So You Wanna Date a Libra?

October 1, 2009 at 5:00 pm

You may be interested in dating a Libra, but you may have heard stereotypes about Libras: they’re charming, but they cheat… they’re fair, but non-committal. Like every astrological sign, the characteristics of a Libra can manifest in both good and bad ways. Here a few pros and cons of being with a Libra – and thoughts on how to make the Libra personality work in your relationship.

Pro: fair and diplomatic
Con: indecisive and insecure

All signs of the zodiac are represented by either a person or an animal – except Libra, whose sense of justice is represented by a set of scales. Libras tend to put fairness above all else. They don’t like conflict, and often take the role of intermediary to get those around them to cooperate. Their sense of fairness and diplomacy can be refreshing in a world full of self-interested people.

On the other hand, Libras are so concerned with avoiding conflict that they are often indecisive and insecure. Being in a relationship with a Libra can be frustrating if your partner is more concerned with making things appear fair than with taking a stand.

The key to being with a Libra is to praise them for their noble ability to take in multiple points of view and try to create harmony. When they’re being indecisive, gently prod them into action by reminding them that they can still make a decision one way or another – without sacrificing fairness.

Pro: pleasant, charming
Con: frivolous and flirtatious

Libras are notoriously charming and have a fondness for extravagance in all areas, including romance. Motivated by beauty and pleasure, Libras have a unique ability to surround a relationship in incredible sensuality. Of course the flips side is that Libras often don’t limit their sensuality to their main squeezes. They are so drawn to the beauty of potential partners that they may indulge in reckless flirtations.

The key is to tell your Libra how much you enjoy their sensuality. Thank them for their romantic gestures. If you sense that a flirtation with someone else is going too far, make it clear that such behavior is unacceptable. Being born under the Libra sign isn’t a get out of jail free card, after all.

Pro: perceptive
Con: scatterbrained

Because of their sense of fairness, Libras are often perceptive about the feelings of those around them – and are often considered the most empathetic of all signs of the zodiac. More than mere social grace, the Libra can possess an ability to sense the wants and needs of others.

Of course, absorbing the energy of other people can set Libras apart from the crowd. They may be affected by others’ moods, but because of the intuitive nature of these experiences, they cannot always share them. Because of their psychic abilities to perceive disharmony, Libras can seem unfocused, scatterbrained or inconsistent.

The solution is to acknowledge your Libra’s gift of perception, and offer support when they are overwhelmed by it. Be conscious of how your own energy may be affecting them, and offer them some alone time as a sanctuary from the disharmony that surrounds them.

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  1. maria May 16, 2014 at 6:06 am

    Libra woman= if i feel that im not getting the love and attention that i want, i will look else where for it. So dont blame us if we leave you for someone else.im not a very patient person, it takes a lot for me to be patient with somone who isnt giving me what i feel i deserve.i was with a very jealous sagitarius asshole who did nothing but belittle me and critisize me, hid me away from the world. As i got the (strength) (it took alot) to leave. I now settle for nothing less then what i feel i deserve. Im a strong woman and a survivor of horrible abuse phisical and mental, emotional.we love hard,and so mutch that it kills us to decide to leave, if we have to. All i want is stability and to be with that one person who loves me no matter what.


  2. maria May 16, 2014 at 5:51 am

    I am a loving libra woman, i cannot stand to be with a man who is too quiet, bcuz i dont know what he’s thinking or feeling and i feel y should i be the aggressive one all the time. Im a very sincere loving libra who just wants someone to appreaciate me and to not take advantage of my kindness.we libras want to have balance and if it isnt we would rather leave. When im with someone i am loyal and for those of you who have said all those negstive b.s comments about libras your full of shit. All libras are not golddigging cheaters


  3. Roger April 13, 2014 at 9:39 am

    I am a Gemini man married to a Libra woman for 38 years. We are supposed to be a perfect match. But she is so set in her ways. She is almost always wrong and will never admit it. She has cheated on me. Libras are the worst sign. They have no redeeming characteristics. They can’t make up their mind and will argue with you over everything. It is very annoying. They are the worse sign because they can never decide on anything and second quess everything you do. They LOVE to argue with NO reasoning behind it. They don’t listen to reasoning at all. It is soooooooo frustrating. Not worth it. If you are in a relationship with one RUN……….


  4. Erric March 7, 2014 at 10:17 am

    I’m a Virgo male hooked up and fell madly in love with a Libra woman. It’s not easy as its a long distance I’ll wait for you, you wait for me relationship. Come to find out astrologically its a bad match. And so far its panning out that way. I can’t seem to crack her armor no matter how hard I try. I have done and have commuted to all the compromising.


  5. Vikki February 14, 2014 at 4:54 am

    I’m a libra.i do love beautiful things.but I’m loyal ,will speak my mind,no matter what.ive dated all the other signs.true I will flirt at times.but I’ve been in a relationship for many years and never cheated,and don’t plan on doing so.im happy with myself,and that’s all that matters.there r good and bad people in every sign,So don’t us for your problems.


  6. Mr.Miller Jr. January 17, 2014 at 9:12 pm

    I am a Libra and I am dating an Aries. I lover her very much, but the intimacy between us is unsatisfying. We have talked about what to do to fix this, but not much has really changed. She talks about wanting to get married, but I don’t think anything will change if we get married. We can’t even get intimacy right, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life feeling unfulfilled. What should I do?


  7. loni November 15, 2013 at 6:16 pm

    You all realize that you posted personality & relationship traits/dynamics that can appear in any one/relationship. Fools.


  8. Lisa October 6, 2013 at 8:07 am

    This is SO TRUE. I just got into astrology because I’m in a sexual relationship with a libra man. He is so sexy, so passionate, so sexually intense. He is introverted, hates liars and is abe to see right through me. He’s a cop, a detective. He looks at me with such voracity. He’s muscular, pays a lot of attention to his looks. Loves the way I look. makes me feel beautiful sexy and smart. I am tall, and used to model (10 years ago lol) but i still look the part at 38. I get compliments from men all the time but compliments coming from him, i really feel. We have sex everywhere. He’s insatiable and knows how to make me insatiable. He brings out my sexual side by seducing me with his silence and mysteriousness. He never pushes me, he waits for me to come to him. He’s So calm, refined and classy. I never understood his personality in the past. We’ve had several affairs over the years, which broke up his marriage. Now I’m married to another and we’re at it again. He has no vindictiveness, just loves wining, dining and ravaging me! It’s hot. I cluld never be with him in a relationship though because he has no psrsonality beyond sex and being good to look at. me and my husband are like best buds. We constsmtly laugh together and do fun things. My husband is hot too but also hot tempered. he’s a Leo who likes the attention of the world rather than me. His idea of hot sex is poking me with it in the middle of the night and saying “You wanna?” NOT! He’s the opposite of Mr.Sexy and doesn’t know how to make me want sex with him. Mr sexy looks at me intently, pulls me to him and TAKES me! He talks throughout the whole act, he can say hot crazy freakish things like “look at me when im fucking you” of be romantic and say I want you forever” he makes me feel like I’m in a movie. He’s so different but he is a Libra and although they say that they’re outgoing, it’s in an introverted way. If has to be organized confusion. He can be outgoing but if has to be planned lol . Sexually, he’s the opposite. I could NEVER marry a libra although we once thought we could, because there’s no personality. Too stuffy, too concerned with etiquette and what others think. Too stuck on the “right way” to do things. They’re Weirdos with a passionate deductive side. Love ‘em!


  9. barry September 30, 2013 at 5:02 pm

    I do not like Libran’s at all, Horrible people. If the snake were not committed to the Chinese Zodiac I would apportion it to Libra. Look at some of the people who have been Libran and make your own judgements. Alexander Putin, Margaret Thatcher, David Cameron, Sebastian Coe, Richard 111, Silvio Beillusconi the list could go on forever but the important thing is they are, all of them, selfish, all of them determined to get precisely what they want and all of them prepared to step on anyone to get it. Beware that fixed smile, it’s a film set, there’s nothing behind it not even a decent set of teeth. Libra will never get anywhere with me because I was born on the cusp of Virgo and Libra and I know what to look for. Everything that ever was ugly in me is Libra and it’s Libra that I try to bury ( for good if I could ). People are very kind and say they can not see Libra in me and I hope to God they are right. Being considered in any way one of the above list I ill-iterated would sadden me greatly.


  10. nancy September 7, 2013 at 10:15 am

    I am a libra and i am very loyal. Was married for 30 years until my husband past away in 2010. Libras are indecisive and to the point we cant make our minds up. We see both sides of the story. And we are very intuitive, so in relationships, watch what you say, we remember everything. So if you lie to us, we will catch you! The problem is we are very gullible. To the person that met a guy and they kissed and he act like he was interested. If he was really interested he would call you. If he doesn’t, he isn’t interested. Sometimes we say things so we don’t cause conflict, don’t mean to hurt anyone, but easier to say I will contact you and not cause trouble. Hope this helps! Nancy


  11. LIBRA VIE May 8, 2013 at 1:12 am

    This article is so true…I am a libran who can really attest to this..I am a complete picture of what has been described in the article…Good job!!!! and to all who wants a Libran woman, the best clue is…CARE!!! we do really need care..that’s iT! and we never sway…


  12. StarLove software May 5, 2013 at 6:30 am

    Hey Leo, it’s not strange being into Librans! A person’s best match is 2 signs away, in my opinion.
    I don’t like Librans because of their ruler, Venus. It tends to make them only see the superficial beauty around them.
    Like, they always want a beautiful or handsome partner above all else. Very shallow and know-all.


  13. hda February 20, 2013 at 5:13 pm

    I am a Scorpio woman, and am intrested in a libra man. We met on line, had a great time, met in person, clicked, then he came to my home. We did nothing but kuddle, and kiss for 5 hours. No sex envolved. Best time I have ever had in my life. It was the sweetest experience of all time. The next day the emails were a little different, and shorter, and not as playful. I have made one attempt to contact him in an email saying I am missing our talks, and no reply. Nothing for four days. The night in question he said we needed to do that again, and said that the kissing, and hugging was the best. So what’s up? Why is he not following through? I need some expert Libra advice. Thanks.


  14. Rich December 10, 2012 at 11:07 am

    I’m married to a beautiful Libra women for over ten years now. Being a Gemini we get along great. It was rough at first. I neglected my Libra and took her for granted. She went back to her ex for 6 months, then we got back together. It has been over 8 years since we have been reunited. We now communicate so well talking is not always necessary. She has a great intellect and open minded view on life. Our marriage is never boring. When it starts to be my Gemini nature assures creates drama mostly good theses days. She looks better than ever, is classy, flirts may-by? It does not threaten me anymore. She has my full attention. Any other men married to a Libra women, be wise and give her your best. Just make sure she has room to fly.


  15. Sarah November 1, 2012 at 10:25 am

    Why is this so alarmingly accurate?


  16. Mirdin October 24, 2012 at 12:00 am

    I am with a Libra woman and I am a Cappy, we are really happy, never had one fight, but I do get jealous when my Libra GF flirts. I love her to death though, she is the warmest, most caring person I met. Just full of Love. She is taking it out of me too. I hardly express my feelings (that hard Cap shell), but with her, I just hug her, kiss her and smile at her with no reason many times :)


  17. s October 6, 2012 at 4:20 pm

    im married to a libra and while he is very fair-minded, almost petrified of confrontation or conflict, he does not fit the charming, flirtatious sensual side of libra at al. he is loyal at all costs to his marriage, company he works for, children, etc. It would be nice to bring out a little of the sensual romantic side. How do I pull those qualities out???? help from leo married to libra. can we have spark and deep emotional commitment given our signs. Hoping for feedback–
    s.


  18. SY October 4, 2012 at 5:45 pm

    Wow I’m a Libra I am the most loyal guy around well I’m gay by the way… just wow, people need to stop generalized Libra thats just so wrong and not fair…. I think yall need to look up ya exs or yo man if they are cusp to virgo or Scorpio or see what riging and moon sign they have in their birthchart and what venus are they in! And oh, unless you guys are hating on Libras just because we too good for you??? I think the only time if I cheated (if ever, which I hope not) that is only if my man hurts me, nothing but drama, someone who always put me down, someone that may not be fair at all, or cheated on me (fair enough) even though I had a ex that cheated on me I still never tried to cheat since I have pride in my strenght and commitment to my relationship thanks to my rising leo in my birthchart… . I loved my ex who is a gemini and I still do we just good friends now.


  19. Libra_Man September 27, 2012 at 8:17 am

    I am a Libra Man, and honestly speak I do get along pretty well with all other signs. I prefer to go for Libra women though, they are just so sweet. They say always do/say the right things/words at the right time.


  20. ritad123 August 10, 2012 at 1:44 pm

    I am a Libra woman, and always have been happy to be so. I believe the combination of fairness and righteousness that are part of a Libra personality combined with growing up wiht a very strict Gemini dad helped me a lot to develop my sense of strong beliefs and not be so indecisive. I don’t lie, cheat or steal, and I may flirt Iinnocencently), but never cheat in my relationships. And I’d never think about dating someone one of my had,

    I dated my way through the horoscopes when I was young (early 50s now), and have found the following signs to work out best (in order of best): 1) Leo 2) Sagitarrius 3)Gemini 4) Aquarius. All of my planets are in air and fire, so this makes sense to me. Studied astrology all my life, and knew going in these would be best for me. Would LOVE to find the right Leo man again because they treat Libra woman like princesses…mine showered me with gifts and jewelry. And they truly deserve the praise they get because they’re WORTH it. Wish me luck finding the right Leo again.


  21. Antionette Dupree July 27, 2012 at 12:49 am

    I’m a libra and Im dating someone who is also a libra and me and him when we get to talk about thing it get crazy but other then that I think that me and him might not work because he is always accusing me of cheating and I don’t trust him neither. But I really do love him and care about him but I don’t know if he feel the same way because he was a player and he told me that he has cheated on his other girlfriends that he had.
    I don’t know what should I do with are relationship should we stay together or break up


  22. Amy Elizabeth Bevan July 4, 2012 at 12:41 pm

    I am a Gemini and I have been with two Libra’s.

    First Libra: I was with for 5 months and I thought he was amazing, he has such passion between us. We rushed into it only knowing each other a week or so. At the time I thought i could really talk to him (later on saw that it was just the Gemini in me not shutting up.) Our relationship seem to live off passion and he was so romantic. He moved away to Uni and then dumped me in a horrible way. (not going into that.) Anyway it took me a long time to get over him even though I put on a brave face. I remember someone telling me that he cheated on me before he moved away. I never asked him about it… A part of me only believed this information because I saw it as a way to get over him. Though I wouldn’t have put it part him.

    Second Libra: I am dating him right now. Like the first one is charming and made me feel like a Princess and he is so much better then the first one. For one he fraught for me for 7 months before he got me and never gave up he was my best friend before we got together, I was worried for lots of reasons (remind me a little bit of the first one even there names where the same, didn’t want to mess up our friendship ect.) Anyway even though I don’t believe a man has ever loved me so much in my life or has tried to fight for me or dose as much for me as he dose, i keep worrying about being hurt again _-


  23. Richard Lapanne June 25, 2012 at 6:30 pm

    THE WORLD IS ROUND AND LIFE IS A CIRCLE.LOVE,CARE,UNDERSTANDING,THOUGHT’S,AGREE AND DISAGREE,FUN,SMILES,INJOYMENT AND PLEASURE.BUT HAPPINESS AND FREINDSHIP IN BOTH WAY’S GET’S YOU SOMEWERE IN LIFE.RIGHT WAY AND WRONG WAY’S WILL ALWAY’S HAPPEN YOU JUST DEAL WITH IT AND PUT IT ASIDE AND GO ON.BEING ALONE WILL GET A PERSON GOING NO WERE BUT ALSO GIVE THEM A NEW CHANCE IN LIFE TO GO SOMEWERE.GOD MADE US YOUJUST HAVE TO BE PATIENT AND PUT THE PEICES TOGETHER AND THINK THEM OUT AND TIME IS A FACTOR IN WHAT EVER YOUR TRING TO PUT TOGETHER.TALK IS GOOD AND SOMETHING I LIKE DOING TO MAKE SURE THINGS ARE EVEN AND STAIGHT.A MESY RELATIONSHIP DOES NOT WORK OUT WELL FOR ANYONE.GIVING IS GOOD BUT CAN GET OUT OF HAND AND LEAD TO NOT IN YOUR HAND ANYMORE BECAUSE YOU GAVE EVERYTHING YOU HAVE AND STILL CAN NOT PLEASE THE ONE YOUR WITH OR THE FRIENDS YOU HAVE.SACRIFICE IS SOMETHING A PERSON CAN DO TO MANY TIMES WHEN THE OTHER WISHES TO KEEP EVERYTHING THEY HAVE AND WANTS MORE BUT YOU CAN’T GIVE ANYMORE THEN YOU HAVE.THAT IS ME AND IN MY LIFE YES I AM SCATTERED IN MY MIND BECAUSE I’VE DONE WHAT I CAN DO BUT STILL I’M LIVING IN MY OWN WORLD ALONE MOST OF THE TIME BECAUSE MY OTHER HALF WANTS MORE AND LIVE IN ANOTHER CITY THEN WERE I AM NOW STILL.NO SACRIFICES ON HER PART AND LIFE JUST GETS HARDER FOR ME.LIBRA LIKE TO EXSPORE NEW THINGS NO MATTER WHAT IT IS AND MOVE ON AND FIND NEW THINGS TO ENJOY AND THAT IS ME.


  24. Richard Lapanne June 25, 2012 at 5:58 pm

    I am a libra and happy to be one.some thing in this are true but not all.i am tidy and clean,sexualty yes but know when to go and know it’s not time and willing to stop for a period of time,flirting is and isn’t because i don’t mean to if i am but don’t want any involment but to see them smile and laugh,joker yes i am i love to have fun and make me smile with everyone as well,giving yes and to much that it has caused problems finatually and emotionally to myself but i love to see changes made in life to the better even if it’s not time for me yet.fairness is something that i want because life depends on fairness and even if it’s alittle more then the other it’s no matter,money and wealth is not a factor to my life because as long as i have the main things in life then the other things can wait till it comes to me,don’t lie,don’t cheat,don’t steal,and very honest and forward with what i feel and has to be said,no short form in my words it’s the long way around so the person understands what i’m saying and takes it the positive way if they listen and understand what i have to say.i try to be plesant to others and charming and a gentelman with who i’m with even if i dislike them as well because it is who i am.fighting and arument i try to hide from them but will let it all out if it gets to that point but will think first and if not needed earase it from my mind because it was not ment to be their and just a bad thought.
    I READ THE HORSCOPE AND I LIKE WHAT IT SAY’S MOST OF THE TIME AND BELEIVE IN MOST BECAUSE IT HAS HAPPENED IN SOME KIND OF WAY.DAY BY DAY I GO AND MANY PEOPLEGO TO FAST AND EXSPECTTHINGS TO GO THEIR WAY AS PLANED AND FIND THEMSELF ALONE AGAIN BECAUSE IT DIDN’T WORK OUT THERE WAY.I AM PATIENT WITH OTHERS AND SOMETIMES TO MUCH AND LONG THAT IT HURT ME TO SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT AND PUT IT OFF.I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP BUT ALSO IT’S GOING DOWN BECAUSE SHE’S A LEO AND HAS GOOD SIDES BUT MORE THE BAD SIDE TO HER BECAUSE SHE DOEN’T WANT TO PROVE HERSELF TO ME AND GOING ON 7 YRS IS GOING TO FAR WHEN YOUR DREAMS ARE NOT COMING TRUE AND YOU TAKE IT IN AT FIRST BUT STILL NOT HAPPENING.ONE MORE THING IS I’M VERY OPEN TO MY LIFE AND NOT AFRAID OF IT AND WHAT IS SAID ABOUT IT.THE GATE SWINGS BOTH WAY’S IN AND OUT IN MY LIVING.IF YOU COME IN YOU MAY GO OUT THE SAME WAY ANYTIME YOU WISH.


  25. Lyone Cooper June 19, 2012 at 5:16 pm

    I am a Libra male (gay) and almost everything I read is true about me. I LOOOVE flirting especially with cute guys but when I’m in a relationship, I stay loyal to them. I like helping people out especially people I know and/or care about. I’m VERY emotional and jealous (only in certain relas) and always find both sides of arguements that are helpful. Libras are also very blunt people I known 3 other Libras and when it comes to honesty, watch out cause it might not be something you wanna hear but you’re gonna hear it anyway lmao. I am very pleaseant and easy to get along with if I like you, if Libra’s don’t we don’t even give it a 2nd shot. Super loyal to friends and spouses, VERY STUBBORN and all that jazz. I love my sign (:


  26. kecha May 19, 2012 at 8:30 pm

    I’m a Libra and I can’t believe what I’m reading..Lol..I’m very precise when it comes to business and love to laugh..but I will say I love to flirt! If I’m in a relationship thats going good and my way I’m very loyal..but selfishness (not)..I help everyone even when I don’t have it I’m very giving. But maybe its the Libra men thats bad because I’ve never dated one..And also I’m very caring and care about other people’s feelings when I should be paying attention to my own..so maybe there is some truth about who a Libra is but I read alot of negative comments on here and I’m like this isn’t me..


  27. paula May 15, 2012 at 1:17 am

    I’ve been dating a libra for afew months then he broke up cause my horromones was out of control just got back together and Ilove him! Don’t want to get hurt I’m a virgo sign


  28. Drea May 9, 2012 at 9:16 am

    The comment made about “killing” libra men was WAY out of control. How can you judge all Libra men by the idiot that you were with??? Watch what you say, karma can be a *itch.


  29. d.j. May 6, 2012 at 4:39 am

    I hate to say it , but I got to agree with Bb brite. I wish I could have gotten my head out of my ass along time ago. Libra men have no conscience.


  30. Bb brite April 25, 2012 at 2:01 am

    Libra’s are selfish,greedy ,jealous,gold diggers,wick ,flirts/womanizers,who has no manners & respect for nobody regardless…not even God…..!!!!! They are users & ABUSERS in all full of lies & deceitfully toques……just say away from libra guy & say bye…..to broken heart & heart attack to enjoy the KINGDOM OF HEAVEN AFTER YOUR DEATH ON this EARTH ……..this is UNDISPUTABLE FACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Large’!!!!!!!!!!!HUGE…………


  31. Lilianna February 6, 2012 at 10:57 pm

    I’m Libra as well my partner. Sometimes I don’t now how to deal with this man . Funny then moody then big flirt. He need lot of attention if not, he is quiet ,silent , he refused to talk .We are together 4 years and not young any more and I wish he can grow up . Because life is too short . I love him very much ,we have lot of in comment , when he is good mood we laught like crazy . cooking , dancing, yoga , spa etc . Maybe he is not normal Libra , I don’t know how to please this man any more. I feel I’m not good enough for him.


  32. Eula January 16, 2012 at 8:57 am

    I am an Aquarius who vis dating a Libra Maan, so far things are going great, but people have told me that he has cheated with a lot of women in the past..But my preception is if you give him his accolades ,tell him every day how special HE is to you, then he in return will return the samew…I must say SO FAR SO GOOD.


  33. John December 26, 2011 at 2:07 pm

    I resent whoever made that petty remark about all Libra men being cheats. That is a huge nominalization. I think your just upset about what happened. I have never cheated on a woman ever and I am a libra man. In fact ive been cheated on over eight times with different. Ive even let it happen even though it killed me inside because i wanted them to be happy. We libras do tend to be very sexual though and we often feel unnapreciated easily if we arent told repeatledy were needed. Perhaps this is why some libras cheat because they dont feel any reciprocity is happening. Dont assume a few libras speak for all of them some tend to display the more negative libran traits while some like me have more positive aspects. IE Im strongly intuitive to the point where some people i meet would say im psychic. Ihave a strong tendecncy to feel certain things about people i dont know and am consistently right , and in a relationship if at any point i feel im giving more than im getting i leave immediately.


  34. sherri Grillo December 14, 2011 at 4:31 am

    I am a Libra and living with a Gemini. I am 49 and very set in my ways. He is a very quiet man and does not talk about his feelings which makes me close up also, he is a Gemini. We have been together for almost 2 years and I so want it to work! I just lost my husband after being together for 24 years. I miss him alot!!! he was also a man who bottled up his feelings and always thought everything was just fine when many many times it was just the opposite. I dealt with it but ended up cheating on him, which was not good. I told him about it and asked for a divorce, but I really did not want one, I just wanted my cake and eat it too. We did not get a divorce and soon after he became very ill. He fell going out our front door on black ice and broke his tibia and fibia and ended up having his leg amputated, within a year he lost his other leg and had 2 heart attacks & two strokes. The short version of it all is that he ended up in a nursing home and died within a year at the age of 62. I stood by him all the way and am very proud of it. All in All we did have a great marriage, when I now hear of others problems it makes our problems seem so miner and am very glad we never did get a divorce. I just hope the relationship I am in now can be half as good. I love him & his family and that does help ALOT. I did not like or understand the ways of my husband who passed aways mother but loved his father, who passed away a short year from my husband. I really think it broke his heart and he could not deal with his son, my husbands, passing! my husband was his name sake and they were very close. Well I need to stop rambling and just ask the question that is really on my mind.
    Will the man I am with & I be together forever? I sure hope so!!! I love him & his family soooo much.


  35. brenda December 5, 2011 at 5:29 am

    I’M WITH A ARies but sometime we dont get along he aways want thing his way, by me bending who i’m its hard, aries and libra together what do you do tell me do stay or go


  36. Sharon December 4, 2011 at 9:18 am

    I am a Libra. I was married for 24 years to a Virgo. At first things were fine but he wanted me to have no friends, expect those we both shared a friendship with. He belittled me, and did smack me very hard one time. He was terribly cruel to our boys’. He beat them with his belt.

    I had a neighbor who was a Libra too. She was in an unhappy marrige like me. We started to go out about once a week just to talk and try to help each other out. He eventually got mad and accused us of having a lesbian relationship. i COULD NOT BELIEVE WHAT i WAS HEARING FROM HIS MOUTH. Well I could go on and onbut in 1984
    he died of a heart attack. I felt terrible. I am now 71, and I have a Cancer friend for over ten years. I care for him very much, actually it really is love. He is very kind and loves my kids. I am hoping that this relationship can turn into something really special. I don’t push,and am lovingly waiting.


  37. GGS November 29, 2011 at 4:16 pm

    I was married to an Aries for 30 years and all he ever did was cheat and lie to me . So then i met a man that is a LIBRA and i have fallen in love with him. He says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I am afraid to commit because of the last marriage what do you think? should I continue with the libra or go back to the aries? i need advise


  38. Lilianna November 23, 2011 at 4:29 pm

    I’m a Leo woman but I find myself attracted to Libra, odd match.
    The Libra I’m dating is so addicted to falling in true love but on the other hand he is the biggest woman to woman flirt I’ve ever seen. Mixed bag eh?

    He hides things to avoid conflict, but so do I , he balances my dramatic tendencies and I try to soothe his need for unattainable perfection. He is such a flirt, he ends up flirting than apologizing the next day, making insensitive love jokes that kills me inside and apologizing. Emotionally, he understands me , intellectually and physically. We are both love the arts and the same philosophy , we are both outgoing.
    But that describes him, an indecisive, sensitive, flirt. Libras are god awful and confusing but so endearing. I just want to make him a happy guy. I’m not sure I can.


  39. judy November 14, 2011 at 7:33 am

    I love my Libra. We were married this past April. I am almost 70 and he just turned 77. His son did not want us to get married because he thinks I want his father’s trust account. When this was brought up, I didn’t know he had a trust account. His son will have nothing to do with me and refuses to let me come to his home for any reason. My husband, will not take a stand with him and now informs me that holidays will be spent with his son and I can spend my holidy any way I want. His son has now won, we are a part. I know my husband will die a very lonely man. I know he loves me. I don’t know if this is the action of a Libra but it sure hurts. He will not discuss issues of any kind. He refuses to talk with me about our situation. He often says, just give it time and it will resolve itself. Well time has gone by and our situation just gets worse. I feel I have been sacraficed. The son feels his dad has betrayed their mother since she has passed away by marrying me. I feel sacraficed.


  40. Ivan:p October 12, 2011 at 1:47 am

    I am a sagi I love a libra.i was.a l jeoules type thats.what broke us apart and I was confuse about when she lies but did want her fory kids miss yousorry for breaking up a good looking family miss my little boy iwas there for his first b day


  41. angela October 8, 2011 at 5:25 am

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    No, it does not work. I tried this for 3 years until I realized that my giving nature was sharply taken advantage by my Libra ex. The libra women arent like that. But stay away from Libra guys. They make the worst lovers. My ex’s stupid nature makes his new gf breakup and makeup million times. Thank God, I am saved from him. Meanwhile, my boyfriend keeps telling me how his Libra friend is a cheater and gold digger. He cheats on his girlfriend all the time. For a few years he even refused to marry her. But now he is urging to marry her because she bought a house for herself. I know one client of mine who got raped by her Libra ex. I say these guys should be put in jail as soon as they take birth. Otherwise, the moms should make a point to get them aborted right in the womb.


  42. Steve Kramer October 2, 2011 at 11:03 am

    I don’t know. Sometimes I seem to be all over the place. I’m loyal to my mate if it makes me happy. I’m dating a Gemini and I get confused what to say at times. I feel that I’m attracted to the arts to the mystic the unknow and love to be able to talk to some one that has that in common with me. Yes I can be very open with my feelining to a fault at times.


  43. Raven Cozine September 7, 2011 at 8:52 am

    Me and My boyfriend are libra’s and if I tell you we both get a little crazy, But when it comes to our love no one can stand in our way,,


  44. Jennifer Spaelti-Incaviglia April 14, 2011 at 9:11 am

    As for me” Libra’s love Love.. When with someone they have no need to cheat and being indecisive is a Libra trait.. We do avoid conflict and tend to hide things that may hurt out partner… Empathetic is very true.. We want things to be fair but then again being indecisive makes us crazy.. I love being in a real relationship so I tend to avoid one night stands… I want to be with someone like me=LIBRA! I think it is the best match for me..

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