7 Sexiest Things to Say to a Guy

January 28, 2012 at 12:00 am

Share Your Sexy Side

While it might not take much to get a guy riled up, there are certain phrases that can light his fire higher and faster than you can say “Yowza.” Let’s take a look at a few zingers certain to prime his pump! The sexiest things to say to a guy should get him going and are sure to please! The sexiest things to say to a guy should get him going and are sure to please!

“You make me hot”
It’s simple but precise. Telling him you are hot for him lets him know that he turns you on and that you find him attractive and sexy.

“Let’s get naked”
As most men will find any opportunity to get naked with a woman, this line works like magic. You’re letting him know that you want to see him naked and do all the enjoyable things people do together when they are. Get more personalized advice, contact a psychic today!

“I love your body”
A man loves to hear his partner tell him that he has an attractive body. Announcing this says you not only like the way he looks but the way he uses his hot bod.

“I’m not wearing any underwear”
This falls under the “a little bit kinky” category because your telling him this makes him feel like he now knows a secret that no one else does, especially if you’re in a public place. This little revelation invariably triggers his visualizing you without your underwear—and you can imagine the rest!

“I can’t keep my hands off you”
Telling him that he is so desirable to you that you cannot stop from touching him is very erotic. It also suggests that his body is so tempting that you cannot help yourself.

“You don’t have to understand sex to enjoy it.” – Kelli ext. 5130

“Let’s try a fantasy”
Letting him know you are into trying new things and experimenting in the bedroom is a huge turn-on to men. You know he’s had ideas and fantasies about you, so now’s the time to invite him to play. He’ll also never turn down an opportunity to learn about a fantasy of yours that the two of you may thoroughly enjoy.

“Wanna take a shower?”
Most men find a sexy shower immensely enjoyable and stimulating. It the perfect opportunity for the two of you to soap each other up and enjoy the water running in between your bodies. It can also add another layer of intimacy as you share what is usually considered private time, and turn it into a sexy rendezvous.

“Keep your partner happy by being happy yourself.” – Blythe ext. 5339

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  1. ochieng ken December 2, 2014 at 2:23 am

    women enjoy sex than men

  2. ochieng ken December 2, 2014 at 2:21 am

    women enjoy sex more than men therefore they should sadduce men

  3. mary November 18, 2014 at 5:17 pm

    we close the drapes and lights we put the music on and we both dance naked that is the most beautiful thing to do

  4. rene May 30, 2014 at 9:31 am

    Ladys, what ever you will say,say it,and you will be surprise of the answers.Time are change wild you work outside I am now cooking the souper. You surely can crusse me as well. D’ont expect me to be the knight as before all the time and let made a little romance .Good luke !

  5. shelly May 26, 2014 at 10:18 pm

    I believe the important lesson here is communicating your thoughts and desires, so the other can really understand how you feel and where your desires will take both of you. My lover is turned on knowing that he is fulfilling my fantastical desires, which inturn his desire goes through the roof and beyond. Communication is not always expressed through words Remember in the beginning all the small thoughtful things that built up all that passion awaiting your next encounter! Treat your lover and YOURSELF to some surprises, be playful and imagine where you want to be,what want to feel and how you are going to get your PARTNER there.

  6. Robyn March 19, 2014 at 1:49 pm

    Terry Starr and Jose your spelling is really bad, if you want people to reply to you then they will need to know what you are saying. So check your spelling before you write a message or question.

  7. Missy February 28, 2014 at 12:14 pm

    First of all we are talking sex and a grammar police is concerned about spelling. Get a life and get laid then “oh babe do it more” will be just fine. Now I heard the complaints about others not giving out sex as they get older. But see if you want it make more effort then just saying it. I am 46 and I have been married for 17 years but when he is around me my mind goes straight to one of our nights. Then we are making a new one together. I mean learn to say it when you are doing it and before at dinner whisper in her ear. Don’t make the other feel that all you want them for is quick orgasm. Have kids at home send them to your sisters or you two go to a motel so it don’t matter if you scream your happiness out during. You might find that you both still have that spark and really enjoy each other. Who you seem to be at work and to others doesn’t have to match who you are with your other half. Just take that minute to call and say “I love you” or write a sex text. A woman loves to hear a man has desires to be with her. Example to her “I closed my eyes for a moment so I could think of kissing you all over your body Can’t wait to be with you” Example to him “No matter what I try to do today my mind keeps dreaming of your loving arms and your hot body I just want you to get here so we can kiss each other all over.” Now those are polite things I wrote to you all. But words are more touching then you think.

  8. toxotis December 31, 2013 at 12:42 pm

    Hi, i find that this always works with woman , but only after we have known each other for a few months,,,,,,,cuddle and kiss her and say ‘if i didn’t know you i would definitely go for you’..this makes her feel appreciated and wanted……….it has always worked with all the women i have known…..

  9. Grammar Police December 22, 2013 at 5:44 am

    People……..please use spellcheck!……Some of these comments are torturing the English language, not to mention the spelling is worse than a six year old!…..No one is going to take you seriously if your grammar and spelling is horrible.

  10. Robert October 30, 2013 at 12:00 pm

    I have been a loving man who enjoys sex. From the time I was 15 until 80 I am very sexually active, just as I was at 40. However women I have known often lose their sex drive at 45- or over, and it is VERY difficult to live this way. It is too bad that people aren’t more frequently associated with the same drive, and desire. I also know men who have lose their desire at 45 or so. Too bad. Many older men seek out young women because they know they are active and eager for sex.

  11. hannahlynx August 28, 2013 at 8:46 pm

    I have 2 comments… I also have a scar that is 10 inches across my bikini line and one that runs straight down the center of my stomach. I did not want my husband to see it at first and always kept my shirt on. It has faded with years and I now see it as these scars saved my life and I wear them with pride, much as I feel you should do. men don’t get into details about our bodies as we do. We are so bad at picking out flaws on ourselves, but they just make us unique.
    SECOND: To the guy who asked why his wife doesn’t want to have sex or even for guys who don’t want to have sex, it could be as simple as low hormone levels. I went through surgery induced menopause at 28 yrs old and sex was of no interest to me at all. I am now using bio-identical hormones which are exactly like what the body makes. It replaces what you can not make yourself and I get a testerone shot every month which gives me strong bones, energy and an amazing sex drive. Look for a compound pharmacy in your area, the hormones are made especially for you and no two peoples are the same levels. They can direct you to a doctor in your area who can test and put you on the right track. Life is too short to go through menopause and be unhappy with hot flashes, sadness and all the things that a lack of hormones can do to you. I feel wonderful and would not want to live without my bio-identical hormones. They are safer than what you get from a regular pharmacy and will not contribute to breast cancer like the ones made from pregnant horse pee. My sex life is wonderful, I feel great again, and you also have effects such as less wrinkles, better skin and gorgous hair. Of course with the men and the testosterone, you will also receive hgh shots to make sure your male jewels do not show any signs of shrinkage like with testosterone alone. Trust me, try it. Insurance will pay for it. So far I have not paid a dime except for my estrogen and progesterone. They run me $24 per month. So it is totally reasonable. Do some research and start speaking with people in your community like a compounding pharmacy. I would not recommend it if I did not truly believe in it. I hope this helps you guys!

  12. JoAnn August 23, 2013 at 8:13 am

    Let it go in the bedroom

  13. Elli July 29, 2013 at 11:53 am

    To those with husbands that don’t want sex: No, you are not alone. My husband is that way and I hear more and more wives with this same problem.

  14. Myo May 17, 2013 at 11:11 am

    My wife do not want sex . Do you know why?

  15. my man is diferent is it me? April 2, 2013 at 1:45 pm

    I say all these things and my man push’s me away I try to make love with my man and its him saying no is this normal?

  16. TERRY STARR March 14, 2013 at 11:14 am


  17. jose March 6, 2013 at 6:08 am

    hi hve aproblem i fear galz alot coz dont know what to tell them.i sireously need lov advice

  18. allen March 5, 2013 at 6:20 pm

    Yeah, if u girls wanna use those, fine. But, I only saw a couple that might work on me. My girlfriend turns me on by flirting with me, holds my hand in public, let’s me open doors for her, when she thinks I’m not looking, she sings and dances. In my opinion, best way to turn a guy on, don’t use cheesy pick up lines. Be your awesome self, and your man will be turned on and love you.

  19. jean February 25, 2013 at 7:42 am

    i have done all these 5 steps dont work no more married 23 years i feel he is ntr letting me closer he keeps saying hes going though something what should i do? i feel he is disconnecting away from me what should i do he say hes loves me he is now saying if it dont work out he is a man of his words i will never do with out .

  20. belva February 5, 2013 at 8:58 am

    please do not send anymore things where i seen free it is not thanks

  21. Kgokoane Tsoenyane November 14, 2012 at 1:49 pm

    All six of the seven tips are good except ‘i am not wearing any underwear…’ one, and i believe it’s true for most guys. A woman’s underwear is the most sexy of all clothes on a woman. No underwear is the most ‘unsexy’ thing a woman can do. To me that’s a turn-off.

  22. CLowe November 6, 2012 at 5:57 am

    Hi Libra Love! I too have a huge scar from my chest to my waist as a result of surgery I had following a domestic violence incident. I too, felt just like you for a long time, but trust me when I say that if your guy has an issue with your scar the HE is the problem not the scar. All of the advice these wise people have given you is true. Once you learn to accept yourself, you will have no problem finding others who will do the same. Sounds to me like you should run away from this man as fast as possible and surround yourself with positive people who will love and support you no matter what. Be blessed!

  23. maya October 12, 2012 at 8:49 pm

    he says that i have a sexy body and i had sex with him is that good

  24. lidadiva October 3, 2012 at 9:21 am

    Libra love, men don’t notice scares and stuff at first cause your not walking around naked. However they do pick up on the fact that you don’t like yourself easily. Look outside your box and take a good look around, people with disabilities and illnesses that can’t be healed are out there being loved by someone. Over size people find love I am one of those people by the way, so the scar you have is more internal on your than external. Lear to love yourself a little more each day and love your scar cause it makes you unique. Think of it as a stamp of uniqueness.

  25. Janet Occkiogrosso September 20, 2012 at 7:48 am

    This is for Libra Love – Your scar can not be that bad. Stop using that as a crutch and move on with love and life. You can find ways – be in the dark. Lay on your stomach – great love position. If the big turn off for a man is your scar he is not worth your time nor your energy. Add a tatoo on the scar if you feel you “have” to. Life is too short. You will be fine. Whenever I have had “baggage” that I wanted to trash I actually got a garbage bag and mentally put the “trash” in the bag and took it out to the garbage. I have a degree in psychology so I can be a little bold with comments. Just do it & smile. You will be wonderful.

  26. libra love September 12, 2012 at 3:50 pm

    I read the 7 sexy things to say and neither will work. I’m ashamed of a horrible scar I have on my stomach. So my love life sucks. I wouldn’t pay a psychic to see if I find true love. I’m trying to keep a Guy happy now and nothings gonna w
    ork. And worse of all I can’t get/be sexy bare. Plus he lives by a strip club. Bet he was in for a surprise

  27. Pat September 7, 2012 at 10:46 pm

    My boyfriend used to tell me “nothing looks good on you.” Like what do you mean by that? Think about it.

  28. janice July 22, 2012 at 8:25 pm

    i am back with my guy after a split-up and its great!

  29. weatherstorm July 16, 2012 at 8:30 pm

    some times the adamsfamily dose the job according to some man

  30. Sharon July 9, 2012 at 10:59 am

    What do you do if your man has a probalem? He gets upset when I even play around, because things that happened when he was young.

  31. Glow February 1, 2012 at 7:49 pm

    Oh n tell him you wanna have sex n that he turns you on!!! :)

  32. Glow February 1, 2012 at 7:48 pm

    Tell him you wanna have sex with him! Or have you asked him at all? Maybe he thinks he is going to hurt you if you guys do have sex… My doctor recommended me to have sex while I was pregnant…even at 9 months. Obviously not crazy sex but sex! You both can enjoy it but you gotta tell him. Sometimes guys just don’t pay attention to those things or even have a clue wats on our mind:)

  33. Juli February 1, 2012 at 10:04 am

    I can’t do or say anything to get my husband in bed with me right now. I’m 6 mos. pregnant, and we haven’t been the slightest bit intimate in over 2 months. I’m starting to feel like he’s repulsed by me right now, and caught him looking at pics of naked celebs…any suggestions for that one?

  34. Ana January 31, 2012 at 6:47 pm

    I love sex I have it every day with my man and it’s so fun

  35. Felix Mwegenya January 31, 2012 at 11:07 am

    Ma only request is to get Lea bcz am also single

  36. Glow January 31, 2012 at 12:42 am

    Here’s a few lines for the men out there (Bashir)
    Hey Sexy!
    You are so sexy!!
    Your Hot body turns me on!!
    Let’s cuddle under the sheets!!
    Can I sneak in your bed tonite?!!!:D (it works)

  37. Sheila January 30, 2012 at 6:11 pm

    I find that these are very intising statements. But not all men are interested in sex. Which is good roo

  38. punkybutt January 30, 2012 at 11:21 am

    I love being spontaneous making love any where any time!! Is that a turn on for most guys or not so much?! Cuz I have a hard time getting my man to be adventurous with me! At least any where like public places on a walk in tge closet at a gathering of some sort ect… What else could I try to make us both happy in tje adrenalin department:)

  39. Yosha Ellis January 29, 2012 at 10:22 pm


  40. karen January 29, 2012 at 7:35 pm

    my man always likes to take showers together its just a start to what we do in the bedroom later. i always telll my man he makes me hot escpecially when he phones me form work. i l.ike to make his mind wander about what kis waiting for him at home later.

  41. Selvakaandu K. Wijayanathan January 29, 2012 at 12:03 pm


  42. Diane Crane January 29, 2012 at 5:17 am

    I don’t know if you realize this, but the word “naked” implies shame, and shame is anything but sexy. I personally never use the word in a romantic context.

  43. Lynn Rose January 29, 2012 at 2:14 am

    YEAP! It worked on me……………………

  44. sona January 29, 2012 at 1:09 am

    nice thinking

  45. Mad Fox January 28, 2012 at 9:52 pm

    These things, I believe, are very beneficial for a long lasting and a happy relationship.
    Great article, I really like it.

  46. ma.eliza January 28, 2012 at 9:23 pm

    I have grown in a very conservative family ..Im widowed but have a boyfriend at the age of 60..still looking good and desirable…my bf is only 50…an Egyptian..he might think Im too cheap if I will tell him what I have read in this column….we met already and he is planning to marry me…I want to make him happy when we go on line in skype even by saying good nothings that he will appreciate..do you think he wont lose respect on me if I will tell him we will do this when he goes here to marry me???

  47. Lena January 28, 2012 at 2:44 pm

    Although I don’t have a fiance, I think it would be very nice if you tell him these things.

  48. theodore bryant January 28, 2012 at 9:49 am

    hello i am deaf person and i am black anyway i said no one lover so i hope will find right person for make real lvoer it

  49. Belinda January 28, 2012 at 9:18 am

    I’ve benn married for 5 years & the frist 6 months was great after that i don t what happing.
    i’ve try all this & more with me I am doing good to get 1 time a month out of him. i have sitting down with him & we have talked about it but still nothing.

    “You make me hot”
    “Let’s get naked”
    “I love your body”
    “I’m not wearing any underwear”
    “I can’t keep my hands off you”
    “Let’s try a fantasy”
    “Wanna take a shower?”

  50. mervyn sequeira January 28, 2012 at 6:24 am

    very exotic but i must find the right person to satisfy what ever she desires i am willing to learn and do lover

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