Top 5 Things Not to Do After a Break Up

January 3, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Kit ext. 5180

What to Avoid if You Want to Get Away Safely!

Just go through a break-up? There’s five things you shouldn’t do if you want to stay sane…

5. Stay friends. There is no way you can remain friends with an ex if you still have feelings for him. All remaining friends does is give him permission to treat you like crap while he borrows money from you, has occasional sex with you when he can’t find anyone else, and leans on you for emotional support when he has a bad day, all the time pompously telling you, you’re not a couple! He’s not going to have an epiphany, realizing you love him so much you’re willing to wait around until he realizes he can’t live without you, he’s using you until he finds someone to take your place.

4. I must repeat myself here… He has chosen to break up with you, he wants to be on his own. That means he can pay his own bills, and take care of his own emotional and sexual needs without you! I don’t care how pathetic he is or how good the sex is, bottom line—he doesn’t want a commitment anymore, and all he’s doing is using you until he can find someone else to fill those needs, and then you’ll have to go through all that pain and rejection again! Read the rest of this entry »

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Top 5 Warning Signs for Long-Distance Relationships

December 10, 2011 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Kit ext. 5180

Will It Last Or Are There Damaging Secrets?

5. It may be a long-distance relationship, but if you’re looking at it as a viable one, then (after a safe, appropriate amount of time,) you should know the basics. Like his address, where he works, and a number or two of the people in his life in case of an emergency (which means, people in his life should know about you!)… just like an in-person relationship. If he’s vague about ANY of these things, then trust me, that’s only the beginning of his secrets.

4. If he disappears for days or weeks with no explanation, he’s hiding something. There is no excuse in this world that can keep him from sending a 30-second text, call, or email at SOME point during that time. I’m sorry, but there’s not. Read the rest of this entry »

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Top 5 Lies Married Men Tell

November 27, 2011 at 5:00 pm
By Psychic Kit ext. 5180

Lines to Have Your Guard Up For

Would a married man having an affair with you tell a lie? Nooo… and it certainly wouldn’t sound like one of these lines:

5. “We’re staying together for the kids, and as soon as they’re out of the house, I’ll be free!” If his morals are so impeccable that he can’t break up the family, he’s not going to be having an affair in the first place. This is an excuse to keep you hanging in there for another XX years, until he can think of another excuse why he can’t leave. Why is your life on hold, while he (and his family) lives his?

4. “But if I leave her now, she’ll get the money/house/dog. I’ll leave her as soon as I find a way to dupe her out of the money/house/dog.” My only comment is this: What kind of a man would do that, and if he’ll do it to the woman he built a family with, what makes you think he wouldn’t do it to you? (If, in fact he ever does come up with that plan.) Read the rest of this entry »

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Required Relationship Reading

March 17, 2010 at 11:52 am
By Psychic Kit ext. 5180

For callers with relationship inquiries, I suggest three books.

The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider

This isn’t just a list of rules for dating. It’s more importantly, a list of rules for self-respect — with some great eye-openers into relationships in general.

The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

This book teaches how to use the power of attraction to change your life. When our lives seem to take a downturn, it’s very easy to start thinking negative thoughts, which in turn, attracts more negative things into our lives. By catching ourselves, and turning our thoughts into positive ones, it’s easier to attract the positive and turn our lives around.

It’s Called a Breakup Because it’s Broken by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt

This book was my absolute savior during my own recent breakup. It’s a true reality check, not only for a breakup, but it’s very empowering — no matter a person’s age or stage in life.

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Trust Your Intuition

March 12, 2010 at 9:59 am
By Psychic Kit ext. 5180

As simple as it sounds, the way to hone your psychic abilities is to simply begin TRUSTING yourself, your intuition, and listening to that little voice in the back of your head. Start learning about the unique way that YOU receive your messages. For me, I feel a scenario like one would witness a scene in a movie — sensing the emotions that each person feels in the scene. For others, they may get a prickly feeling on the back of their neck, or they may feel a little rush of air.

There is no wrong or right way to receive messages, everyone is different. Recognition is actually the first, and most important part of honing your psychic abilities. Once you learn how to recognize your messages, only then can you begin learning how to interpret them. Once you learn how you receive your signs, interpretation only takes practice. If you get a feeling about one of your friends, tell them! Trust me, they’re going to LOVE that you’re practicing your psychic abilities on them!

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