In Red‘s tri-weekly column, Red ext. 9226 Responds, she received a question from a frustrated writer who can’t seem to find the life she wants. Check out what Red had to say, here.
Is anyone else feeling this way? Please share your stories!
As the “psychic” says, “Think of this…: Tricked me once, shame on you. Trick me twice, shame on me.”
Please don’t waste your money and time on this non-sense! No one, especially some one asking for money in return, can foresee your future. If you can’t foresee it, what makes you think someone charging you money can do it? Please, keep your money and apply your precious time addressing your issues in a constructive manner.
I don’t know anything about horoscopes and astrology, but your boyfriend is my age. Seems to me that he missed you, or he felt like he could come back to you, after exploring new boundaries. After two weeks, he breaks it off again, seems like he’s made up his mind about his relationship with you. While he may be someone you keep in touch with or not, if he loved you, you would know. If he wanted you, he wouldn’t have gone so quickly.
Sounds like he broke your heart. I would think that he may try to make a move again, since you did allow him back once already, but you will have to hold out on him to see if he is for real about his feelings for you. Let him know that you are not to be treated as a backup plan. It may be hard, because you obviously love him, but do you really want to go through it again? Make your boundaries clear, and stick to them. You are going to have to mature past his way of thinking. Think of this if he ever wants to try again: Tricked me once, shame on you. Trick me twice, shame on me.
At the same time, don’t go hoping that he will try again. This is naiive, and a big mistake! While you convince yourself that you are moving on, and that when he comes back, he’ll get his, you are in truth holding yourself back, and opening yourself to mistakes and painful love cycles. Good luck!
I am desperately seeking answers about my ex and I Cory. His birthday is Jan. 19, 1985. After being broken up for a year, he wanted to try things again. After two weeks he broke it off. Does he love me? Will we ever get back together again?
Please someone help me I am so lost
Desperately seeking a glimpse! My husband died 3.5 years ago from Lou Gehrigs (ALS)and than the worst economy since the depression hit!. I have lost everything except for the roof over my head (I need to know if I’ll still have that!) When this all started I had a vision that told me it would all be ok. I’m starting to wonder if that was just hopefull thinking. I don’t know which way to turn or which way to go. I keep trying daily to make it better! Yes, I keep trying to focus on the end results being great! I feel I am open to all probabilites! How can I take lifes stepping stones when I don’t know which way to step? I have suffered terribly over the years! It’s like my soul is screeming out, and needs the answer now! Am I where I am supposed to be? When will this great outcome come? What is the direction to this great outcome? I need to see the happiness and security or at least a glimpse of where it is and when it will get here! I know the cruelties that have been done to me on this journey, God will take care of! I realize the strength they have taught me! It is hard to take the stepping stones in life when your not sure which way to step! I feel sometimes it is best to put it out their and be open to the answer. What is next? I feel like it’s right their but i just can’t quite see it! I need help with the next step, what is it and is this nightmare almost over? I need to smile and feel the freedom again, is it now? I want all of you that are suffering now to know my heart aches for you too!
As busy as I am, I always find the time to read Red’s column. She positive and sincere at the same time. I sent my question in awhile back and didnt get an answer. Seems that the questions that she does highlight, are more urgent than mine……so I dont mind. Keep up the great work, Red.
Fran lol you crack me up. You are funny!
Haha! I just hope “something” happens on the way to the Coloseum!! LOL!! LOL!!
Great point-I firmly believe looking at only one outcome does slow down final outcomes.
It really is freeing and important to allow ourselves to see possibilities along the way, and I have seen many times that is true in wanting to hurry outcomes in relationships as well.
hello there fran-
thanks! rome was not built in a day.
Hi Miss Krystal,
I like that…..”enjoy the moments and…embrace the steps.” Very sage advice. Something we should all strive to live by. Thank you.
I hope all is well with you. It would be nice to see you at a xmas party sometime. Wish you could make it down here..
I agree with everything Jacqueline is saying. Stepping stones are so important. Giant leaps are only going to make things more difficult. I enjoy the moments and I embrace the steps. If that makes sense. Thanks Red and Thanks Jacqueline.
I agree, Red is awesome! I was fortunate enough to have a question to my issue answered in her column last year. Her answer was straightforward kind of in a way a big sister would articulate it & put me back on the right path. I can hardly wait to read her columns. It’s really great that they now have audio of her answers as well. It’s always nice to hear the voice that goes with the face. Many blessings to you all!
Red is just awesome, and not only do I enjoy reading her column, I enjoy talking to her when I’m lucky enough to get on her waiting list!!
Red has a remarkable way of making you feel comfortable, and she can easily calm your fears. Her confidence is contagious, and her laugh delightful.
Hope more articles from you are on the way!
Jacqueline x9472 said….
Wonderful response, I do believe that to many times we only look at one outcome, when perhaps the more suited end result appears in front of us, the more we are open to all probabilities and trust that we are on the right path, because we always are, there are truly no mistakes in life just stepping stones that will give us the best results and successful experience.
Remember when manifesting just look at the end results, like in this case being a successful, happy writer.
When we look at all the steps and expect a certain outcome within those steps it can hold, even perhaps slow down the final outcome.
Key is look at every opportunity as a stepping stone and be happy within that space and know more is on its way!
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