Unlocking the Mystery
If an Aquarian had things their way, which they would really like, there would be only 11 signs in the zodiac. Aquarians are independent and very proud of their originality, and they don’t want to be lumped into a group. The person who manages to get the Aquarian’s attention is the one who seems to appreciate them for the unique and somewhat mysterious and magnetic beings they really are. While most people see Aquarians as both friendly and at times frantic, you, as a potential love interest, see them as unique and charming individuals. If you truly understand them, you know that allowed their freedom and independence, your Aquarian will become a loyal, open-hearted partner who will always champion your cause.
Dating an Aquarius
Aquarians love to play the field prior to being in a committed relationship, and they won’t commit until they find someone they can communicate with both verbally and mentally. Like Geminis, Aquarians place a premium on communication. They’ll be plenty of pillow talk between the two of you too. Having common interests is also something that will keep you connected as a couple. Joining clubs that rescue animals or have an interest in preserving the environment will create a deep bond. Aquarians are humanitarians at heart.
Love an Aquarius
If an Aquarian loves you, you can bet they see you as a rare gem. They may have many acquaintances but fewer really good friends, and they would rather stay single than be in a committed relationship with someone who doesn’t communicate with them and understand them to the deepest core. When an Aquarius says, “You get me,” they say it with delight, and they mean it.
Aquarius is a fixed sign, meaning they don’t like it when they have to deal with change. It’s more important that you can fit into their world than for them to bend themselves around yours.
“Change is always to be welcomed rather than feared because it leads to the best relationship choices and the greatest freedom.” – Faith ext. 9608
The philosopher in them knows though that no one is perfect. However, if they love you but still find some of your habits intolerable, Aquarius will wonder how they can get you to change those habits. There would be less single Aquarians if they could just learn to live with the little “imperfections” belonging to their significant others.
Aquarians Aside
Of course our Sun signs only make up a part of our personalities. Knowing that alone, will ease any anxiety Aquarius feels about reading this article, which they will undoubtedly shed doubt on. That’s because there is one thing that every Aquarian has in common with every other Aquarian, they like to be individuals. And though they would like us all to think they are complex and indescribable, they are simply normal people with big hearts and big dreams. They like to be financially secure, they don’t like taking orders, they’re extremely generous with their resources, and they love to argue about trivial things, until you give in, because they probably never will give in themselves.
“Astrology brings so much to the table, it gives you the personality, likes and dislikes of a person. Their nature is uncovered and if it is not a match for you, it can be worked around to make it work.” – Quinn ext. 5484
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My BF is an Aquarius, and all the things noted about an Aquarius within this site (and people’s comments), are spot-on. I remember him emailing me that he was looking for a “knowledge sponge.” Holy Aquarius, Batman! I was very much attracted to this fact, because I am a drinker of knowledge, experience, etc. I am a kid at heart and love to explore, eyes wide open. We’re both fascinated with all the little things many people overlook or shrug off. This–added to our equal core values and other things in common–has resulted in such a harmonious coupling. I have never been happier.
Being an aquarian is one of the best gifts I’ve been given. I have many aquarian friends, whom I wouldn’t trade for the world, and I believe we compliment each other perfectly! They encourage me when I feel overwhelmed by life, understand my need for space one day and my desire to be a social butterfly the next, forgive my occasional (very rare of course)lapse of financial judgement, point out the holes in my philosophies before I embarass myself publically, give me the best stories to write about (and the reminder to actually write them), inspire me to have fun more often, run interference when I’m off my feed so that I don’t lose my place in line, and love me for being the unique person I am, rather than the person others expect me to be. They also taught me the value of loving myself first, so that I won’t expect or need to hold my boyfriend responsible for my happiness. When we love who we are, we have more love to give others, and we can see the beauty and appreciate what makes each person unique, rather than focusing on their faults. I have yet to meet anyone who enjoys being criticized for being who they’re not, and we all feel better about ourselves when we are truly appreciated for who we are and praised for our strengths and attributes. So, many thanks to my aquarian team, and to all the ones who have supported this aquarian!
I’m glad that you pointed out the dieeerfncfs in recognizing, handling and expressing ones anger. Sadly and far too often, I see women using anger as a excuse to rant cyclical topics on their soap boxes without being more proactive about trying to change situations for the better. Angry lip service tends to get old and feels hostile. I agree that it’s important to recognize what you’re feeling but realize that you’re not a slave to your emotions, choose how you would like to feel, then make those appropriate changes. One is not one’s emotions. Being bitter and constantly angry only brings more situations to feel validated with anger. I say, harness that anger into something more productive.~Laura {Leo}
I have been seeing a aquarius for 4 years. And no one has ever treated me better. He listens not just hears me and respects me. He is so smart and I find that really hot.
I have loved an Aquarius for the past 3 1/2 years. We met randomly one evening when he was a ride home for myself and a mutual friend from a concert in a neighboring town. He never left that night and we have been together every day since. I am a Pisces, and though quite a few people told me this would never work out long-term (he is also 20 yrs.younger than me) we look back at that now and have ourselves a good laugh about it. I am so attached to him (not in a co-dependent way) that I often tell people that if all the other males fell off the face of the earth I probably wouldn’t notice, ha!
He does have a tendency to an addictive personality, but acknowledges that this runs in his family and chooses not to follow their path. He is supremely intelligent,adventurous,sweet and loving most of the time, although sometimes he can get so far into his own thought processes or his world that he will say or do things that look really inconsiderate to those on the outside, without having the intention of being hurtful. It was really difficult for me to deal with this at first (we’d never even SEEN each other in our small town before the night we met, hard as this is to believe, so to say I didn’t know him AT ALL is an understatement) because I’ve never been romantically involved w/an Aquarian, but I loved him enough to apply myself and learn. It’s been an interesting and sometimes challenging ride so far, but he’s worth every second of it. He does like to spend money, but adapts well when things are a little lean, without too much of a fuss. He loves lots of physical attention, loving and cuddling. No one ever did that for him as a child, he was born to a drug-addicted mother who still suffers to this day. He tells me my touch keeps him alive. This works well for us because I am a very hands-on, touchy person. He’s always popping off with some grandiose idea or scheme, which I adore and tend to indulge. He has made his mistakes in this relationship, but I mostly attribute those to his age (he’s 28) and have enough love and tolerance to work through them w/him. We all fucked up when we were young. He DOESN’T make the same ones twice. And it’s not stretching the truth any to say that I am the first (and still only) person ever to love him truly unconditionally in his life. His family is still a no-show in the arena of his life. Whatever the mistakes have been, I always ultimately conclude that they are not so bad that the best solution is to not have him in my life. He is 9 mos. older than my oldest daughter, and I have 3 sons all in their early twenties, and we all see each other and do everything together nearly every day, so this is his family now. At first, they didn’t understand his behaviors sometimes, but after this long they see how much he loves their dreaming, artistic, eccentric mom, and they love him as much as I do. I feel so lucky to have found him (during one of those periods when I wasn’t even looking for someone, go figure) and every day I tell him that I feel like the luckiest woman alive, and am grateful that he is such a big part of my life. We are about to pick up and go tour this great country of ours for an unspecified length of time (we just bought a Honda Element to do just that) and I can’t imagine a better travelling companion! Good luck to everyone out there who loves an Aquarius! They’re a handful for sure. My best advice is to figure out as best you can how to see things through their eyes, and that a little patience and a lot of tolerance and space-giving make all the difference. The rewards are all there. Namaste!
Well, i really don’t know wat to do wit an Aquarius, so confused because he is so common, many girls around, and i don’t know enough about him. But i do like him and i don’t want to quit. So wat i have to do now ? Leave or give my heart for a bet
This article gives me great insight & answered so many questions..I have had the pleasure to deal with an Aquarius guy. The chemistry was amazing from the start.. We can talk about any subject. I have realized that he does like his space & is sensitive. His passion is changing the world to be a better place. I am a Taurus & its tough for me to trust but he has not given me a reason to not trust. He is a great guy..
This is the Best! truth truth truth!
I am new to this site. I am so stunned and giggling, and saying at the same time you all have gotten the 2 sides of the Aquarian man and woman DOWN. Wow!! I am an Aquarian female and my soul mate too, believe it or not, is a Aquarian male. Weird relationship for me. I thought we were so meant to be. I still don’t know the answer for that, if we were or weren’t because it never made it long enough to find out. We dated in High School briefly when he was a Senior and I a Soph. We were in band together. Funny Huh!! Marching band and everything. He played the Tenor Sax and I played the Alto. He sat beside me to the right, I loved the way his Levi’s use to fit his ass when he would walk away. Not the cool Hippie Kind like I wore with my knee high Combat Boots. Well I fell hard and I mean HARD. Well, I had the right to fall I thought. He just stopped calling me or asking me out, close to his graduation. Well he WAS GONE AND PINED FOR 2 YEARS. Well I just happen to join a band in town. Our drummer just happened to be Mr. NICE BUTTE LEVI MAN THAT LEFT ME, his best friend. So I always got blow by blow info on a weekly basis about Mr. Levis. So I pined more. My mom was about to put me in the nut house for this guy. I didn’t date for about a year, then I started dating the first chair Saxs player in band. He was our paper boy that I had the hots for in Jr. High. He ways gagging way to nice. This was back when you got a promise ring worth $50.00 man. He got me one of those of course. He sent flowers every week puke!! He would drive me to my gigs and pick me up afterwards. I was only 16 you know and really appreciated that he would do that for me. I got off work at 2:00 a.m. and he had to be to work at 5:00 a.m.. Man I wouldn’t do that for anyone if I didn’t have to. I have to stop here for now if anyone really cares. I just thought if I started a book series I could get some ideas in this room. I have. Would you want to hear how this could turn out. Would you want to give scenarios and also give advise for a book as to how the 2 Aquarians end up. Or could you give a shit. 2 of the same sign have 2 sides to them. Just like a nice shinny dime. Continue later I am tired. I never get to be alone anymore and I like my alone. I love my grand-daughter with all my heart. She lives with me and I love her 3 year old laughter, and stepping on toys at night so good nite thanks for listening
I am a Aquarius, and am secretly in Love with another Aquarius, that I have worked with
for about 13 years. I,m not sure he even knows of my feelings. I asked him out for a drink a few years ago, we had a good time, but at that time he was still in a relationship, with a woman he has been seeing off and on for many years. He had asked her to Marry him, many years ago, but she did not, their relationship has been on and off for years.
How do I get his attention, without being rejected, or should I just love him from a distance
as I do?
how to get an aquarias to say Love you
Which sign is most compatible to librans plsss
I will like to know which sign is most compatible wit librans.
I’m a leo, dating an Aquarian. My aquarian is funny in that I never know what is going on in his head. One minute he is really there and the next he isnt. I joke with him and call him a blond. He is like a child, like no one has ever taught him how to show his feelings. He is very fragile and needs lots of love. He shows he wants space, but when he gets lots of attention he feels loved. I find the key is to be there when he wants the love and to back off when he wants alone time. He is completely honest and faithful and fears no conversation. No expectations from him goes along way. He is slow to open up, shy even. Being a leo, I love to play with him like a kitten playing with a mouse.
Im an Aquarian and I rock!!!!
Am an aquarian and am dating an aquarian,am feb 10th nd he is feb 14th though there re little misunderstandin somtimes bt we cnt do witout eachoda.re we compatible?
My mother was an Aquarius. FINALLY and at this time I have a special interest in Aquarius who displays every characteristic you speak of in your article. I’m FINALLY accepting myself once in my life before I die without having to compete, give money to, finance their children to make a growing business to , recover from all their destruction in their jealousy when I have to give up and leave them — Finally, I have somebody that I can be acceptable to and when I’m not who is the humanitarian you speak of that points out to me in a compassionate way and with an positive solution to what might be a more positive way for me – I can breathe!!
Aquarians remain the best zodic sign in the world.Every thing said about aquarian is so true and real.lt’s directed to me.we so much have passion for our freedom.we run things our own way and no one should dare step on our way.we are fun loving,passionate,caring and loving.
My best friend is an Aquarius and yes, he is all that you say, and I would not change a single thing about him. Being a Taurus, that is saying a lot! If I knew I could be perfect enough, I would go for a romantic partnership, but being flawed, I know this is as good as it gets. The best relationship I have had with a man. He can be a handful, but he more than makes up for it with the richness he adds to my life. If you love an Aquarius, do so without agenda or expectation and you will find a true and loyal partner.
Although I’m not big on Astrology or Horoscopes, I am becoming a fan of both. I am a Gemini and I am in love with an Aquarius. This article is so unbelievable because it describes Greg to a “T” AND what’s more unbelievable is I always describe Greg to friends as “charming”. We are both big on communication and I’ve been rescuing German Shepherds for 11 years. Greg supports my cause and has come to accept my three rescue Shepherds. He also believes “having common interests…[creates] a deep bond” between two people. He always tells me that “I have his heart” and treats me with the utmost love and respect. Greg has a big heart and loves to dream big. He also holds financial security as a priority but does not allow money rule his life. I can honestly say that Greg is the Felix Unger and I am the Oscar Madison in our relationship but we have both come to accept these “imperfections” because we have come to realize what’s truly important.
All I can say about Aquarius guy Is that grow up man! You frustrated me and so hard to deal with! I wish I can forget that gheto loser though. I think his charming a little crazy wild in sex but were just not mean to be i guess,I’m Leo sign and his the opposite of me!
I am with Corie, Sibila. If you love reading philosophy books -you are with Aquarius, they are not bankers neither MacDonald workers.. Interesting topics-they are in, paying bills -out.
Yes, material, routine, everyday duties are are boring for them. Somebody will have hands to do work…for them.
or, maybe, organising some kind of revolution would suite the best for them…verbally. …generally, speaking does not mean action.
Violet
I totally agree with you. I too am a Libra, but he is a Capricorn on the cusp of Aquarius. The man never grows up and has spent far too much time allowing me to do his cooking, cleaning, laundry, child raising, and bill paying. He too spends and spends and has the addictive personality, always the party.
Marla
Sorry to hear you are doing it too. And of course us Libra’s just keep on loving until, most of the time, bitter and unfailing end.
Keep your heads up girls, remember Libra’s are warriors!!!
Thanks for sharing!
I loved Aquarius, who was born on February 1, for 2 yrs. He was very strange, very distant, but we really could talk for hours about everything in the world and …him. He did not want to talk about me or know me. He had no friends but his family was his world and his priority. When he was with me he loved me perfectly and I was in Heaven. When we were not together he was digging digging, sending me pages of emails about investigating…himself as always. I never knew when I see him again, I felt I was nobody, I never knew his plans, I was told never ever call him or visit his house. Mysteries all the time… Very eccentric man! Finally I was so confused that left him… I sent him email. And he just vanished! He even was not interested why I left! 4 women left him before me… I think he is happy to be alone. What a waste of time!
I am born Feb 14 and so of the things I agree with about Aquarius people in this article but, I can’t say that all of them are like what the article describes. I believe that all signs have things that are appealing and some not so appealing about them. I say judge individually and not on the whole.
Wow i am an aquarius born feb.1 an everything u said is so true if we can’t communicate with one another we dnt have a future an thats real an for yall’s info i have never had any addition an i am nt lazy an if ur aquarian is lazy,dirty,drug addit it might be because u make them miserable wit yo ass
I too am an Aquarius and don’t like playing the field either. I too like being in a loving relationship. I also agree that everything else is exactly on.
An addendum to my other comments— I can totally relate to David’s aquarian esoteric side. We are both Pagan and open minded to any and all who cross our path’s-again I can understand and can relate. We are alot alike in many ways. Also most important is that I understand a laid back approach about freedom and independence-I am a gemini and love my downtime and don’t need alot of time and attention all the time. I understand his privacy and alone time. WE both need ALOT of Space-lots of it…people don’t get that but I do though.
hey – once upon a time I fell deeply madly in love with an aquarian guy with his MCdreamy eyes and bow smile. He smelt like vanilla cookies and just was a big body builder muscular teddy bear. He had hair to die for and was/is a drummer. He was so intense- it was awesome. His birthday is January 20th and I wished him happy birthday. I miss him terribly as a person in my life that just “got me”-I can’t describe it there was just so much chemistry on so many levels. I lived for him just busting my chops…he was good at that and taught me how to do it back to him-it was fun and funny. I am a gemini. Our talks were awesome and I loved learning and exchanging thoughts with him. I wish him well and just saying I miss ya babes…
I fell in love with aquariun we had 25 years of beautiful love then he died and i can truly say i have never been loved or adored more.
As a Gemini, I’m supposed to be compatible with Aquarius. I’ve had many close Aquarian friends, but have never been in relationship with one. I like to see evidence that I’m the only one, hear declarations of love, receive displays of affection — none of which are volunteered by an Aquarian.
With my Aquarius friends there has always been a curious moment where they feel the need to make an out-of-the-blue, unasked-for extravagant promise — just before they really let me down. “We have to stay close and support each other” — then she sleeps with my boyfriend. “What we need to do is work together to get your book finished” — then he breaks off all communication.
I think my Gemini detachment is hard for them to handle. They are used to being the detached ones. The extravagant promise is their last-ditch effort to hook me with something. They like to see the commitment coming from the other side of the relationship.
For that reason, Libra and Leo are a good match for an Aquarius; also Capricorn gives them much-needed stability, and is strong enough to stand up to their lack of consideration. Of course, to get a true idea of compatibility, you should have an astrologer compare the whole charts (all the planet placements) of both people.
Love and luck on your birthday, Aquarius! :^)
wanna know who really compatible with a Libra??? please….
perfect!!!! i just dated an aquarious guy for 4months….and everything is exactly described him! thats why i learned something now…ask first the zodiac sign before going in a date!!! lol!
I am an Aquarian, Feb 2, but does not enjoy playing the field! Everything mentioned is soooo true! I am very very independent but loves being in love with one person romantically. Humor is one of Aquarians best quality and as far as bad habits and flaws, “what flaws?” “what bad habits?” hahahaha!
Acquarians are wonderful people, highly intelligent, innovative, witty, but on the other hand eccentrics, quirks. They have their own ways in life and will never bend or flex for other’s feelings. Oppurtunistics too, turning the wind suddenly against the innocent one who trusted them, for the sake of their own joy and happiness. When you find such an acquarius ( man particularly), turn and run away to the other end of the globe…..there are so many lovely people out there. Happy Birthday Acquarians!!!!!!
I am an Aquarius Rising. I act more like an Aquarius than I do my sun sign which is Taurus.
I love Aquarians! (:
Aquarians rock! (:
I admit you re spot on in this issue but want to know about cancer and cancer. And what future holds for us
Sibila, your Aquarians sound just like my Aquarians! (There are three of them) Im a Libra and love and appreciate their minds and their eccentricities, but have a really hard time with the total lack of responsibility for anything. You are also rright on about the addictions. All three of them has an addiction to three different things and none of them think they do. Despite all of this, Ill continue to love and care for all three of them. Im such a Libra!
Your description of Aquarius male is very very true and correct . I have been and still being in relationship with a aquarian man who is ditto as you have described selfish ,egoistic always likes to mention which qualities I lack and never wants to change himself not even once, even for the trivial issues. Always likes to chase the different women when we go out for a dance as he says dansing is his hobby and I keep sitting, also right in front of me he flirts with other women we are engaged which he puts as his compromise with me . He travells a lot but alone as he says that I do not do the things he does I do not share his interests and even I try my best to adjust with him. Many women have left him before me but still he never sees his own fault but women could not understand him and were unfair to him as he puts it.
wow you hit then nail on the head. I was married to a wonderful man but he passed a few years ago. We had a beautiful life together. He was a leo. He loved the way I was a flirt. He would laugh and say “someday you are gonna give some ole man a heart attack.” But I am the lucky one taking you home.
I love this article, but every time I read about Aquarians, I also see that we love our independence and playing the field and things like that. While most Aquarians that I know do, I am exactly the opposite. I hate playing the field. I hate alone time, and I’m a very dependent person…unfortunately. I can’t figure out why, but it is what it is.
Aquarius men rock. they are the best of the best lovers – stella****
Wow, “David in Denmark”!!!
I feel like that, too ~ about this site. Excellent…
Hey, Good Luck too! That’s a set-back, but you Aquarians are really tough! KEEP GOING! And Happy Birthday to You!☆♡♪☆
Greatest God Luck, “David in Denmark”!!!
That’s too strange…I made a typo…instead of “good”, I typed,”God”!!! Wooo
I have been in a relationship with an Aquarious and a lot of this is really true. Though in my case, I’m a Leo and for the most part tend to balance each other out. I know the person I have been with can count on one hand how many seriouis relationships he’s been in, and according to him, maybe out that handful one or two he trust enough to open up. He still surprises me with some of his comments and views of thing…but we lived together as room-mates for a while getting to know each other before making things official…and even then he was still figuring thing out until recently.
I’m with Corrie and Sibila. Let me know when one of these kind, supportive Aquarians surfaces. I’m not holding my breath.
I was married to a very well-intentioned Aquarius, who cheerfully let me support the household, endlessly clean up after him, pay all the bills, and endure one fiasco after another — until his insane spending, refusal to cope with reality, and overall irresponsibility had a serious impact on our daughter’s well-being, and I packed her up and left.
I’m a Libra, and ending a marriage had been unimaginable to me, but in the last few years of the marriage, I felt like a pack mule in a waterless desert. To the Aquarian’s credit, we’ve managed to sustain a friendship — he’s bright and good-hearted, though he still lives like a 12-year-old with a credit card. However, I know that if I hadn’t taken the leap, I’d still be one jump ahead of the bill collectors and living in a sty.
Aquarians can be great at big ideas, but something other than great on reality.
Boy do you know aquarius. You hit us right on the head. Bravo, job well done.
Dear Astrologer,
Libra’s are good for the sign on dating aquarians, what is the sign that is really good for libra’s?
hopeful