What to Avoid if You Want to Get Away Safely!
Just go through a break-up? There’s five things you shouldn’t do if you want to stay sane…
5. Stay friends. There is no way you can remain friends with an ex if you still have feelings for him. All remaining friends does is give him permission to treat you like crap while he borrows money from you, has occasional sex with you when he can’t find anyone else, and leans on you for emotional support when he has a bad day, all the time pompously telling you, you’re not a couple! He’s not going to have an epiphany, realizing you love him so much you’re willing to wait around until he realizes he can’t live without you, he’s using you until he finds someone to take your place.
4. I must repeat myself here… He has chosen to break up with you, he wants to be on his own. That means he can pay his own bills, and take care of his own emotional and sexual needs without you! I don’t care how pathetic he is or how good the sex is, bottom line—he doesn’t want a commitment anymore, and all he’s doing is using you until he can find someone else to fill those needs, and then you’ll have to go through all that pain and rejection again! Read the rest of this entry »



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