Love is a rush of blissful emotions and feelings. It can bring a lifetime’s worth of healing. The tender affection that love does bring has a way of encompassing everything. Every relationship endures highs and lows. That’s just the way that love goes. It takes you away into oblivion and keeps you wanting more. True love is always willing to last forevermore. There are certain things that only love can do. However, if it causes heartbreak and pain, then it may be fooling you. Love is always worth a try, and here are thirty reasons why.
1. You’re comfortable with each other, no matter what others say or do.
2. Plans are made and kept, or the excuse is true.
3. Time is always planned and reserved just for you.
4. Your needs are a top priority over most people and things.
5. Begging or pleading is not required for affection.
6. Family, friends, or work doesn’t compare to you.
7. Love stands up for you anytime there is trouble.
8. Attention and awareness is freely given, and faults are ignored or quickly forgiven.
9. There are no secrets regarding your relationship and it’s good companionship.
10. You’re not left lonely or alone, until your partner decides otherwise.
11. Good surprises, gifts of laughter, and togetherness often arise.
12. You will always be welcomed in your lover’s company.
13. No other lover exists in the mind of your partner. There is no competition.
14. There is constant and consistent contact showing care from each partner.
15. Love is not one-sided. If it is, or feels that way, then it’s likely unrequited.
16. Sharing is open, honest, and without hesitation.
17. Your lover seeks to understand your problems and frustrations.
18. You are worth more than the cost of anything they could buy.
19. There are answers to questions of where, when, how, or why.
20. No one walks away without a plan to return.
21. What your family and friends think does not impact your relationship.
22. You find comfort and clarity in your respective roles, and they feel whole.
23. Love doesn’t need to be chased, as it is easily found.
24. Your lifestyle doesn’t get in the way of a love which has no bounds.
25. It’s easy to forgive, forget, and move on when something goes wrong.
26. You don’t have to buy anything to make someone happy or feel strong.
27. Mind, body, and soul is appreciated and respected.
28. The relationship is worthy of safety and protection
29. There is a deep and profound connection.
30. “I Love You” is easy to say when other words fail or get in the way.
I’ve been in love, and I’ve also been fooled. You’re the only one who can determine what’s happening to you. If you find this list makes sense, then it’s likely love you’ve experienced. There are many things I could add, but most of us can recognize when a relationship is going nowhere or has turned bad. Unrequited love does offer hope, as it gives us the reason and means to cope. There’s someone for everyone, so never allow your hope to come undone. Just when you least expect it, I am certain you’ll find the one. In the meantime, let your mind be at ease. Live your life just as you are pleased. If a love doesn’t work out, then please remember it’s not all that your life is about. Count your blessings each given day. Happily wait until true love finds its way. Dating is an excellent way to practice and play.
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True! 30 out of 30
God, I miss my ex now, lol. Been long but, I guess I can move on still with his archetype randomly comes up in my mind…
out of i got only 1 out of 30.so it my boyfriend have no love to me
Thanx! I misd my gf,bt stil im missing her evrymoment! Bt i realised – ITS NOT LUV
Yea true
Yea dis is true
wow i got all of them and i’m only 16. I met him and we were friends first and i didn’t know how to tell him so one day i gave him the hint on facebook and he guessed right
i love him so much and it’s weird because we have this link.. everytime i have a headache he does and same with stomach’s and getting sick. Now I just found out today that when i get hurt he feels the same thing. I had hurt my arm and he said he felt it too.. Do you know what it means? I’m kinda wondering if it is possible to have a link with your true love?
You are completly right bro these are the facts of true love that i understand when my gf ditched me for money for some one else after that i realise that true love was from only my end i did 30 out of 30 for her but she didnt understand my feeling and left me for someone else as other things was important in her life than me.
Well dis is very gud 4 me 2 be hear.i think i ave gain alot 4rm u nd all am asking u is 2 keep it up
Its very good points . SHOULD I LEAVE THE WORLD IF LOVE LEAVE ME
Nice,it makes me feel like I have a true love,bcoz its all what I we do and have.
This sounds like poetry not love advice. Give some more spice or ill make you think twice, it won’t be nice
Thanks very much. it was more important points for every lover. I hope you to help me I have been lost my love now what can I do ? with out my Darling my life is impossible I am not sure to live in my life because I am near to become crazy.
I appreciate this, i marked my self and realise that i scored 26 d remaining 4 am gonna work on. Keep it up. Luqman
Its really a very good & true article , thanx Agnes.
that’s tarching articles of love you have there.its true that you will understand true love only after you lose your partner and thats what happened to me
Agnes: This is a very excellent tool Thank you for writing a great piece.
awwww! this is wonderful……..from your article, i marked myself and passed 29 out of 30, in my present relationship………….awesome………
I liked it, Agnes, I hope you’ll be able to make more interesting articles about love soon. I always enjoy reading your articles. Godbless..
Elma
Thank you Agnes. You have given me so much to think about now.
xoxox
Thank you for a wonderful reminder of the qualities of true love. As a test, I assessed a love connection I’ve been having a hard time getting over in relation to the 30 qualities. I simply asked for each characteristic “Was this quality truly present in the relationship?” The only quality that was present was #29 and I recognize that that is not enough when the other 29 characteristics aren’t true for the relationship. My assessment as a result is that this individual and I are soulmates but not meant to have a love relationship in this lifetime. A good thing to know. Thank you. I’m ready to move on.
I think some of those 30 points are a little simplified. Also, for example, I live in a polyamorous relationship, so the line “there is no competition” as a sign for true love only applies for conventional, monogamous relationships. Surely there is enough enlightenment present in this day and age to include alternative forms of relationships in your articles and not use only conventional, main-stream examples of how love can be alive for people. I am in a long-term relationship with a man I love deeply, and just fell in love with another man, and all is illuminated with love – there is no competition, only expansion of all hearts involved.
THis was fantastic, Agnes. I so enjoyed it. Thanks so much.
Miss krystal