Get the Guy: What Can You Do If He Doesn’t Call?

April 11, 2011 at 5:00 am

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Did He Stop Calling? Take Two Deep Breaths and Assess Your Situation Calmly…

So you’ve exchanged numbers, but heard nothing but radio silence ever since? Here are three steps you can take to find out exactly what to do next…

1. Don’t Assume

In situations like these, where there’s a great deal of uncertainty, it’s best not to go jumping to conclusions. It’s important to see things as they are. If he’s not got in touch, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking he doesn’t like you, but remember that it could just be that he’s busy.

In their perplexed state of uncertainty, it’s not uncommon for people to call a “tribunal” amongst their equally uncertain friends, so that they can all debate about what’s going on and pitch in with their own two cents. By doing this, you’re only adding to the confusion and it’s unlikely that you’ll ever gain any idea of what to do next.

2. Get Certain

For step two I really want to offer you a solution for all this uncertainty: The Clarifier Message. Rather than just guessing at what he is or isn’t thinking, I want to give you a template message which you can send to a guy after a date, or after initially meeting, so that you can accurately assess the current situation.

At, say, 9 pm (or at very late notice), send a guy a message that goes something like…

“Hey, I’m at this great new jazz club. The music is amazing here. You should come.”

With this message, you’re banking on him not being able to come along, and it’s from his reaction that you are able to gain an insight of how he feels about you.

If he’s interested and wants to see you again, this message gives him license to arrange another date off the back of it. So when he’s interested, you’ll get a message something like, “I’m really sorry, but I can’t make it tonight. Are you around on Friday?” By doing this, not only do you find out that he’s interested, but you also put the ball in his court for doing all of the work in arranging the date!

3. Keep Calm and Carry On

Whatever happens, keep calm and carry on. This has to be a rule of yours whenever you’re meeting new guys. If you start trying to focus on what you can’t control, you’re always going to be leaving yourself feeling uncertain.

You can control sending him a clarifying message. You can control going out and meeting more guys. You can control going out with friends, having a great time, and creating more opportunities—so why not do it? Sitting around and waiting for the phone to ring isn’t doing anything to serve you. Now there’s one last thing I have to share with you. In all my years of coaching women, I’ve discovered that there are four things you must have in order to have guys falling over themselves to be with you.

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– Matt

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  3. sangay wangmo August 18, 2011 at 10:07 pm

    i really like ur post and i am very thankul for sharing it. i am a married women but before my marriage i have experienced so called love, both the bitter part and the beautiful moments but just now its not my personal question,i just wanted to know so that i could advice my frenz who are still single.like you said when we message and he replies ‘i am sorry,i cant make it tonight’,does he really mean it that he is busy or may be he is fooling another girl at that time and by tomorrow he may come and fool us?so should we really believe what ever he says?


  4. Suzy Pulley April 12, 2011 at 10:25 pm

    I like the post/info, but then again …if a guy says he’s going to call and never does, I’m going to just stick with the last piece of advice and “keep calm and carry on!” Why would I want to chase after someone, or waste my time on someone who lacks the desire to be with me?? I mean if you truly like someone, you will show interest …not say you’re going to call and don’t! Yah we all get busy with life sometimes, but that’s no excuse. You either like someone or you don’t. A guy that doesn’t follow thru on his word in regards to calling you is showing a great lack of interest and desire for you. I don’t want a guy that is unsure about me, or is too busy for me. I think that says alot about his character. If he wants to call again, because he really likes you, he will! Sure it may not be such a bad idea to let him know you had a great time in case he is feeling a little unsure about how the girl feels …but I would do it the night/day of. The ball is in his court if he says he’s going to call!


  5. reikigirl April 12, 2011 at 8:36 am

    I couldn’t care less whether “the guy” calls or not…through time and maturity I found I am my own best company and don’t need anyone “mesmerized” or “fighting” to be with me. Is this not the site that promotes “whatever will be, will be” and personal empowerment? If one has a need to have others falling over them through verbal or mental tactics, something is off.

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