Liz from Winnipeg, Canada writes:
Since my husband’s passing, I have had one visit from him. He appeared in our home in the doorway of our bedroom and seemed to be looking and assessing the environment, and then looking directly into the bedroom where I was awake but unable to move or say anything. Initially I felt fear, and then as I realized that it was his spirit, the fear passed. I haven’t had a visit since. My husband passed very suddenly, and I wondered if he was telling me that he was OK with where he was?
There actually were several things going on during that visit from your husband.
In fact, while I connected with your experience he explained to me that you can see him again, and communicate any time, if you re-create the circumstances of his first visit. To the best of your memory, duplicate the lighting in the room and in the hall, sit or lie in the same place, make your first attempt to connect at approximately the same time of night, and so on.
I don’t think you have to wear the same thing, but re-creating as much as possible of what you remember from the experience will help you make the initial connection. You probably wouldn’t have to use that technique many times, because I see the two of you communicating with ease in the future, perhaps even more ease than in the past.
Your husband was there as much for himself as he was for you. While he stood there, he was of course reassuring himself about your well-being, and letting you know that he’s still around. But he was also studying the energy patterns in the room and in your household, looking at the other beings such as angels and spirit guides who surround you, and introducing himself as a new member of the group of beings, seen and unseen, who love and support you.
When I look at the scene, I can see another being standing behind him, most likely an angel (probably his guiding angel). The angel is instructing him in his new role as your nonphysical guardian. Your husband was given the opportunity to choose between moving on to soul training and then a new life, or remaining with you as guide and protector, and he chose you. Being a guide is apparently a new role for him, and it seems that this will be the first time that you two have had a human-guide relationship, so it should be a fun learning experience all around.
Whatever he might have been while incarnated, the man I’m seeing exudes strongly masculine energy, with loving purpose and determination that is fully focused on you and those you love. I think you’d find it not only trippy, but also incredibly enriching, to explore this new relationship with him fully.