What Does Sex Feel Like to a Guy?

August 9, 2013 at 11:00 am

Getting to the Finish Line

When trying to understand what sex feels like to a guy, you have to realize that there are different types of sexual experiences along the way. Sex to some men is like a marathon race which ends with a terrible spill, as he digs his foot into the starting gate (premature ejaculation). It can be like an upward climb in a hardware store to a sale on hunting hats, yet just as he gets to the top, he finds there isn’t any left, so he buys a fishing pole instead (fake orgasm). It can be like rubbing two sticks together to create fire. However, one of them breaks, so he kicks the broken pieces to the side, hoping nobody notices (impotence). It can be like adding super unleaded fuel to the tank of a Ford Gremlin instead of the “regular” stuff, causing it to overheat and explode on the highway (Too much Viagra, followed by an emergency visit to the hospital.).

Anatomy Class

In short, sex may be a slightly different experience for every man. However, while it may be an individual experience, there are certain similarities that are worth mentioning. In fact, if you remember from your anatomy class, men and women start life with not-all-that-different equipment. We both had a lump on our shoulders, a pair of lungs, a couple of stubs that would one day serve as arms and legs, and a cluster of embryonic cells dedicated to our sex organs. It takes several months before these cells get their act together and set on their path to either creating a love tunnel or funnel (so to speak).

What happen over the next couple weeks is not only amazing, but can be quite beneficial for a woman to understand exactly how sex feels to a man. A woman’s clitoris is basically a mini-me version of the head of the penis. His organ may not have quite the sensory capability, being 10-times bigger. However, the pleasure and fun factor of this organ is still fundamentally the same. If we travel down along the inner lips of the female anatomy, which also includes the illusory G-spot, you’re basically dealing with the male portion of the body, known as the shaft. Next we move to the outer lips of the female, and this is what develops into a man’s scrotum (saggy home to the testicles).

Before I lose you to boredom, allow me to get to the interesting part. This suggests one important fact, and that is the act of sex is more stimulating for men than women (duh). His sexual organ is spread out over a greater area, and receives much more stimulation from the standard jackhammer sex response. This is probably a fundamental causation of why intercourse only extends itself for three to ten minutes for the average male. However, this is where the man’s advantage diminishes.

Psychology of the Orgasm

Because a man’s psychological pleasure receptors are also tied to his physiological ejaculatory response, his orgasms are generally shorter (last a couple seconds), more intense, and can only occur once in a given sex session. None-the-less, the warm feeling that begins with a woman’s clitoris and spreads throughout her body is a similar experience described by men. Men also experience the tingly, pulsating, electric contractions.

Because of the physiological delivery of semen, researchers speculate that the sensation of orgasm is perhaps slightly more symbolic for men, because it also offers the tangible experience of fluids leaving his body. A lot of men describe the experience as if he is giving a spiritual portion of himself to his lover. This explains why guys feel an intense closeness to their partner directly after an orgasm, which is multiplied several times over, considering the big O also puts him in a state of oxytocin overload (a.k.a. “the feeling of being in love”).

So now to answer the question, “What does sex feel like to a guy?”

Imagine a Q-tip being gently swirled deep inside your ear. Suddenly, you have the uncontrollable urge to sneeze, and you do. The resulting explosion expels your brain from your nose, along with fragments of light and energy. You forget your name, imagine yourself riding on a unicorn in a fairytale kingdom, and get an unpopular 80s tune stuck in your head. As the sensory overload subsides, your conscious awareness recollects itself, and you begin to feel a deep and euphoric connection to that Q-tip. You ponder the sacred nature of love, and become very sleepy. You curl up in a fetal position. Goldy Locks steals your covers and three-fourths of the bed, and you drift into a long and slumbering nap.

Psychic Teagan ext. 5318 knows what’s lacking in your most intimate relationship and she has the tools to help you remove what blocks you from a more fulfilling sex life.

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  1. olivia July 6, 2014 at 11:41 am

    i have never had sex i want to but i cant xox

  2. suck it July 3, 2014 at 9:33 am

    I was scared the first time but got used to it and it amazing if you can do it right with the right partner

  3. dolphin1 June 21, 2014 at 9:49 am


  4. fluffy May 30, 2014 at 12:11 pm

    i don’t like sex i had it once but it was rubbish

  5. Dan March 20, 2014 at 1:01 pm

    I’m 26 and had never sex, how does male feel after intercourse? I want to remain virgin until i marry because i’m afraid of STD

  6. Emma Douglas March 16, 2014 at 4:12 pm

    I have never have sex throughout my high school year, but I always know that this experience should let me know it keep through my mind as you all talking about it.

  7. Emma Douglas March 16, 2014 at 4:07 pm

    Sex doesn’t mean to experience, it express the mind of massage for example.

  8. Kendrick Terrell March 2, 2014 at 9:43 am

    Oh yeah sex is so awesome even my girlfriend Courtney liked it!!!!

  9. Angela Goodnight January 9, 2014 at 7:24 am

    I don’t think this piece is very helpful. We came across it while checking what else is available on the subject and were horrified. If you are interested in my partner’s take on the subject you’ll have to search my name. Saying that the male orgasm only lasts two seconds is totally wrong or means the lovemaking has not been properly done for either party. Angela Goodnight

  10. guy January 5, 2014 at 1:11 pm

    Sex with right kind of women is the greatest feeling in the world if she knows how to do it good.

  11. Candikiss November 16, 2013 at 11:18 am

    sex is a roller coaster!!!!

  12. just me August 13, 2013 at 9:55 pm

    I personally
    thank you for that stimulating awareness…. I love sex…. and that’s the diff…if you know its just sex ..then that’s fantastic……but as far as making love….that is what I heard here…to me when two souls can become one.. with the attentiveness and caring displayed here … to care enough to know how a man feels physically during sex or lovemaking..is awesome.. and sometimes I feel as if to some.. its like a very frightening attempt to be viewed as a worthy opponent or as good as …………..or better than……. therefore not allowing to totally feel and comprehend and absorb each second and what it is doing to the parts..the mind..the heart the soul…for each….aside from the heightened
    physical pleasure….and to me it is very important to know the tools you are working with ,every important inch….49 and have never heard it described quite like that.. thank you ..its taken me years to truly learn my own body…and when I think of his body as my body..then I think we can definitely make quiet magic………………when I find him….thanks to this article….

  13. delfina February 23, 2013 at 10:56 am

    my partner is like crazy for sex he will rip off my clothing and then have sex with me he even decided to have sex with me while i was giving birth. it was the worst feeling ever!

  14. SheJar December 24, 2012 at 10:32 am

    Some of that I do believe, but on the other hand men fake it just like women do.

  15. Lauren December 23, 2012 at 6:19 am

    That was absolutely beautiful! I am female, and I have often asked my lover to explain what he is experiencing during sex and orgasm. He usually starts by saying words like ‘Warm’ or ‘welcoming’ and ends with ‘can’t think’ ‘happy’ and ‘sleepy’. Now I have this point of reference to offer to him so that he can articulate his experience like this. I loved this article! Thank-you!!!

  16. DLH December 22, 2012 at 8:30 pm

    sounds like a fairytaleai dont believe a word.

  17. Charlotte December 22, 2012 at 8:15 pm

    That one comment – ” This suggests one important fact, and that is the act of sex is more stimulating for men than women (duh). His sexual organ is spread out over a greater area, and receives much more stimulation from the standard jackhammer sex response.”
    Just how does this writer (Eric J. Leech) know that sex is always more stimulating for a man than a woman? He does not. I have the good fortune to be able to feel pleasure in every nerve ending during sex as well as a feeling of being stimulated all over. Even if the orgasm is not mind-blowing, it still feels really good and I wish it could go on and on…. But most men do not have the stamina to hold off and give me that awesome continuous pleasure that will produce more than 1 orgasm. I’ve always loved sex. I’m no longer young anymore either…. ;)
    My favorite psychic on here is Liam – I think that’s his name. He does not bundle up sex in the white anglosaxon protestant twisted morality. Sex is a natural thing – as important as breathing – or eating….. sleeping. To make it into anything else is a travesty of the human spirit. Sorry I got side tracked from Mr. Leech’s blog – but I felt I should say those things because how you look at sex and feel about it influence how intense that experience will be.

  18. RVG December 22, 2012 at 2:02 pm

    While the notion of explaining the Male Orgasm is healthy and desired, your essay, especially the first, rather foolish paragraph, explains nothing.
    You are so full of fantasy and fluff that most everything you say is just for humor. (I did say humor- for it’s not entertainment nor informative)
    Please stay being a psychic and leave the medical, physical and emotional explanations to the better versed professionals, or the average and sincere man.
    Merry Christmas!

  19. Mandi December 22, 2012 at 11:41 am

    “A lot of men describe the experience as if he is giving a spiritual portion of himself to his lover. This explains why guys feel an intense closeness to their partner directly after an orgasm, which is multiplied several times over, considering the big O also puts him in a state of oxytocin overload (a.k.a. “the feeling of being in love”).”

    Ok, so how come women are often the ones that fall in love with a man 1st & often times the man is just having some fun with the woman leading her on thus making her think that he will commit to a relationship but then it never happens? Is his “orgasmic sense of being in love” fleeting & false?

    Also, maybe women subconciously know that men have that “loving feeling” after the big O & that is why so many women leap before they look so to speak & jump into bed with a man in the hopes of him falling in love with her. Some women kiss a whole lot of frogs before they find there prince charming!

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