13 Ways to Have More Fun in Bed

August 10, 2011 at 5:00 am

1. Whisper. It’s a perfect way to draw your lover nearer to you. It also increases the sense of intimacy.

2. Play with touch. Soft. Hard. Gentle. Demanding. All of these will elicit a different response. Pay attention.

3. Get a little bit rough. Maybe this one’s kind edgy, but it really adds intensity. Pulling hair, gentle biting, light scratching. It can all lead to some “WOW!” in the sack.

4. Try something new. Do some research and come up with new ideas. Or, those things you’ve wanted to try for years but were afraid to say so? Do that!

5. Go shopping together. And I don’t mean at the mall. Go to a nice, upper-end sex and sensuality shop and buy a new toy. Not sure what you’re looking for? That’s okay. Make an adventure of it. And don’t feel afraid to ask the salesperson for assistance. That’s what she or he is there for.

6. Or shop online. If you don’t have a brick-and-mortar sex shop in your area, go shopping online somewhere like Toys in Babeland or Good Vibrations.

7. Slow sex is good sex. Don’t rush it.

8. Fast sex is good sex too! A quickie can really deliver.

9. Have sex out of bed. Where else sounds sexy? Up against the wall? In the living room? On a chair? On a table?

10. Kinky can be fun. Blindfolds, light restraints, spanking are all pretty safe activities to participate in, even if they feel dangerous. Just be sure to agree on a safeword (link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safeword) first.

11. Share your fantasies. Even if you don’t actually want to enact them, it can be really hot to talk about them before or during sex. (If you really, really don’t want to enact them, be sure your lover knows that. It can really cut down on confusion or potential jealousy.)

12. Enact the fantasies you actually do want to enact. Don’t save it for a rainy day. Make love in the car. Make out in the back row of the movie theater. Watch porn while your lover does you. Taboo, dirty, or just new, acting out fantasies with your lover is guaranteed to turn up the heat.

13. Let yourself laugh! Sometimes fun sex is funny sex. Let go, and keep going. You may be amazed where that will lead.

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  1. Enez January 29, 2012 at 8:17 am

    making love aside the bed is great and sexy……. its hot on the floor or in the bath room against the walls

  2. Busta December 15, 2011 at 6:25 am

    This articles rocks!

  3. tabe peter besong November 24, 2011 at 6:02 am

    its worth trying this weekend

  4. LJ Innes October 11, 2011 at 5:25 pm

    This article rocks! Give me more!

  5. feroz September 27, 2011 at 12:53 am

    Like a friend Ship .

  6. Abdullahi August 21, 2011 at 8:48 am

    I like your courage

  7. Cmkj Chavan August 13, 2011 at 4:20 am

    hi how r u dear, everything is fine, but can u advice me to find a great female partner for me to enjoy in my nearby location, so i can enjoy my best time. pls do advice.
    thnx. cmkj2912.

  8. Jacqueline
    Jacqueline August 10, 2011 at 11:35 am

    Hi Eric,
    What great ideas, have to say making and keeping sex light and fun can be exciting.
    How about Chocolate?
    Blessings and Big Hugs!
    Jacqueline x9472

  9. Gina Rose ext.9500
    Gina Rose ext.9500 August 10, 2011 at 7:11 am

    Great tipsm Eric……

    one more little thing I want to add on to tip number one……growl .

    Whispers are cute, but growls are just downright sexy !!!

    Give me a sexy low, male growl any day……LOL

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