Become Present to Heal Old Patterns
Psychic Molly ext. 5442 is a gifted intuitive who uses her natural empathic and clairvoyant abilities as well as Tarot and Angel oracle cards to give insight into your relationship and love questions. Molly also incorporates her experience as a certified counselor (specifically as a certified Addiction Treatment Counselor) to help individuals move forward with peace and healing. This strong background combined with her psychic gifts makes her an excellent resource.
Are you addicted to love? Or to an idea of love? Or to another feeling, habit, or behavior? Check out Molly’s powerful advice.
Feelings Are Not Facts
Molly explained the distinction between your feelings and reality: “When people are addicted to whatever it is, most addictions start with feelings. People have to realize feelings are not facts. And then they have to ask themselves, why do they not want to be present? Because then it’s escapism.”
Discover Ways to Be Present
“I think addicted people, they’re hurt, they’re brilliant, and they’re super sensitive. I don’t think there’s something wrong with them or they’re horrible or any of that.” Molly advised finding reasons to become present in your life again. “I think they need to look at what makes them go, ‘Yahoo, I’ve got to get up today!’ I think boredom is a huge problem as well. People have to really define themselves.”
Find Hope Even if You’ve Tried and Failed
“You keep getting up on that horse. You don’t stop trying. There’s something, somewhere along the line that’s going to work. If you truly want to break the addiction, eventually you can, but you have to really, really want it and be conscious of it.”
Be Conscious of Habits
“You have to be conscious of it. If you’re not conscious, sometimes addictions are habits and we’re just used to doing them. So be aware of it. Be mindful. Be mindful for just today. ‘One day at a time’ really is true. I think that’s the best way to do it.”
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“I can understand it, so I’m not going to judge them, first of all. Because a lot of people already judge themselves very, very harshly. I’m going to hear what they have to say. A lot of times, people that are addicted, have a lot of shame. And I think they need to get rid of that shame somehow too. My job, as a counselor and as an intuitive person, is to help them get in touch with that, and then start on the path to recovery!”
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I’ve often wondered if I’m addicted to love (or at least the ‘feelings’ that accompany the popular media’s version of what everyone says ‘love’ is) Your response above is like a weight lifted off of my shoulders. I’m creative. I’m brillliant, but I am definitely hurt and feel things ‘very deeply’. The ironic thing is I have always bragged at how I’m not ‘addicted’ to drinking or smoking or drugs (as if because my addiction wasn’t in the top 3 visible addictions, then it didn’t matter). But I do feel a constant craving and need for ‘attention’ and ‘compliments’ from others – mainly males. And I tend to expect these ‘drugs’ without having to put much more than a little effort into getting them. Then, I get them and as quick as their fires warm me, they’re out and I’m back sniffing around for more ‘drug’/'attention’ again. Inadvertantly, I also sabotage many good, quality relationships, with both men and women, in my sprint to get to the ‘meat’ of what I want out of the relationship, which as I write, sounds absolutely disgusting…people are not ‘things’ for me to ‘process’ and then throw away when “I” am done getting what I need or want out of them.
So, the good thing is that I recognize the pattern, but I just haven’t been sure how to stem it. Being present sounds like a good start. Feeling my feelings. I will try this and let you know if it works, although, even to say there will be any finality in any short period of time is simply to feed back into the addiction-centred nature of our ‘quick-fix’ society. So, rather than say, I’ll let you know if it works, I will continue working it and I will feel my results in the positive effects it will eventually and continually have.
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