Karma and Pets

September 16, 2010 at 10:30 am
By Colleen M. Quill

We constantly hear the phrase “karmas a bitch” used for someone’s bad actions being returned to them. However, according to Hinduism, “karma” is not punishment or retribution, simply the idea that that which you put out there, either good or bad, is what your actions will bring upon you.

Add “pet” to “karma,” and you will find that a pet often has traits in common with its “human” (a.k.a. owner). Many trainers say you teach what you allow. If you are indulgent and negligent to your pet, your pet is going to be lazy and demanding. When you want to motivate a pet to walk, you should not send out a wave of negative energy or yelling at them. You want to teach them. Who would be motivated by someone screaming at them all the time? As humans, we get upset and cower inside, if not outside when subjected to constant threats, if you bring your bad day home and take it out on your pet, you will not receive love from them. The creature will defend itself and try to avoid you. Read the rest of this entry »

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4 Ways to Deal With a Bromance

August 17, 2010 at 5:00 am
By Colleen M. Quill

We all know that males love their guy time – but lately, there may have been just a little too much of it for your taste. Sometimes it seems like your man likes his best friend just a little too much, and you feel like their bromance is intruding on your romance. Shake it off!

Would you rather have a guy like Paul Rudd’s character in I Love You, Man, who only gets along with women? (Leaving Paul Rudd’s adorable nature out of the equation.) Even the most secure woman would find that a little unnerving.

Here’s a few tips to keeping his bromance from effecting your relationship:

1. Agree to separate nights out so that the time apart is planned. You’re not stuck waiting for him because he decided to “just have one beer” with his best friend, and three hours later is nowhere to be seen. Read the rest of this entry »

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10 Openings to Love

August 16, 2010 at 1:00 pm
By Colleen M. Quill

Looking for a quick love fix in just ninety days? Get a puppy. They’ll always need you, always give you unconditional love, and they’ll never ask you for a new cell phone or to pay for them to attend college or therapy to blame all their mistakes on you.

However, if you’re looking to get on the road to love, there are some techniques that you can use:

1. You have to love yourself. Commit to being happy and focusing on doing your positives. Read the rest of this entry »

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Keep a Dating Diary

August 8, 2010 at 5:00 am
By Colleen M. Quill

If your head is full of questions about relationships that went nowhere, it’s time for some (easy) self-examination. Try spending five to ten minutes a day keeping track of your dating habits.

If you want a relationship, you have to put in the time. There’s no time for excuses, and your friends are getting tired of having the same conversations with you. It’s time to write down the basics so that you can see the patterns of your own behavior and how you react to them.

Here’s an easy, basic list that you can keep on the go. Read the rest of this entry »

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8 Male Mysteries

August 6, 2010 at 5:00 am
By Colleen M. Quill

Decoding the male mind has never been easy. Add a bad economy to the mix, and men have become even more mysterious and intense than ever.

Here are a few insights into the mysterious things he says and does:

1. Withdrawal of Commitment. You live together, you used to talk about the future all the time… but lately he’s resisted and changed the subject. He might not be in the financial place or the job he wants to be in, so until he has it all figured out, thinking about the future may be a real source of stress. Read the rest of this entry »

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10 Dating Habits to Break After 30

August 5, 2010 at 1:00 pm
By Colleen M. Quill

You’ve just attended your umpteenth glamorous wedding this summer. It made you long for one of your own. Now that you’re over thirty, the social pressure to hurry up and get paired up feels like a noose – but you genuinely want a relationship.

It’s time to stop whining that all the good men are gay, married or taken. Shake up your dating habits and get your man or woman!

1. Online Dating: If you haven’t tried this you may want to get yourself back out there digitally. New sites are popping up all the time. Try different interests on different sites; don’t just stick with the same pool of men over and over. Read the rest of this entry »

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Should You Settle?

August 4, 2010 at 5:00 pm
By Colleen M. Quill

Are you always chasing rainbows? Looking for something you think is out there and not satisfied? Here’s a few indications that what you’re searching for might already be present in the person who you’re in a relationship with. You may just recognize that there’s no such thing as a greener pasture.

1. Your partner challenges your creativity and ignites it.

2. You share the same values, which will help you weather life’s difficult storms. Read the rest of this entry »

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Sweep Him Off His Feet

August 4, 2010 at 1:30 pm
By Colleen M. Quill

You have a great guy. Things are going well – so well that they’ve almost become routine. Want to turn the volume up on your relationship? Here’s four ways to bust out of the everyday:

1. Guy Time. Buy him tickets to an event, plan the entire thing, and give him the option of inviting his buddy instead of you. Why? Men need male bonding time, and a chance to blow off steam. You’ll show how secure you are in your relationship, that you are paying attention to his interests and appreciate all that he does for you. Read the rest of this entry »

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