Their sensuality is legendary (think Penelope Cruz, Michelle Pfeiffer, Cate Blanchett and George Clooney). Their temper is also legendary when they’re pushed too far. Nonetheless, the beautiful Bull is hard to resist. If you want to capture the heart of a Taurus, here are some things you need to know.
Get physical
Love combined with plenty of physical attention is the Taurus version of Heaven. As a super-sensual Earth sign, it’s no surprise that Taurus has a deep well of sexuality within their psyche. They may not be the most adventurous in bed, but their responsiveness is unmatched. Just caressing their hand or lightly stroking their hair will set a Taurus on fire.
With artsy Venus as their ruler, Taurus basks in a beautiful ambiance, complete with enticing music, candlelight and (think sensual again) scrumptious food and drink. Luxuriously soft sheets will keep your Taurus happy, too. What’s more, Taurus has a deep appreciation of nature, from a walk in the woods to the scent of freshly cut grass. So when pursuing a Taurus, keep in mind that they’re highly attuned to all things physical.
Be yourself
Although the Bull is their symbol, Taurus has an infallible BS detector. If you come off the least bit phony, attempting to appear more successful, knowledgeable, confident or together than you really are, your Taurus will look you straight in the eyes in a manner that leaves no doubt you’re full of baloney. Nevertheless, if your Taurus feels connected to you, either by friendship or something deeper, they will accept you just as you are. Period. That’s one of their best qualities. Rarely will they strive to change someone they care for. You can have a history of naughty behavior, failed romances or dismal professional prospects, but if you have a good heart, your Taurus will respond to it.
That’s not to say that Taurus has infinite patience. Well, close to infinite — their steadfastness is the core of their personal power — but they have their limits if you continually mess up. That’s because Taurus will only respect a partner who has inner strength and integrity. You can make mistakes and still gain their love, but you’d better be disciplined in pursuing your goals and centered in who you are.
Be consistent
An important thing to know about Taurus is their need for security. The one thing Taurus hates nearly as much as phoniness is unreliability. As a fixed Earth sign, Taurus is the least adaptable sign of the zodiac. (Scorpio comes in a close second.) They don’t do well with people who break promises, even if that promise is just a dinner date at 7 p.m. (not 7:20, mind you). If you must change or cancel a date, you’d better have an exceptionally good reason. Nothing short of total incapacitation will do.
Speaking of security, financial reliability is a must for Taurus as well. Not financial wealth necessarily (although your practical Taurus would certainly appreciate that), but they need financial dependability and stability to feel safe with you. Second only to emotional turmoil (don’t even think of cheating on them), nothing rattles a Taurus more than financial upheaval. It strikes at the core of their need for security. Your Taurus will stand by you through every imaginable challenge, but too much instability will have them reeling and will make them shut down emotionally.
Fight fair
Think your dependable, good-natured Taurus is incapable of getting angry? Think again. Whoever thought up the saying “like a bull in a china shop” undoubtedly encountered a riled up Taurus. They can lift the roof off a building with their anger, but you’ll have to push your Taurus pretty hard into a corner before they lose control. Fight fairly, without unnecessary fireworks, and you’ll be able to work through any relationship issue with your Taurus.
Perhaps most important, Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love. If you love your Taurus with your body, mind and soul, you’ll capture their heart and keep it forever.
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Man for ever it’s worth, This Taurus just spent 45 minutes spilling his guts out to the world and I was closing out saying GOOD BYE, and how right you were, then BOOM your website just kicked me off, man that sucked I wrote from the shattered heart that’s glued back together for the first time, and right when I was about to click the (Leave a Comment) it kicked me off, all I can hope for is somehow it got saved…..ROll Tide from ALABAMA
With LOVE to the world,
Michael Rhoden
This is the first time i have ever read this and when I say this is a TRUE TAURUS! I am a Taurus and you described me to the T! Love it…
Hey Joylin, I read your situation and I feel for you. I am a taurus man and I know we are not all exactly the same. If the issue between you is that you cheated on him then he is mentally not yours anymore. In that case you should try to box your feelings for him up and file them away because you do not want a taurus man who is not yours mentally. You would be better off alone. If that is not the case then he may think there is something about you that doesn’t sit right with him and until he either decides he wants you more or you stop doing what that thing is he will not come back or will come back and ruin you. My advice to you is to occupy yourself with something positive so when your orbits meet again you are more exciting then before. DO NOT DATE ANY OTHER MAN during this separation unless you want it to be over and have no intent on getting back together because if he is just experiencing technical difficulty he will see it as you cheating on him and be out again. I hope you find peace
Well, Carrie, I am a Cancer and I was married to a Taurus for 15 years and he left me and our two boys for someone else. Now he is not with her anymore. But you are absolutely right, once they make up their mind, they are unlikely to go back. Whether they know they did right or wrong.
I’ve been reading the comments about Taurus posted here. One thing important to remember is that an old soul or younger soul really does not have much bearing on the character of any particular sign. You can not judge a sign by its sun only. There are many planet alignments at the time of each persons birth, which have great bearing on their character and personality. How old your soul is does not come into play. It is a direct correlation of the energy that was present at your birth. I have heard that fidelity, can be an issue for many taurus males. This does not seem to affect female Taurus’, NOR all male Taurus’. You also will see a transition in every human being, regardless of their astrological sign, from birth to adulthood, based on how they were raised and their personal experiences.
joylin i just read your story and i wish you the best, if he really loves you he will come back to you, you are lucky somehow because the two of you are taurus our sign of love. i am a taurus and want to meet another taurus. I am having the same problem like you , i met a man in sept. i felt in love but he has to leave Canada, went back to Mexico, he told me that he loves me a lot and we talk on the phone everyday, he used to say , he never met a woman like me who made him feel really well in every way and he will never leave me no matter what, but since he left on nov.20 he haven’t called me and i am getting angry and don’ t want to think about bad think are happening. If I were you, i will wait for him after work and see what is going on nothing is better than the truth even if is really painful, wish you the best
Thats not good he is not returning your call if he is stil interested in you he would return your call. I have ben a relationship with a Taurus for sometime now, I had to put him out, however he constanly call me, I talk to him but would not let him come back. He has to make changes in his life. I can’t wait for that to occur so I have taken other steps to make me happy. I am doing constructive things that keeps me busy. I am now focus and things are moving great.The key is for you to BE HAPPY WITHIN YOUR SELF.
Most of the things you said about a Taurus is true. However being a Cancer I donot like one lying to me ,promise you can’t keep and being disrespecful. HE have not settle down yet. What makes him unable to recognize this himself? I had to put him out but he keep calling me. I always talk to him when he calls. He keep making excuses as though I am to blame. I can not take him back until he make changes in his life and realize this. Until that occur he cannot come . What is your advice?
Well Joylin, with Taurus, once they make up their mind, they are unlikely to go back. The small issues–were they repeated issues that you both had discussed? It does not matter how long you have been in a relationship with a Taurus. I was married for 19 years and we had issues that came up yearly. No real resolution, finally I left a man who I loved, but could no longer tolerate the issues that were ultimately hurting my family (my children and I). It could be that he has found someone else who he has fallen in love with and when Taurus falls, look out. I think a married Taurus would think things through before leaving one person for another, however, an unmarried Taurus might think they had some ‘wiggle room’–especially the male version of a Taurus. I think there are great differences between the male and female signs and of course, there is a difference in human spiritual development, which may alter a sign’s characteristics. If he is not fully evolved, he may not be exactly what you think. I am an old soul and very much a Taurus–the good points most of the time. My mother was a young soul and was many of the negative aspects of the Taurus sign. I used my mother to know how not to act.
Don’t pine. However, as a Taurus, I know you will, for a long time perhaps, but you will eventually move on if this does not work out and later you will see the significance of this moment.
I hope someONE could read this so they’ll know be better
I am going through a problem with my Taurus boyfriend, am also Taurus myself. we are in a relationship for the past 5 years and planing to get married soon, till this April some small issues came across and since then i have not heard from him, and he did not even say whether is over or not, whenever i call his phone he does not pick my call neither reply my mail since. i send him message to apologies many time but he does not want to talk to me, i even report to one of his closer friend and he said to his friend that he is busy and will get back to me when he is less busy. I want advice what should i do, i really love this guy and i dont want to lose him, i notice that he is my everything and without him i look empty. please i need advices of what to do to get his love back so that peace will come between us. waiting for everybody advices thank you all
Joylin