got to take a vacation! And where you live, sounds like a
vacation, too!
Hugs,
Miss Krystal
Dear Brown Eyes,
Wherever you are, I hope you are really enjoying yourself. I think it is
great that you are still logging on and sharing your wonderful energy with
us all!
I’ll be writing an article for CP really soon that I hope will help you (and
others) find even more inspiration and energy for their life path. (It
certainly helped me a great deal.) I hope you’ll watch for it. I’d love love
to have your opinion about it. It will called “Your Perfect Day”.
I will try to find your comments in other posts and if I can figure out how
to “follow” someone, I’d love to keep up with you that way
Be safe, be happy, be strong!
Many blessings,
Jesse 9027
Hi Miss Krystal!
(end result
Hmmm…I’ll think about what you said for sure.
Gina Rose told me he would call and not to chase him, that’s what
feels right in my spirit as well, so that is my plan at this time.
You also told me he would call me soon.
I don’t feel as if I’m over riding any of the predictions with my
“free will”…but, in fact, allowing things to happen as predicted.
I understand what you’re saying, kind of…but it seems that if I were
to manipulate the situation..and he has not worked out his stuff..that
I would get more of the same…and that I do not want.
If the end result is the end result…then I’m willing to be patient
and let what the guides said would happen…happen!
was we would be together). So far they have been correct.
I think it makes sense…
How are you feeling with the loss of your friend moving?
I can’t wait to get on my beach and back to my pilates and healthy eating!
I do appreciate you and your thoughts…and am hopeful that the
predictions will manifest soon!
Hugs,
ST
On Thu, Aug 13, 2009 at 12:46 PM, TypePad
Dear Sea Turtle,
It is good to hear from you. I am glad your NY trip has been good.
There is nothing wrong with you, as the client, using your free will
energy.
A lot of people do. And that is fine.
We sometimes can only move forward in something, only “if” things could be
a certain way. And that is fine, too. A lot of people get readings, and
then decide, that they will only continue to play out their hand if they see
the situation turning in desired direction. Sometimes, psychics can see
things moving faster if certain attitude/actions are taken, and I am saying
this “in general” and not to any particular situation….
Like I said, it is okay to use your free will energy. That is what is in
your soul right now. If your soul and heart have come to a point where, “I
can’t go on unless I see this.” Then that is your answer…..We all have been
there…We only want it a certain way. And that is okay….But keep in
mind, you may possibly see still, where the person in question has the same
issues, and trying to get through them. Some of your guidance has been on
how to deal with that….
Thanks.
Miss Krystal
Hi! I’m sorry it’s taken so long to respond to you, but I just got back from a much-needed vacation.
When I read what you’re going through, it was as if I was reading about myself. Always putting others first, not wanting to “upset the apple cart,” making sure everyone else is happy, even if I’m not. I guess the biggest thing I’m afraid of is not being alone, but how my decision will affect everyone else. I think about how my kids will react, and if they’ll resent me for leaving their father (they adore him) and breaking up the home; I think about how his family will react…his parents are in their 80′s, and not very healthy. And believe it or not, I worry about how my husband will handle it…I don’t want him to be hurt, but that’s exactly what’s going to happen. Ugh! This is the most difficult thing I’ve ever had to deal with. I’m not in a rush, but I know that I’ve got to do something about this situation sooner than later.
I am sending LOTS of love and light your way, too!
Hi Jesse,
I’ve been away (still am), and it seems that you have been as well.
I’ve never been to Texas, but would love to visit, especially after getting to know you and Brown Eyes!
I did answer your questions from your email last week and wanted to be sure that you saw that. The email is way down the list..but there!
I just love reading and receiving your emails. You are so loving and wise…
Reading your emails is like getting a HUG!
Hope you are well and that your life is filled with blessings!
A hug to you too!
ST
HI ClaraBell,
(love your name)!
Thanks for your email. Yes, I agree…no matter what happens…it will be okay.
I am not pining away by any means. I am a blessed woman with a good life. It would be nice to have “D” as part of it and to be free to love him…
And so far as Gina Rose or Miss Krystal being “wrong”…I wouldn’t hold them to anything…just hope they are right!
Hugs,
ST
Good morning Miss Krystal,
Well, I am still in NY and having such a nice time. It’s been great to see people that I haven’t seen in years. Eating way too much…especially “Italian pastries”…I do have a sweet tooth!
Anyway, I just read your email and I wanted to thank you for taking the time to send me your thoughts.
The thing is, I don’t truly see it the way you seem to…which is okay…and it is so helpful to consider different points of view. Other than “D” calling me four times after I had called him by mistake, I really don’t see how he has made an effort? After all, I did call him back and we had a brief conversation, however, he did not indicate that he wanted to see me…and in fact, denied calling me the previous month and then said “could be”…”that he didn’t remember”. Fine, perhaps male ego…
Then, at the party, it was I that approached him. Again, light conversation…but he did not say he missed me or that he would like to see me. So far, no call…although you had thought he would call “soon”…and we are still within the time frame that Gina Rose gave me from her guides…and she seemed very sure that it would be within that two week time frame, and so I am hopeful.
Although I am a strong woman…I don’t think that I am stubborn. “D” did hurt me and I feel as if I have made some steps that would clear the path if he indeed does want to see me. I am not willing to chase him…
And, yes, I’m almost 100% sure that if I called him…he would be more than glad to show up at my door. That’s the easy part…I’m looking for more than that…AND, I think he knows that. He would probably “show up” at just about any woman’s door if he thought he could spend a few hours in bed…sad, but was true at least in the past. So, that does NOT make me feel special.
I care about “D”, will make it very easy for him and be welcoming when he does call…BUT, I can’t sell my self respect out in an effort to lure him in. I actually want him to make a conscious EFFORT to re-enter my life. If he does that, it would be a positive sign that perhaps he is tiring of playing the field so voraciously.
So, my friend, those are the facts the way that I see them and my thoughts as well.
I do appreicate you telling me if you think that “I’m off” in any way. I agree with you that it has to be a two way street…but again, it was I that approached him at the party and I was very gracious and kind to him. The ball is in his court…
Starting my drive back to my beautiful island tomorrow…ahhhh…miss my beach and my live oak trees dripping with spanish moss…
Blessings back to you too!
ST
Hey Jesse – I don’t know if you posted your reply prior to the one I posted on August 11th or not, but I do hope you read what I wrote. I so appreciate your wonderful kind advice, and so much of what you said rings true, but I do not feel that I am “suffering” any longer. It just seems as though whenever I get better with my releasing of this man, he does something that pulls me back a bit. I truly know that I will never be able to fully release him unless he or I move far, far away and that’s just not a possibility for me at this time. It has been a very tough road and one that I never thought I would be on, but I have been learning my life lessons and have opened myself to the fact that there is many wonderful prospective men out there. I am just going to be very careful in my “selection process”. Thanks again, Jesse.
Hi NYHolly,
Thank You for your kind words…glad I could help , and I can tell from your posting that you really do ” get it “.
My Guides are here for you…..should you need us.
Blessed Be )O(…Gina Rose ext.9500
To all – especially Gina Rose:
It’s sooo weird but so true what Gina Rose says about the Karmic Tie and being on level with all 4 planes – spiritual, emotional, physical and mental! Alhtough still haunted by a past love that 98% of my psychics say I will eventually be with – I met someone last weekend that just took my breath away. We danced a few songs, and gave each other some nice hugs as we talked all through the night on the beach. I was away on one of my outings with my old girlfriends and there was an emergency with one of my friends. To make a very long story short, it was an extremely upsetting night and this guy seemed like a knight in shining armor to me. I was so incredibly ready, so incredibly ready to have this man be the real thing!! Finally a real chance for love and to possibly get rid of my feelings for KC, the man in the past that everyone says I will be with!!! This “new guy”, Jeff was a bit different and didn’t have a cell phone, but I gave him my number and left it that he could call me if he wanted to. All day Saturday and Sunday, I thought of him in a very reflective way and do wanted to hear from him. I was actually making plans in my head to get back to where he lived to be able to continue to see him. There was no call until out of the blue yesterday. We talked for over an hour and he said he would call me again on Wed. After I got off the phone with him, I really thought about us and how I felt deep inside. Last night I went over many of my reading notes from my favorite psychics. Yes, many predicted this meeting with Jeff, but funny – no one said he was the one I would be with – only KC on that end!:) Then I came across my last reading with Gina Rose about the karmic tie and 4 planes. Jeff and I truly experienced 2 of the 4 – emotional and physical, but we were way off on the mental and spiritual! KC and I had all 4 planes! (and I can honestly say KC’s the ONLY one I have experienced a karmic tie with in my lifetime thus far!) I never had all 4 with the man I had married – just 3! Just way too cool how this helped me! It’s a great gut check – ALL 4 planes! I do hope there is more than KC out there that would fit my karmic tie as I really don’t see him ever coming back into my life in a permanent way. But now I know that I won’t ever, ever settle for less! I will explain this to Jeff on Wednesday when he calls and thank him for an indelible memory and wish him well on finding his true karmic tie. Thanks so much Gina Rose and all the psychics who have helped in so so so many ways I can’t even describe! Love and blessing to all!