Authors - Part 948

Crystal Power

September 12, 2006 at 5:00 pm
By Marlene Jeanne Craughley

As you know, we are energy as much as we are physical. Our laughter, our raging passions, the delicate flutter of our lashes and the powerful swing of a baseball bat, all of these originate as chemical or electrical impulses in the brain.

From time immemorial, ancient cultures have marked sacred sites and made sacred tools from crystal. This is possibly because the ancients recognized that crystal transmitted electricity and creates vibrations when exposed to a current. This is a vibrational response to electricity is why many quartz clocks or watches are used today. It’s probable that ancient mystics used their subtle awareness of crystal’s properties to “tune” ritual spaces and objects, and also to heighten the energies created there.

You, too can heighten your sensitivity and work on emotional blocks with crystal power. Here are some common crystals and their specific effects:

Amethyst
Empowers intuitive and psychic abilities as well as visualization. Helps to transform anger, nightmares, and irritability into spirituality.

Aquamarine
Releases positive energies, creativity, joy and flexibility. Reduces fear, angst and a lack of harmony.

Carnelian
The red-orange tone of this gemstone corresponds to the lower chakras and helps with issues of survival, energy and sexuality. Benefits include increased drive and confidence.

Citrine
This stone resonates on the mental powers, providing clarity in thought and emotions. Useful for developing self-discipline and beginning to let go of negativity.

Coral
The physical properties of coral correspond to the heart and the internal systems of the body. It increases both physical and emotional strength.

Diamond
The hardest of minerals has the amazing property of magnifying emotional states both positive and negative.

Emerald
This precious stone, more costly than diamond, resonates with the intentions of the heart chakra. Promotes feeling love, devotion and emotional balance, useful to dispel depression.

Jade
Highly prized in Asia, this beautiful stone encourages compassion, emotional balance and generosity.

Lapis
The deep blue of this stone symbolizes spirituality and encourages it in the wearer. Useful for developing the intuition, and deepening your spiritual practice.

Malachite
Famous for its ability to increase clairvoyance and concentration. Useful for the release of inflammation, irritation and depression.

Rose Quartz
This subtle and lovely crystal is useful to create compassion, emotional balance, and loving kindness. Its healing powers work on resolving painful emotions.

Ruby
This stone that has long symbolized passion, unsurprisingly is powerful at magnifying and intensifying emotions both positive and negative. Especially useful when you need to increase courage and to endure and overcome difficult situations.

Sapphire
The spiritual properties of this stone help to develop the ability of clairaudience (hearing the voice of your Guide or Angel). Also creates a crystal clear mental clarity.

If you buy a crystal you should either bury it in the earth or cover it completely with sea salt. Both methods clear the crystal of energies of those who’ve handled it prior. After cleansing them, try and keep your crystals away from the hands of others.

In combination with meditation, crystals can help you become more clear and connected to your true self and life path. Plus they are beautiful to look at!

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Red Responds

September 12, 2006 at 5:00 pm
By A. K. Boyle

Red,

I have tried several times to get through to you on the line, however you are so popular and I can never get through! Three years ago I became reaquainted with a guy I knew as a teenager. We lived in the same building. He just turned 50, I am 47. He confessed to me that he had a crush on me back then but was too shy to talk to me. He also told me that over the years he has tried to contact me. We are still in contact three years later. Do you see us having a long lasting relationship, possibly marriage?

Sylvia in the Bronx

Dear Sylvia,

While your question is very direct and straightforward, it seems like there is more going on here than what you have written. I’m also picking up on more people involved in this scenario than just the two of you. Because of these factors, I’m not going to be able to get as detailed as I’d like with your answer.

As a side note – you win the “trip up the psychic” prize!

What I can tell you for certain without actually talking to you, is that the interest and attraction does seem to be mutual. The two of you have the premise for a solid foundation for a romantic relationship, but there is still some work to be done in order to clear the way for that path.

It seems like just how far this relationship goes is directly related to what each of you is willing to do in order to make it happen. Someone needs to actively take the lead. At the very least, the friendship will remain; I’m not seeing any endings of communication.

I really would like to speak to you in order to get more in depth. You’ve got me curious!

Brightest Blessings,
Red
Ext. 9226

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5 Biggest Lies Lovers Tell

September 12, 2006 at 12:00 pm
By Lisa Weseman

One of the biggest complaints lovers have about each other is that they lie. Many say they tend to let others get away with dishonesty because they want to believe in them. But you can have a happier, healthier love life by paying attention to the lies your partner may be telling you and holding them accountable. Here are the top five biggest lies being told – and why.

1. They’re just a friend
Is there a strange person answering their phone? Sleeping on their couch? Spending late nights with your lover? They probably are a “friend”… but one who they also occasionally sleep with. People tell this lie because they want to get the most they possibly can out of all the opposite sex encounters. The “friend” is not good enough to be a partner… but they don’t want to end things completely in case things don’t work out with you.

2. I’m ready to settle down
There are two reasons why (generally) men who are actually not ready to settle down say they are. One is that they think you want to hear it. They assume women are only interested in men looking for a wife and babies, so they say whatever they think will help get them laid. The other reason men say they want to settle down is because they genuinely believe they want to settle down… until they are in the position to actually make the commitment. Then they may suddenly decide it’s not what they wanted after all.

3. It’s not you, it’s me
Sometimes it really is you. Most casual lovers are not keen on the fine art of polite conflict resolution. Where one person might feel comfortable telling another they’re not interested, others are much more afraid of direct communication. When they say, “It’s not you, it’s me,” they’re really saying “I’m just not that into you.” Take it for what it is and move on.

4. It only happened once
When your lover is exposed as a cheater, the first excuse they will offer is that is was a “one-time thing.” In reality, cheating is usually a pattern of behavior that is rooted in much more than a one-time lapse of judgment. If your partner cheats and swears it will never happen again, don’t just take them at their word. You just can’t trust that they’ll be honest about something they already felt comfortable enough to lie to you about.

5. I’d never lie to you
Even the “good” ones stretch the truth sometimes. Whether it’s an answer to “Do these jeans make my butt look big?” or praise for your meatloaf, chances are, they’ve told you more than a few white lies. Most of these fudges of truth are meant to protect your feelings and don’t necessarily reflect any commitment to an honest, open relationship. It may speak to bigger issues if your lover continually asserts how honest they are. If they frequently make a big deal of assuring you that they never lie to you, it may be a sign that they’re overcompensating for dishonesty.

Remember, there are always exceptions to these guidelines, and most people are far from perfect. But if your lover is uttering any of these common fibs (or fables, since some little white lies can turn very, very dark), it’s a call to attention. And that’s what you’ve got to do when you suspect something – consider yourself warned.

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5 Things To Learn From Dogs

September 12, 2006 at 12:00 pm
By Lisa Weseman

We tend to think of dogs as playful, fun pets. But dogs can teach us a lot about the most significant aspects of being human. Here are our top five tricks you can learn from your dog.

Eat
Dogs don’t worry about fitting into that perfect little black dress. They don’t stress about cellulite or bloating. Dogs see their bodies for what they are: a wonderful tool for carrying around their spirits. Dogs love food. From kibble to leftovers, dogs find simple joy in the tiniest morsels. We can learn from them that food does not have to be the enemy. Even if you’re watching your weight, take time each day to enjoy at least a sample of your favorite food. Smell it, savor it, indulge in it. Instead of feeling deprived by a diet, you’ll feel far more alive and ready to live a happy, healthy life.

Sleep
Middle-aged dogs can sleep up to 16 hours a day. It may seem wasteful to spend two-thirds of your life asleep, but dogs understand the value of rest. While sleeping, our bodies rejuvenate and heal. Our minds address problems we can’t solve while we’re awake. Our brain chemicals replenish and our injuries repair themselves. While they’re awake, dogs are some of the most happy, energetic creatures on earth. We can be more like dogs while we’re awake by taking a cue from how they rest. Even if you can’t make time in your busy schedule each day for a nap, make sure you get full, restful sleep every single night. On the weekends, plan for more than activities – make sure you set aside time to just lay around, too.

Be merry
Take a dog for a stroll and you’ll discover it involves a lot more than walking. Dogs experience the world in a million different ways. They track a scent with their nose. Follow the flight of a bird with their eyes. Lift their legs to mark territory. Use their paws to dig into the earth. Roll their fur around in tall grass. Dogs are some of the most experiential creatures on earth, and humans can learn a lot from them. We tend to be jaded by the world around us, but if we see the world as a dog does, we can be reborn. Next time you step outside, try to capture the world with all of your senses. Sniff the air. Feel the ground under your feet. Savor the texture of the air on your cheeks. By exploring each day like a dog, you can see the world in a thousand new ways every single day.

Love with abandon
They aren’t our best friend for nothing. Dogs have an amazing capacity for love and affection. Even better, they tend to be amazingly forgiving creatures. Even if your puppy feels neglected when you go to work, as soon as you come home and pet her, she’s forgiven you. We can learn from dogs how to be more loving, sensitive people. Never squander an opportunity to tell people you love them, either through words or actions. Use a hug to show you really care. And always make time each day for cuddling on the couch.

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5 Biggest Lies Lovers Tell

September 12, 2006 at 12:00 pm
By Lisa Weseman

1. They’re just a friend
Is there a strange person answering their phone? Sleeping on their couch? Spending late nights with your lover? They probably are a “friend”

Out Getting Things Done?

September 11, 2006 at 12:00 pm
By A. K. Boyle

When I ask singles who are single and looking why it is they’re still looking, I hear the same handful of complaints. I have a lot of trouble meeting people. It’s not that I wouldn’t mind meeting someone; I just don’t have the time. We meet, or at least have the opportunity to meet, dozens of people each day. They’re all around you: at the bank, the drycleaners, Starbucks and the post office — everywhere you have to be! If you’re like most people, you’ve always got a list going; letters to mail, contracts to fax, groceries to buy and a caffeine addiction to feed. So why not pick up a little love while you’re at it?

Look the part
Look how you want to look, because how you feel about your appearance will affect your demeanor. It’s inescapable that the one time you run out for takeout in your holey sweats and unruly hair you’ll run into someone you know (or someone you’d like to know)! So instead of making your usual sparkling impression, your will shoulders droop, your will eyes wander, and before you know it you’ll be rushing to escape an awkward conversation with a hunky neighbor or handsome stranger. If you want to leave yourself open to meeting new people — and this goes for people other than love interests — take a few moments first to give yourself a look that will leave you confident and ready to dazzle. (This doesn’t mean evening wear for errands, by the way. It just means being comfortable with how you look.)

Pay Attention
Sometimes we’re so wrapped up in the next seven tasks on our list, we forget to look around and notice the present. Let the people around you into your world. Make a point of eye contact, and listen to what people are saying. Otherwise, when a question comes your way, you come off slow on the response, or worse, oblivious. You might have passed up your next sizzling romance five times this week because you looked too preoccupied or standoffish to approach. While you’re at it, pay attention to what your posture is saying about you. Crossing your arms or turning away from people broadcasts that you don’t want to be bothered. But if you keep your head up, your shoulders back your lips poised and ready for a smile, you won’t be able to help meeting people everywhere.

Speak Up
You don’t need to walk around flirting to initiate a connection. Innocent questions and benign conversations are what break down the walls we erect when we’re among strangers. If you overhear something funny in line at the gas station, let yourself laugh (and smile and make eye contact)! Compliment a fellow dog-walker on their companion or ask about a neighbor’s hybrid at the car wash. Just think about all the Friday night dinners and online conversations you have to sit and type through before you find a little chemistry. If you speak up a little more when you’re out, you can try out twenty or thirty people in a day and return the videos on time.

Don’t Waste Time in Line
You’re there anyway. Why not use that time? It’s hardly a matter of getting or keeping someone’s attention when you have an already bored, captive audience. Smile, or strike up a conversation about what someone’s wearing, what they’re buying, where you are, anything! Some people are reluctant to make contact because they’re afraid they’ll look desperate or invite an advance they’re not sure they want. There’s no reason to censor yourself; you’re just trying to connect to people around you. That increases your chances of finding some chemistry with someone, but it also helps you find friends and business or social contacts. At the very least, you’ve filled what could have been an agonizing wait in line with a little human contact.

Be open to possibility
Your eye contact, body language and conversational skills will all improve effortlessly if you’re head is in the right place. When you honestly leave yourself open to the possibility of meeting people, you communicate that you’re interesting, friendly and (perhaps) available. It’s amazing how much expectation contributes outcome. In business, art, friendships–virtually every undertaking–you usually find what you truly believe you will find. That’s why people who imagine themselves alone in sea of strangers usually find themselves that way, while those who see potential in every unfamiliar face are never alone.

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Red Responds

September 10, 2006 at 5:00 pm
By Marlene Jeanne Craughley

Dear Red,

I am a gay person who is still in love with my former partner. Originally from Long Island, I moved to Virginia in July, 2005 for an employment opportunity. We have had a stormy relationship, at times, but I feel that this person is my soul mate. He hasn’t responded to my emails. I haven’t communicated with him for quite sometime, because I feel he doesn’t want to reconnect. His birthdate is 12-4-52 and mine is 9-21-50. I wonder if we will ever reconnect again. I can’t seem to get over him even though I have been dating another person.

Thank you.

Anthony in Manassas

Dear Anthony,

While I do think you will hear from your former partner, most likely around the holidays, I really don’t want to get your hopes up relative to this relationship.

It appears that you two will share a conversation, following written communication. It looks more like snail-mail than email for the initial contact. The conversation is fairly light; almost like a courtesy call. It will be relatively brief.

It seems as though your old flame has determined to move on with his life. A slightly guarded and uncomfortable “keeping in touch” relationship is possible, but I don’t see the two of you coming back together or connecting on any real level. And with as much love as you still have for this man, I really want you to prepare for this and be careful.

I honestly don’t know that you will ever “get over” him completely. That’s the down side of truly loving someone. Hope does keep love alive – it gives it power. You are still holding on to hope, even though your logical mind tells you it’s not practical. I could give you a list of reasons why you should let go of your hope and move on, but it’s up to you to decide to actually do it.

As for your soul mate – well, let me just say I don’t think you’ve met him yet. He is out there, and he will find his way to you; when the time is right.

Gay, straight, or bi – love is love. It brings with it the ultimate joys and highs of life, and leaves an aftermath of pain when it departs.

Brightest Blessings,
Red
Ext. 9226

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Birth Legends: The Mark of a Psychic

September 8, 2006 at 12:00 pm
By Jamie Nishi

Each of us has, at some point or another, experienced a moment of foresight. For instance, thinking of someone just as she or he calls on the phone or somehow knowing what the next song on the radio will be. Moments like these often make one stop to ask, “Was that a coincidence or am I psychic?” Although it would be wise to consider whether or not your favorite radio station rotates the same 50 songs day after day, it very may well be that you are at least a little bit psychic.

Of course some people, like musical proteges, have the gift more than others, and from a very early age. Many of us study and practice a musical instrument for years, achieving a moderate level of proficiency, while others take to it with what appears to be lightning speed, able to identify and play notes on hearing them, visualizing music and hearing music play in their heads. The very best psychics have a similar gift, an extraordinary Extra Sensory Perception (ESP).

One of the earliest marks of a psychic takes place at birth when a child is born in the caul (also referred to as veil or hood). The caul is a thin membrane, part of the amniotic sac in which the baby grows while in the womb. A child born with a caul usually emerges with the amnion covering his or her head. It has been described as a shimmering veil. The caul is harmless and easily removed by a doctor or midwife. Those born this way are referred to as caulbearers. These types of births are very rare, especially today due to more interventive birthing techniques.

There is much folklore associated with caul births. In certain societies caulbearers were burned as witches and thought to be werewolves or vampires. For the most part, however, being born with a caul was seen as a good omen, a sign of luck and greatness, the mark of kings (caulbearers being born already crowned).

Thought to bring wisdom, honor and truth, cauls were often purchased by Greek and Roman statesmen. In Scandinavian tradition, the caul was associated with the presence of an accompanying spirit called a fylgja, which after birth would manifest as an animal, object or person. In other societies, caulbearers were believed to be impervious to drowning, and the cauls themselves (which can be dried and saved), were highly sought after by sailors, who would buy them and often wear them in lockets as prevention against drowning. Amniomancy, a form of divination, was practiced by interpreting the caul. Cauls were often kept as heirlooms. Upon the death of the bearer, it was said that the caul should be burned so its owner could rest peacefully.

Caulbearers are also said to have the ability to be able to detect underground water, to predict weather changes and to know when fish and food will be plentiful.

In addition to all this is the psychic ability. Born behind the veil, caulbearers are believed to possess special sensitivities, to have the ability to navigate between many worlds and to see the future. Along with the psychic gift, they are also said to be natural healers, practicing via laying on of hands or doing distance healing.

Caulbearer infants are usually easy babies. As they develop, caulbearers can potentially be misunderstood because people sense that they are different. If you know a child or have a child born with a caul, being aware of these associations may help sensitize you to their potential needs and gifts. However, it’s important to bear in mind that all children, born with a caul or not, should be treated no differently and allowed to develop whatever psychic, healing or special talents they may have.

Some famous caulbearers include Alexander the Great, Jesus, the poet Lord Byron and the mystic poet Kahlil Gibran.

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