Astrology and Your Boss

January 26, 2010 at 5:00 pm
By Calliope Hart

You can help improve your relationship with your boss just by studying their astrological sun sign. Get insight into their work mode — more importantly, find out what they expect from you on the job.

Aquarius: Exception to the Rules
They may be eccentric and come across as absent-minded or forgetful, but Aquarian bosses still expect the very best from you. Your nonconformist supervisor hired you because they recognized an independent, creative thinker with an unconventional streak — qualities they respect, and need to get things done. When working for a water-bearer, it’s key to stay up-to-date on all things technical. They love computers, and will expect you to be as much of a whiz on your PC as they are. Just don’t let them catch you goofing around on the Internet on company time. They may be unorthodox, but they do expect you to earn every penny. Study them as they wind their way to success through networking and friendships — they have a knack for mixing business with pleasure that generally works.

Pisces: Artistic License
This creative visionary really hates the responsibilities of being the boss. They make promises they can’t keep — and have lots of ideas swimming around in their heads that never make it to paper — because they lack the focus it takes to nail down an idea. But worry not, employee — this is where you come in. Piscean supervisors appreciate a hard worker with imagination. In fact, their own creativity can be downright inspiring. Just be forewarned. Because of their own feelings of job instability, these bosses can be manipulative, forgetful and moody. Keep your distance, and work through their bad times — and you’ll find their gratitude rewarding.

Aries: Bossy Big Shot
You need to be on your toes at all times with this impetuous manager. They have a powerful ego, and they demand quick action — don’t keep your Aries boss waiting. Explain your ideas in short, strong and direct memos and conversation. While you’re talking, make sure you sound enthusiastic about your ideas. You can probably get away with coasting in a bit late and leaving early — but in return, when an Aries needs help to get a big job done, be prepared to drop your evening or weekend plans at a moment’s notice.

Taurus: The Controller
The key to being a good employee to a Taurus boss is to conform to their routines and deadlines, without asking too many questions. They need to feel like everything is running smoothly — their way. If you want to get ahead with a Taurus manager, keep them in the know about the projects you’re working on, with quick updates on how they’re moving along. Don’t take advantage of this employer’s easygoing nature. They will only be patient up to a point. If they see you getting lazy, repeating the same mistakes, or becoming argumentative, you could be looking at a pink slip.

Gemini: More Wishy, Less Washy
Expect to feel a little unstable about your career and your future with a Gemini manager. It’s just the way it’s going to be, because this boss is totally unpredictable. Don’t expect to pin them down on anything. One day you can come back from lunch late, and they won’t even notice. Then, out of the blue the next day, dragging your feet while you come in from a break could turn into a major issue. Make an impression with a Gemini boss by helping them make their great big ideas a reality — without you, they might not finish the job. They appreciate hard work and support, but don’t expect lavish rewards.

Cancer: Cautious Leader
Your Cancer boss is ready to do anything to be successful. They are very protective of their jobs, and will turn their back on your own success if you do anything to make them feel insecure. Help make the office a relaxed, smooth working environment. In return, you’ll have a wonderful, nurturing boss who will teach you the tricks of your trade and guide you along with plenty of emotional support. Some honest personal attention, like asking them if you can bring them something back from lunch, or inviting them to ride along with you to a work event, will help you to gain their trust.

Leo: The Delegator
Outshine this boss and you’ll be moved to another department — or sent packing. Leo leaders are pushy employers who can appear to be doing nothing, while they’ve delegated the most difficult duties on their list. Sure they work you above and beyond your job description — and, yes — they may steal an idea or two. But what’s important to your success is to stay in their good graces. The future of your department depends on their ability to organize and farm out projects to the people who will get the job done right. Compliment their good work, and you’ll fit right in.

Virgo: Efficiency Experts
A Virgo boss is easy to work for if you keep in mind that their ability to fix any mess is the key to their success. If you bring more turmoil into their environment, it makes work harder for this organized perfectionist. Neatness in all things counts with them — so a messy desk, project folders brought to meetings with papers spilling out of them, sloppy mistakes and constant complaints won’t put you at the top of their ‘good employee’ list. Go directly to your Virgo employer with a simple, honest assessment of your problems, and they will help you out. Account for your time, and offer to work late with your workaholic boss on occasion. When review time comes around, you’ll be happy with the report.

Libra: Busy Body
These powerful executive types will be more than fair if you’re ambitious and productive. Always busy juggling several projects at once, the Libran boss demands a harmonious, well-appointed environment where they can ponder the pros and cons of their decisions and strategies with comfortable, calm perseverance. More often than not, they’ll come to you for an opinion, but don’t be surprised if you don’t have any effect on their conclusions. Finally, beware of mistaking their open-door policy, friendly smile and people-pleasing manner as an opportunity to gossip or get personal. This relationship is strictly professional.

Scorpio: Team Captain
The Scorpion manager has the ability to attract loyal, devoted employees who work well under their control. If you’re willing to do everything you can to make their team successful, you’re in. On the other hand, if you even think a bad thought about this employer — much less dare to express it — they’ll pick up on it before your little rant has a chance to make it to the water cooler. The Scorpio boss has an uncanny ability to know what’s going on in your head, without even picking your brain. If they sense even the slightest reason to distrust you, they’ll quietly shun you.

Sagittarius: Absentee Boss
You’ve got to be steady and understanding, with solid self-esteem to work for this blunt, impulsive, and often absentee boss. Sagittarians are always on-the-go. As bosses, they need to know they can trust you enough to leave you in charge. So take good care of things while they’re out and about doing business. Report back regularly by phone or email, and don’t ask them to explain themselves when what they say doesn’t seem to make sense. Though you’ll have to figure things out for yourself, if you succeed, a job well-done will earn you public praise. Conversely, a job undone will lead to public scrutiny. Don’t take it too hard — it’s just the way they are.

Capricorn: Parent Trap
Goats are usually the behind-the-scenes big shots, running business in a stern and formal way. Think of this traditionalist as a strict parent — while they expect you to play by the rules and be dedicated to the corporate family, they also want to see you grow and succeed. For one thing, your ambition will earn their respect. You just have to keep them in the loop. Don’t leave a Capricorn boss guessing about the details of your projects — make sure your reports are clear and comprehensive. And while they can be intimidating at first, keep in mind that they’re fair, and maybe even a bit soft on the inside — once you get to know them. As with a good parent, when you’re in need they are always there to help.

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Quiz: Test Your Love

November 15, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Calliope Hart

Have you looked into the state of your love union, lately? Whether you were married three years ago, or 30, every partnership needs a quick check-up, now and then. Is it suffering from wear and tear, out-dated goals, conflicting beliefs, long-ignored chemistry, or plain old-fashioned neglect?

Take our quiz and find out.

1. You are intimately connected at the hip. You trust each other in bed, with your heart, and with your deepest goals and desires. You are lovers, friends and confidantes.

a. Absolutely! (3)
b. Sort of? (2)
c. We’re good for one out of three. (1)

2. Hey, we’d love to be closer and spend more time alone, but the reality is that between work and family commitments, our gym and golf schedules,… we have just enough minutes left to get in a quickie here and there.

a. We wish? (2)
b. That sounds like a dream life to us. We aren’t even on the same sleep schedule. (1)
c. That just isn’t good enough. We make time, lots of time, for number one (us)! (3)

3. When it comes to feelings, we put them all out on the table. We can trust one another to listen to dreams, fantasies, needs, happiness and heartache – and it all comes with a no-judgment clause.

a. Seriously, people really live like that? (1)
b. That’s us. Share and share alike!(3)
c. We only chat about the good stuff/bad stuff. (2)

4. We can fight about money, politics, in-laws, the kids – you name it – but at the end of the day, we have agreed to disagree. We never, ever go to bed angry, and we always stick up for each other.

a. Us, fight? (2)
b. Not us. We can brood and be lousy to each other for days. (1)
3.That’s us. We resolve our conflicts respectfully. (3)

5. You feel all tangled up in your relationship. You’d like to change jobs, go back to school… but your mate insists that you keep status quo – so why rock the boat? After all, when the kids grow up, the two of you will have more time to dream, and travel and try new things – maybe?

a. You could say we fit in that rut. (1)
b. We’re in therapy. At least we’re talking about options. (2)
c. That is an unacceptable relationship! (3)

Your score:

10-15 points: You’ve loved and it’s lasted. You are friends and lovers, too – the life-enhancing couple combo, that’s part chemistry and part hard work. You make your relationship a priority and the trust, equality and mutual respect you have for one another nurtures your dreams. You love yourself as much as you love each other. .

5-9 points: Your relationship either has potential, or is potentially heading for conflict. It’s time for both of you to fortify your connection by clearing out any time-worn attitudes that are either making your life too predictable or crossing the lines of mutual respect. It’s time to make your union a priority. List all the areas that need work, and go for it.

1-4 points: Call it a student union! You two need some lessons in love. You make everything but the elements of a good partnership — listening, fighting fair, scheduling in some quality sex, making sure each other’s dreams come true — a priority. If one of you is not willing to work on the state of your union, it may be time to hand over marching papers. If you’re both ready and willing, take it one problem at a time. Good luck!

Learn how to spice up your union. Check out Psychic Liam’s sexual pointers.

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Sex Boosts By Element

October 28, 2009 at 12:15 pm
By Calliope Hart

Turn up the heat on your sex life by making the most of your natural sex appeal. Connect with your basic sexual energy through your astrological element – and then work it. You’ll give out steamier vibes, and – of course – you’ll both give and get more pleasure.

Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
You literally can make the earth move for your lovers, which should give you sexual confidence that doesn’t stop.

Look into your love’s eyes and hold their attention a bit longer than usual during the course of your day – and, later, as you touch their face and hold them close. Breathe together as you use your lips, tongue and fingertips to explore their being.


Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)

You are such passionate people! Fire signs wear their sex drive on their sleeves and have an awareness of their own simmering sexuality.

Increase your sex appeal in the bedroom with even more fun and games. Foreplay equals more play if you play strip Scrabble, Clue or Candyland (and let your partner win, on occasion). Add pole dancing to your already long list of athletic pursuits, and teach your partner everything you know.

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Elemental Sex Boosters

July 28, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Calliope Hart

Turn up the heat on your sex life by making the most of your natural
sex appeal. Connect with your basic sexual energy through your
astrological element – and then work it. You’ll give out steamier
vibes, and – of course – you’ll both give and get more pleasure.

The idea is to build on what you already have. Enhance your most attractive qualities with elemental tips – and then watch the sparks fly!

Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
You literally can make the earth move for your lovers, which should give you sexual confidence that doesn’t stop. And what’s sexier than that? A touchy- feely kind of person, you really don’t need any fancy moves to send your partner over the edge and right on to Wonderland. Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn are some of the signs that are truly comfortable taking their time as they enjoy their earthy, sensual pleasures.

Here are a few new elements to add into your already-efficient lovemaking skills. Look into your love’s eyes and hold their attention a bit longer than usual during the course of your day – and, later, as you touch their face and hold them close. Breathe together as you use your lips, tongue and fingertips to explore their being. And last but not least, do it with your socks on! A recent research study suggests that warm feet add heat to the pleasure centers.

Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
You are such passionate people! Fire signs wear their sex drive on their sleeves and have an awareness of their own simmering sexuality. You can be so naturally charming that people often think you’re flirting when you’re just being you. Sex for Aries, Leo and Sagittarius is a steamy adventure, a whole lot of fun – and even more joyous if it’s inspired by affection and spontaneity. Masters of your own bodies, you know how to make your moves work for the good of everyone involved.

Increase your sex appeal in the bedroom with even more fun and games. Foreplay equals more play if you play strip Scrabble, Clue or Candyland (and let your partner win, on occasion). Add pole dancing to your already long list of athletic pursuits, and teach your partner everything you know. Or, ambush them while they’re sleeping… waking them slowly with kisses everywhere and letting them decide if they want to go the distance.

Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
You have a way with words that inspires others to connect intimately with your lusty thoughts. Your hot spot is definitely your sexy, sexy mind – whether you have pleasure on the brain or not. Your restlessness makes you a challenging conquest, and so your primal instincts naturally level your playing field with ego-building verbal foreplay that’s aimed right at your partner’s heart. Everyone craves compliments, and yours send lusty shivers through your partner as you stroke their body with your mind.

Enhance your lexicon of lust by inspiring your bedmates to even greater pleasure with these innovative acts. Move the action to the bathroom, or wherever you can catch your mirrored reflections in the act. Use your verbal skills and add some arousing play-by-play commentary. Since you’re always restless for new forms of self expression, think of the Sea of Love – or any other film that inspires you to go in for the climax right up against the wall. And if that doesn’t put you at a loss for words, try to hold back your words – just moan when it feels good.

Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
You excel at romance and seduction – so just turn on the sex appeal to get under your partner’s skin – without saying a thing. Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces can charm the pants off partners with deep desire, and a knack (and need!) for lovemaking in its most sublime forms. Mix in a love of fantasy and the ability to release pure passion, and – whoa! What water sign wouldn’t have a good sense of sexual self-esteem?

Flood your elemental ability to keep your partner spellbound during the ebb and flow of your lovemaking by using two sets of ear plugs. They will quiet the sounds of the outside world as you focus on your breathing and your heightened senses of sight, scent and touch. Sensual massages are usually floating around in a water sign’s bag of seductive tricks. Add in the unpredictable – kiss your partner’s earlobes and neck with an open mouth, as you intuitively release their stress, for an ultra-arousing effect.

Remember – when you spend time tapping into your greatest elemental strengths in the bedroom, everybody wins!

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Moon in Scorpio

July 28, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Calliope Hart

Today’s Moon in sultry Scorpio can intensify (and complicate) personal and professional encounters. In the romance arena, Scorpio inspires sexy interactions and deep emotional connections, but can also trigger the dark stuff, like jealousy, secrecy and power struggles. On a deeper level, it can prompt an emotional catharsis (anger, tears or a startling revelation) that helps you heal the past. On the business front, Scorpio favors financial and business discussions – if you don’t let your emotions cloud your judgment. So enjoy today’s emotional depth and intensity, but don’t succumb to the dark side!

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Love in Transit

June 7, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Calliope Hart

On this day in 2004, the first transit of Venus occurred in this millennium. Transits of Venus are among the rarest of predictable planetary phenomena. They occur in a pattern that repeats every 243 years, with pairs of transits eight years apart and have been noted to precede major global shifts in consciousness. If you’ve experienced a major shift in the four years since Venus passed directly between the Earth and the Sun, now you know one potential explanation!

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Lucky Seven

June 6, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Calliope Hart

People born on the seventh day of any month are ruled, in numerology, by the number seven. Astrologically, they’re linked to the seventh planet, Neptune, which presides over visions, dreams and psychic phenomena. Those who are ruled by these aspects should pay special attention to staying grounded. A tendency to get caught up in dreams – the unrealistic kind – can be prevalent in their nature. Famous sevens born on this day include Liam Neeson, Prince, Anna Kournikova, Bear Grylls and Dave Navarro.

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A True Gemini

June 4, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Calliope Hart

If ever a Gemini took full advantage of their Natal gifts, writer, actor, and famed storyteller Spalding Gray, used his Gemini creativity, love for the spoken word and limitless vision to hop-scotch successfully between the stage, the big screen and television. Born June 5, 1941 in Providence, Rhode Island, he gained a following when Swimming To Cambodia, one of his many confessional autobiographical monologues, inspired the1984 Academy Award winning film The Killing Fields. In 2001, Gray suffered severe injuries in a car crash, which left him physically and emotionally depleted. His poor health and depression that followed may have been intensified by Neptune in his 6th house. In 2004, Spalding went missing. His body was pulled from the East River weeks later. It is believed that he jumped from the Staten Island Ferry after seeing the Tim Burton movie Big Fish with his family.

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