Authors - Part 30

You’re 40 – Take on the Dating Scene

March 21, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Eric J. Leech

You’re Never too Old to Find Love

You’re never too old to love and be loved. Dating over 40 should not become a phrase that distills fear, but rather the confidence in knowing that your experience should give you an even better chance of finding the relationship you want. A lot of important discoveries are made between your 20s and 30s, and by the time you reach 40, it’s time to put these to good use. For some people, that may entail making more money; for others, adopting a lot of cats. However, if you happen to be among the crowd looking for love, you’ve found yourself on the right page.

Update Your Appearance

This is the section of the article where experts recommend getting your teeth whitened, waist cinched, grays dyed, wardrobe revamped, and forehead botoxed. Well, I’m not going to say any of that, because I don’t think you need it, unless you do. The important thing about updating your appearance is to feel good about yourself. For me, a couple of days in the gym does wonders for my confidence, and that is my upkeep. Do whatever you’ve got to do to find the same peace of mind. Don’t feel guilty if you need to spend a little money on yourself; you’re worth it. Read the rest of this entry »

More on: Eric J. Leech, Love & Relationships, Sex & Romance & Love

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5 Ways to Change Bad Luck

March 21, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Yemaya ext. 5143

How Do You Reverse a Losing Streak?

First wrap your head around the concept that life is not something that happens “to” you. You’re an integral part of the entire mechanism of life. Quantum physics is proving this every day, and if you’re a believer that prayer works to heal, or that the Law of Attraction applies, then there’s no excuse for thinking that you’re stuck with “bad luck”!

Here are five tried and true tools to shoo away those bad vibes:

1. Negotiate With the Universe! Watch what you say, think, or write down. If you say you “just aren’t lucky,” you’re in fact creating that energy around yourself, and unconsciously showing it in your body language, attitude and speech. Let the universe know that you deserve good things to happen! Read the rest of this entry »

More on: Destiny / Life Path, Mind, Body & Spirit, Psychic Yemaya ext. 5143

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7 Obvious Ways to Balance Work and Love

March 21, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Melody Lee

Keeping Your Life Aligned

Work is inevitable, time-consuming, and, for some, quite meaningful. Love, on the other hand, is uncertain, it can consume as much or as little time as you want, and is incredibly important. For these reasons, it is essential to balance work and love in a healthy, thoughtful way. Here are some considerations for finding the ballast point for your career and love life.

1. Romantic Scheduling

Work, school, family, errands, and other commitments have a way of creeping up on us and taking over our free time. Since work has a set schedule to follow, it is important also to allot time to your personal relationships as well. Though it may not feel totally romantic to be scheduling dates, phone calls, vacations, and even intimacy, you will not regret the extra time you get to spend with that person because of your thoughtful preplanning. For example, my boyfriend and I agreed upon a schedule that works well for us: during the week, we talk on the phone every night before bed; one day of the week, he comes to my place, and I make a home-cooked meal; and, on the weekends, I pack a bag and spend Friday and Saturday night with him. However, I bring a book and my laptop, so we can be together for a whole weekend but also have a little space too. Our propinquity is scheduled, balanced, and meaningful. Read the rest of this entry »

More on: Love & Relationships, Melody Lee, Sex & Romance & Love

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Are You an Empath?

March 20, 2012 at 10:00 am
By Psychic Ophelia ext. 5078

And If So, How Do You Stop it from Making You Insane?

If this title interested you, you are either a Deanna Troy fan or have empathic abilities. An empath feels the emotions of others as though they are her own. Let’s say you’re an empath and go to the mall. There’s a mother chiding her child for being fussy about not getting a toy. You feel frustrated, angry and devastated.

Why? What the heck is going on?

Well, the mother is frustrated because she can’t buy her child everything he wants, either because she doesn’t have the money or she is teaching him some sort of value of money. There’s anger between the two of them because they’re arguing. Devastation comes from the child who can’t get the one thing, that oh-so-important thing, he must have. Multiply this by the several dozens of people you pass by in the mall and you just might go mad. Or shut down completely. Read the rest of this entry »

More on: Love & Relationships, Psychic Ophelia ext. 5078, Sex & Romance & Love

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Are They Lying or Are You Insecure?

March 20, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Yemaya ext. 5143

When It’s Not Them, It’s You

How can we determine if our lover is a liar? You can check out my earlier blog, “Learn the Body Language of Liars!” for a start, and you need to get grounded and clear first in order to see the “real” picture. It’s not an easy topic to discuss with friends or family, as usually we don’t want to share our insecurities or our fears with just anyone, unless it’s in a very safe environment. My clients tell me it’s easiest to discuss it with me rather than anyone actually in their lives.

There are situations where I cannot believe it’s taken so long for the person to realize that their mate is a liar, and somewhere it was totally out of fear, about old pain and loss and not wanting to be in the same situation again. Here is the big difference… proof! If it is always a recurring problem (like “my phone was turned off,” “He/She’s just a friend,” or “I fell asleep,”) and you feel as if the excuses are just too many, too often, then you probably have a case to investigate. Read the rest of this entry »

More on: Love & Relationships, Mind, Body & Spirit, Psychic Yemaya ext. 5143

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Psychic Kayley: Find the Real You

March 20, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Holly Allender Kraig

Who Are You? Do You Know?

After a break up, it’s common to have doubts about yourself. But Psychic Kayley ext. 5191 has some great insight on steps to take to put distance between yourself and the break up while rediscovering your real self.

Do What You Love

Kayley starts, “Do something you love to do, which you may have stopped doing while in the relationship. These are usually activities the ex-partner wasn’t too keen on, like sports or art or dancing.” Read the rest of this entry »

More on: Body/Mind/Spirit, Holly Allender Kraig, Mind, Body & Spirit

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Hello, They’re So Wrong for You

March 20, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Alina Mikos

6 Ways to Choose the Wrong Partner

Being able to see the bigger picture of your relationship, or the forest through the trees as they say, can be a huge challenge. It takes maturity, courage and perceptiveness to really understand why you choose the relationships you do, and to decide to change your selection process to a healthier one. Let’s look at a few tactics for mate-shopping sure to reap regrets rather than rewards.

1. Choosing Physical Attraction Over All Else

Chemistry is one key to a happy relationship, but if that’s the main reason you chose this guy, you’re in for a nasty surprise down the line. Physical attraction alone cannot maintain any healthy, happy relationship, and as the sex becomes not-as-new, the gaps in your compatibility are no longer over-shadowed by chemistry. Read the rest of this entry »

More on: Alina Mikos, Love & Relationships, Sex & Romance & Love

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Can a Shamanic Trance Help You?

March 19, 2012 at 11:00 am
By Psychic Ophelia ext. 5078

The Skills of the Shaman

One of my favorite things to do is take people through a shamanic trance. I have a close spirit guide named Sam. He’s a cutie! Long, brown hair and big brown eyes, about 5’9”, and athletic. He first started visiting me in my early twenties. (If you would like to try a shamanic trance with me and Sam, please let me know at the beginning of the reading. They can take some time to get through.)

Shamans and our guides travel through the lower, middle and upper worlds. I mainly focus on the lower worlds for my trances. I’d like to explain how I do this over the phone for any of you who are curious about trying this with me. First, my guide and I enter the middle world, which we perceive as a fog. The lower world then opens up to what I call your “realm” or “place.”

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More on: Mind, Body & Spirit, Psychic Ophelia ext. 5078, Spirituality

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