Controlling Relationships

December 12, 2009 at 3:32 pm

Psychic Liam ext. 9290 discusses controlling relationships and what you can do to change the course for a more balanced partnership.

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  1. Tracy
    December 27, 2009 at 10:20 am

    Hi Liam,
    We used to speak in the summer and I had a hard time getting over that….I started to see someone this holiday season and this too is becoming a mess, he said I had control issues…Anytime I make a suggestion he considers it control…is this? It can be something as harmless as asking him to try a new food for health benefits and he says its controlling. Liam, is this me? or is this man just not the one, also? HELP me to understand.


  2. Liam at ext. 9290
    December 16, 2009 at 6:44 am

    Greetings, Abigail. It was such a pleasure to read your message. And I thank you very much for your kindness. Control is such an interesting subject, and it hovers at the very core of our existence – making up the very concept we have of self and identity. Your observations here are astute indeed. Learning to give up control of the external is never an easy. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Be well, my friend.


  3. Liam at ext. 9290
    December 15, 2009 at 6:25 am

    Greetings, Jacqueline. It is very interesting thing to hear
    your obserations on this matter. We all have control issues,
    per say, whether we want to admit it or not. How can we not, really? Perhaps it is the Freudian aspect, with the old struggle of ego and Id .. Or our constant struggle to maintain remnants of
    stability in an ever shifting enviornment .. Mankind is constantly struggling to erect barriers against the forces of chaos be they internal or external. Sometimes I’m not sure it’s such a good thing … But that hardly matters. It remains
    our issue to deal with and no one is exempt.
    Control issues easily project to others, since all human relationships are essentially based on issues of control and power, however much we wish
    to believe otherwise. Relationships are symbiotic by nature, and we must have benefits from any interaction. The trick is to understand our own motives, and to be very realistic
    about our own issues of need, control, and desire. So we realize when we’re
    destroying something we want to preserve… Your points are very good ones, Jacqueline. Be well.


  4. Liam at ext. 9290
    December 15, 2009 at 6:23 am

    Greetings, Miss Krystal! It’s always wonderful to hear from you. Interesting you picked up on the teacher vibe. I used to coach and judge high school team debate. And of course, I’ve taught a bit on more esoteric subjects from time to time.
    Indeed there are some great games forthcoming. I’m digging in to root for Alabama in the BCS National Championship game … But no worries about your Bruins, dear. They’ll no doubt be back in full form next season. And, indeed, if one is seeking a
    bit of hope, Kobe Bryant is the man to take up the standard. Last year
    during the championship series, I listened to Kobe respond to a reporter
    after one of the Laker’s losses to the Magic. The reporter asked if Kobe
    had finally hit the wall after a glorious regular season. Kobe, exhausted
    from his killer performance, just blinked at this man, and said, ‘No, I
    haven’t hit a wall … And even if I did, it doesn’t matter .. I’ll go
    through the wall.’ Or something like that. And he said it like he meant
    it. And that is what makes him the leader of a national championship NBA
    team. Kobe rocks. The Cavs keep plugging along as well. We’ve got some
    stiff competition over here in the east come playoff time. But, as said
    before, my friend, if it keeps up like this, we ‘will’ be seeing you guys in
    the championships. Too cool. Love you, Miss Krystal. Oh, and if you need to root for an NFL
    team, how about Minnesota? I’m on that wagon this
    season. Brett Favre makes me pretty much a fan of whoever he plays for. Be well.


  5. Liam at ext. 9290
    December 15, 2009 at 6:22 am

    Greetings, Corrine. I thank you so much for your kind words and wonderful observations. One of the most powerful tools in a good Psychic’s arsenal is Empathy. And if it’s employed correctly by the client, it can be a tremendous force for change Empathy is not just knowing how someone feels, of
    course, but turning on to their entire universe. And that can be
    one incredible trip. Every universe is unique. Generally we assume that because
    we see things a certain way, other people automatically share our perception. Empathy can help break that illusion. Be well, Corrine.


  6. Abigail Ext 9570
    December 14, 2009 at 7:29 pm

    Liam,
    Wonderful video on control. The only thing in life that we can control is ourselves when we finally realize that it sure gets a whole lot easier. You know you get beat up and things get hard the other way LOL. You are a sweetheart Liam and your customers enjoy you. Have an amazing holdiay season to you and yours.

    Many Blessings
    ~Abigail~


  7. Liam at ext. 9290
    December 14, 2009 at 2:08 pm

    Hail once again, priestess! It is always a pleasure to hear from you. Thank you for the kind words and observations. Sound and flow, and pitch…Yes, there are energies here and motions which take a very subtle ear to make out. I’ve known a few who’ve had a talent in this, but very few indeed. I hope that you are having a grand Yule season. Myself, I find the Solstice Celebrations strangely tiring in this modern age. So many times, I find myself seeking a quiet corner, a place for a spot of tea, and a biscuit to enjoy. I hope we all try to find the quieter spaces as we might. Thank you, Gina Rose. You always bring a smile to my face.

  8. Jacqueline
    Psychic Jacqueline x9472
    December 14, 2009 at 9:11 am

    Jacqueline x9472 said….
    Very interesting point on control, it is so true, I agree, true happiness and successful relationships, is one built on respect, this can only happen when each person does have self esteem, self worth they feel good about ones own self, as well as where there life is and where there future is headed, and don’t forget they unconditionally love them-self, through this one can truly have that healthy relationship, not only in a love area but through your friendships as well.
    Cheers!
    Jacqueline x9472


  9. Miss Krystal ext. 9192
    December 14, 2009 at 9:05 am

    What a pleasant surprise, Liam!
    I really enjoyed this-There is a “professor” energy in you-could have been a great teacher-
    you have that gift…..
    I always say, “Try to see it from their eyes.”
    This usually helps a lot.
    On a friendly note, you have some big games coming up-in basketball and football (the bowls/bcs)Good luck hun
    Kobe is hanging in there for us. But my Bruins went down in everything (but we did make it a bowl game still not what I am used too)….As far as sports lol Kobe is my only hope at this point-No NFL team here in Los Angeles….
    Hope you have a wonderful holiday season.
    Miss Krystal

  10. Corrine Ext. 5194
    Corrine Ext. 5194
    December 14, 2009 at 12:18 am

    I think control issues are one of the hardest things a psychic can give advice on, but I couldn’t have said it better myself. Empathy can be an amazing tool for discovering many things about yourself and others around you. Lol, as an empath you can really understand where someone is coming from, and a lot of my psychic callers deal with the issue of “well how do I turn it off!”. Not only are you increasing your psychic abilities but your saving the realtionship it’s like a two for one deal! Gotta love Liam’s advice on relationships it’s like food for your soul.
    -Corrine Ext. 5194

  11. Gina Rose ext.9500
    Gina Rose ext.9500
    December 12, 2009 at 4:28 pm

    Hail and Well Met Liam,
    You made some excellent points on control issues….
    …and, as I was listening to your energy flow as you spoke…..I could ” hear ” that you are a very old and wise soul.
    Liam, I have a unique gift, besides being clairaudiant in the psychic sense, I ,literally,physically, hear energy…
    And, as such,your energy flow is smooth and beautifully pitched. It is rare that I hear energy flow that smoothly in any individual.
    Hoping that your Yule holiday sabbat is the best ever…
    Ok….back to work….
    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

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