Your Numerology Forecast

November 15, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Staff

The 4 Month energy of November urges you to be organized and disciplined, despite the fact you’re probably still vibrating from Sunday the 15th’s first encounter between Saturn and Pluto. Those with 2, 6, 7, 8 and 22 destiny numbers will find it easier than most to create order amid change. Destiny numbers 1, 3, 5, 9 and 11 may prefer to rebel against practicality and ride the Saturn-Pluto tide to breakthroughs — they’ll just have to get organized later.

Monday – The Master Number energy of 11/2 (1+1=2) rules the day, and opens visionary windows to tantalize us with the barely discernible possibilities initiated by Saturn-Pluto.

Tuesday - Write about it, sing about it, act it out. Whatever is on your plate, today’s the day to apply a kid-with-finger-paints creative spin and then stand back and watch magic happen.

Wednesday – Karmic Number 13/4 (1+3=4) gathers in all the energies released Sunday so that you can begin to see where to re-evaluate your perceptions, assumptions and habits.

Thursday – You can build on yesterday’s progress by using the energy of today’s Karmic Number 14/5 to blast away old forms, and start imagining what you want to build in their place.

Friday - This 6 Day is for after-work drinks, dinner and debriefing. Bring your piece of the week’s puzzle to a gathering of friends or family, and relax into fellowship while you put your heads together.

Saturday – Take all the thoughts that were shared last night, wild, crazy and sensible, and make them your own. You have access to X-ray vision on this 7 Day.

Sunday – Use the 8 Day energies to marshal your forces, and develop a strategic plan for the day, week, month or year, knowing that this 4 Month doubles the day’s effectiveness.

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You and Your Pet

November 13, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By M. McMahon

Labradoodle or tabby cat? Clydesdale or parakeet? Whatever pet you pick says something about you. Connections with pets often mirror our relationships with people.

Here is a run-down of some of our favorite friends and what they say about their owners!

Horses
You are in for the long haul and enjoy lasting deep bonding from a place far within you that is impossible to ignore. Horses are an integral part of your life and you wouldn’t have it any other way. Just don’t love the animal more than a human partner! Horse lovers tend to do best with other people who participate in their passion.

Dogs
You love to give and receive emotion. You don’t mind being counted on in sunshine or rain and consider the animal an extension of yourself. Even more so, you thrive when needed. You identify with your animal. This is why you have chosen a breed that reflects you and maybe even looks like you? Why not? You love yourself and you love your dog. It’s inevitable!

Cats
You enjoy a cuddle now and then but value independence as well. You don’t need big loud expressions of emotion but hold dear the quieter moments of intimacy. You see others as complex mysteries to unravel but never solve and that’s fine with you. You value your time in your home and want it to be warm and inviting.

Birds
You want things to be unique and eccentric. You value finding your own way and being choosy about who you love. You appreciate the less overt personalities that take time to discover and nurture. You like inside jokes and the quirky side of life.

Tropical fish
You value aestheticism and collecting things. Visual expression is important to you. You find comfort in water and movement. You are looking to share experiences, sightsee and travel. You like keeping a piece of faraway land in your home.

Pets are a gift in our homes and whatever the animal you decide to co-habitate with, there is much to learn and gain from our creature friends. To get love is to give love. Pets embody that principle in a pure and wonderful form.

Tell us how having a pet in your life has made a difference

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3 Steps to Finding Your Life Purpose

November 4, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Tim Whitson

If you’re like the billions of humans trapped in a humdrum, meaningless drift, snap out of it! Breaking free from the constraints of aimlessness makes finding your life’s purpose (however changing) priority number one. Once you’ve made a clear discovery regarding what your time here must be about, you’ll never again return to the miserable monotony, even as your purpose continues to evolve.

Here are three easy steps for discovering the purpose you were born to fulfill:

Figure out what matters to you
While determining what direction to take in life, many of us make the same mistake: we try to apply the principles of our parents, spouses, co-workers, etc., to our own individual journey. Then, we’re surprised when we’re miserable! The first thing to do when trying to connect to your life’s purpose, then, is to set aside the need to please others or live up to anyone else’s expectations. Be completely honest about what matters most to you. Define your core values. If you’ve never given serious thought to this subject, you may be surprised by what emerges.

To get started, use an index card to write down the main 8 to 12 ideals that you hold above all else. You might value safety, security, peace, personal freedom and thought. Maybe you care deeply about creativity, spontaneity, wealth and competition. It’s up to you to decide. If you’re struggling to come up with even a handful, shift your attention to concepts that elicit an immediate (positive) reaction. Trust your gut.

What’s your hidden talent?
Once you have your values list, it’s time to uncover your natural talents and strengths. In what areas of life do you effortlessly excel? Note the use of the word “effortlessly.” Finding your life’s purpose is not about struggle. It’s about the path of least resistance. That doesn’t mean taking the easy way out or being lazy. Rather, it means being actively engaged in all you do, which requires that you enjoy whatever it is you’re doing (at least most of the time).

Make another list; this time include all your best aptitudes, and don’t be shy! Are you good with your hands as a builder or painter? Are you an outstanding listener and communicator? Do you have empathy with animals and a way of relating to your four-legged friends? Do you love being in nature and find yourself drawn to adventures like hiking and skiing? Are you a natural-born computer wizard and video game master?

If you’re having trouble listing things you’re good at (having no purpose often leads to decreased self-esteem), focus on things you enjoy doing immensely. What are some activities you could literally spend all day immersed in?

Come up with a plan and go for it!
Now that you’re attuned to your values and talents, it’s time to combine them to uncover your life’s purpose. The process itself may take time (as your purpose may very well change as you learn and grow), but if you use your two lists to form a mission statement you will be off the path of aimless floating and onto making a difference. If you have to, start simply: “I will use my skills at insert your talent to foster feelings of insert core values in myself and those around me.”

Whatever your personal talents and desires, your ultimate life purpose is to be happy doing the things you love and attending to the causes that move you. Contrary to what you may have been told, it’s not selfish to honor your talents and express your highest values using them. In fact, it’s the best way for you to help make the world a better place!

A gifted psychic can help you connect with yourself and your higher purpose. In the meantime, join the conversation. What does fulfillment look like to you?

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In a Sexual Slump?

October 31, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Cortney Litwin

If your sex life has gone through one of those awful, silent, sexual dry spells, step one to getting back into business between the sheets is to talk about it.

Are you both in agreement that it’s time to reactivate? If so, don’t expect your first time back together to be like those slow-mo bodice-ripping movie trailers, leading to fireworks and a shared cigarette. After all, the pressures, stresses, and anxiety that may have made “no-sex” your comfort zone as a couple might still be at play — no matter how much you both say you want to “make each other scream” in the sack.

Sexperts Masters and Johnson (and many others since them) believed in getting back to into action slowly — perhaps much more slowly than you may want, especially when the sexual disconnect has been long or is fraught with anguish. Their solution: ease back into sex through a practice called Sensate Focus.

Therapists who teach Sensate Focus to their clients ask them not to have sex at all (which may be a big turn-on for some). This is just for the time being, so you can focus on the lighter intimate sexploration of touching, massage — and just lying together naked.

The goal is to take turns learning about what feels good to your partner, and to teach your partner just how it is that you want to be touched — without the pressure of having to get to the “Big O” right away.

Are you willing to put this kind of time and effort into rebuilding your sex life?

Do you have tips that helped you and your partner rebuild a mutually satisfying sex life?

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Halloween and Spiritual Renewal

October 30, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Mary Rose

This time of year, the season of Scorpio and Halloween, offer an opportunity for spiritual rebirth. Old conditions will end — and new opportunities will arise.

The pre-Christians of Europe celebrated Halloween, which falls midway through autumn, as their New Year: a time to remember the past, and embark upon new projects. They believed that this was the moment when the veil between this world and the Otherworld was at its thinnest — and spiritual, supernatural powers were at their strongest.

This idea probably originated because most ancient people would have feared the dark and especially the cold of wintertime, which always looms large at this time of year. So in what seemed like a time of threatened death, they celebrated the promise of renewal: the sun and the green shoots, they reminded each other, would return — come spring.

Before the creation of our standard Gregorian calendar, Halloween did not actually fall on October 31; it was at 15 degrees (halfway through) Scorpio, on approximately November 6 — the exact day varied a little from year to year. Modern-day Wiccans call this “Halloween Old Style,” and some still celebrate it on the traditional, later date.

Halloween is one of the four “Cross-Quarters” in the ancient Wheel of the Year. These are the times halfway between the Solstices and the Equinoxes (which themselves, of course, mark the changing of the seasons). So Halloween — and Scorpio — designate the Highest Point of Fall.

On Halloween, we originally honored our ancestors and our beloved dead. On this night, called Samhain [and pronounced sow-en], modern Wiccans still proclaim the names of all who have died over the previous year — and then call out the names of all babies born during that same time frame, in order to celebrate these new lives.

The Christian Church, as it gained more influence and power, allowed this honoring of the dead to continue, but within Christianity the night of Samhain was transformed into “All Hallows Eve” (Hallow Evening, or Hallowe’en). The church, however, guided Christians to hold their major celebrations on the following two days instead — honoring first the canonized saints, on “All Saint’s Day,” and on the next day remembering the dead in Heaven, on “All Soul’s Day” — which is now also celebrated as the Day of the Dead in Latin America (Dia de los Muertos).

Once you look closely at sacred art from the Middle Ages and the Renaissance, you will see more and more signs of the connection between Christianity and some of the most ancient faith systems. For instance, the Roman Catholic Church linked the Cross-Quarters and their fixed zodiac signs to the authors of the four gospels in the New Testament:

Matthew is represented by a winged man — and the midpoint of the Air sign Aquarius, the Water-Bearer, is of course also drawn and painted as a man, symbolizing the middle of winter, or Candlemas (now known as Groundhog Day).

Luke is pictured as a winged Ox, and correlates to the midpoint of the Earth sign Taurus, the Bull (or the Ox). This sign marks the middle of spring, or Walpurgisnacht (which we now call May Day).

Mark is symbolized by a winged Lion, and relates to the midpoint of the Fire sign Leo, which falls in the middle of summer: Lammas or Lughnasah–a harvest festival somewhat like our County Fairs, still celebrated in England in early August.

John, often considered the most treasured Gospel — or the Gospel of Love, known for its poetic writing style and non-linear narrative — is represented by a rising Eagle, which of course symbolizes the midpoint of the Water sign Scorpio. (The scorpion is Scorpio’s lowest form. Its highest form, the Dove, symbolizes the Holy Spirit, or God Himself, who took the form of that bird during the most famous baptism of all time, when John the Baptist performed the ritual on Jesus.) This is the astrological point we celebrate as Halloween, which is the perfect time to spiritually cleanse and renew ourselves.

The midpoint of Autumn is an amazing opportunity to tap into our spiritual energies, and renew our spirits. It’s an excellent time to take stock of our lives. So take a moment and:

  • Think about how you got where you are today, and all the people you have loved — and those who have loved you right back. Send them notes, if they haven’t yet crossed over. Otherwise, take a moment to thank them right here and now! Say goodbye, or tell them you still love them and appreciate them.
  • Let go of the things or the habits that are holding you back — or, transform them into something nearer to your heart’s desire. Of course, this may mean simply transforming your own attitude, rather than an external thing or circumstance. That’s okay, too.
  • Open yourself up to the future. Honor the person you have been, while releasing any shards of self-pity you may be hanging on to. And ditch those resentments!
  • Accept that what’s past is past — look forward to change, and to new beginnings.
  • Clean your house now, well in advance of the more stressful holidays that lie ahead this fall and winter. Then perform whatever spiritual cleansing rituals your own faith tradition recommends, whether it’s spritzing your home with holy water, or placing healing herbs in strategic locations (some lavender by your bed, and some rosemary or mint in your kitchen).
  • Create fresh new affirmations to get ready for a fun and fulfilling winter! Place them on your bathroom mirror to remind yourself how utterly awesome you are.

Whatever it is that’s getting in your way, the power of Scorpio, together with the sacred moment of Halloween, can help you to break through the logjams, and truly renew your spirit — this year, and every year!

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Survival Guide to Monstrous Acts

October 28, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By S.K. Smith

Unfortunately, Halloween’s not the only time people do or say frightening things. Whether it’s your partner’s ex, your boss, your BFF or (as in my case) your mother-in-law who is acting like a demon, the key is to stay calm, cool, and… collected!

You don’t need to let anyone’s monstrous behavior give you the creeps. Here’s how to stay on top:

Remember, it’s not you
There’s no doubt that we each create much of our own realities, so it’s a rare occasion when it’s fair to relinquish blame. When you’re dealing with a true monster, however — someone whom everyone knows to be rude, cruel, or thoughtless, or whose track record reflects it — the best thing you can do is to detach. Don’t try to figure out what you did to deserve this. The odds are, you didn’t do anything. Had you behaved any differently, there would’ve been something (or someone) else to complain about or accost.

Don’t raise your voice
Knowing that this person’s behavior isn’t about you then, make it a point not to be triggered by it. If, like me, you can’t help but feel incensed (my monster-in-question trash-talked me at my wedding!), don’t let it show. Odds are, the offender wants to get your goat — though you will want to remember that not responding may prompt them to push you harder. Still, you don’t want to take the bait. Instead, plaster on that smile, and stay sweet. Never let ‘em see you sweat — and never, ever scream! You’d only be speaking their language.

Take a firm stance
Now I know what you’re thinking: “how am I supposed to stay silent, and let that evil creature get away with doing or saying that?” The answer is, you shouldn’t! Maintaining composure does not mean letting the perpetrator off the hook without telling them their behavior is inappropriate. In fact, it’s imperative that you convey your displeasure with the way you’ve been treated. The trick is not to engage in an argument. There are calms ways to express yourself, using phrasing such as “I’d really appreciate it if you’d stop insulting me,” or “Please don’t do/say that again,” or “If I’ve offended you, I apologize,” or “I’m not going to argue with you, but we disagree, so please drop it.” This way, you needn’t stoop to their level.

Exit stage left (or right… just get out of there!)
Finally, once you’ve expressed your feelings in a calm, concise manner, the best thing you can do is to abandon the conflict in search of higher ground. Get away from the wicked witch as soon as possible, and then resist the urge to gossip. It may kill you to keep your mouth shut, but nothing will drive a monster crazier than someone who won’t put up a fight or surrender to their tactics. You win in these situations by maintaining human decorum (and the moral high ground) despite a monstrous deluge. Who knows? You may even put an end to their use of scare tactics… at least, around you.

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Living Outside of the Box

October 28, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Psychic Phillip ext. 9485

Imagine a life without fear. Everything is perfect and safe. There are no risks, and no worries. What would you do with the rest of your life? Any ideas?

People often say, “I would travel,” or “I would help others.” Mostly though, people admit they just don’t know what they’d do. Happiness and peace seem so far away, and most of us never even consider what that level of contentment might look like. Most of us have too strong an identification with our story and our pain–and it is so strong, so all-encompassing, that it never even crosses our minds that we might be able to live another way. But it’s important to remember that thought always precedes action. So how can we truly embrace our happiness, if we cannot see through our filters–those lenses of pain?

When we focus our attention on one object–whether it be a person, a place, or a thing–we are externalizing our happiness, placing the responsibility outside ourselves. This creates a lifelong habit of living in reaction. We are like corks on an ocean of experience and emotion: tossed around endlessly until we are so weary of fruitless endeavor and wasted time that we sometimes feel like giving up. In desperation, we become prey to anyone or anything that promises to ameliorate that unending pain.

The truth is that no one will ever take better care of you than you demand, and no one will take better care of you than you take care of yourself. You set the standard, and others will only take you as seriously as you take yourself.

Furthermore, there is no one out there who is willing to sign on to play “parent” to someone else’s “wounded child” for very long–and we all carry a wounded child within us. Many–if not most–of our relationship conflicts revolve around those childlike responses to adult situations. Ultimately, it is our own responsibility to send that small child away. We must fill that empty place within our own hearts; we must fill it with ourselves.

The heart is considered to be the nexus of our energetic systems–there are three Chakras below it, and three above. From this position–if one can stay there–everything becomes possible. But remember: the Chakra just below the heart is connected to the adrenal glands, and has a Martian connection. In Greek mythology Aries’ chariot was drawn by two horses named Deimos and Phobos, which translate into “fear” and “panic.” This is why the idea persists that “one is either loving or fearing,” and yes: they are mutually exclusive. Love or fear–choose one.

Consider now whether you carry fear around with you, or love. If you answer “both,” what you are calling love is something else, and it is for you to discover precisely what that truly is. This requires a small jump in perspective to get to your heart, but it cannot be accomplished from behind a wall of fear. The reason the heart Chakra is always connected with health is that all healing begins with love, which in turn begins with a love of self. Love of self is the real heart of the matter. Be there now, because there is no other way. Time is precious, and that is a very real consideration. Wouldn’t you agree?

Are you living in love, or in fear? Does love always crowd fear out of your heart?–what do you think?

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Shine Your Light

October 27, 2009 at 5:00 pm
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

We all are born with an inner light. It’s a gift of spirit… a magical glow of innate gifts and abilities that make up a large part of who we are, and who we will grow into being. You may have a way with words, the ability to make people laugh, a healing touch, or amazing skills in math or science. It can be anything!

What do you feel most passionately about? What are your natural gifts that set you above and apart from the rest?

This inner light is often is dimmed by the reality of being human in a human world. Have you lost touch with these gifts as you have made your choices in life, and worked through your challenges? Look inside for a moment to find out.

Step 1. In a quiet place and time, ask yourself: “Who am I, really?”
The true answer has very little to do with your education, your career, or your family and friends. Those are choices you have made that may have been illuminated by your inner light — but those choices may only be a surface reflection of who you truly are.

Allow your mind to wander back to the happiest moments of your life. Remember a time when you felt connected to everything, and believed there was nothing you couldn’t achieve. If you could have, you would have frozen that moment! Relive that moment with the understanding that you were in your true self. Cherish the glorious feeling: that certainty you had that everything would come together and work out just fine.

Step 2. Explore your authentic self.
When you are in your true self, you let go of boundaries and restrictions, preconceived judgments and limitations. This is where you can find and identify how brightly your inner light will shine. Explore this place, examining your passions, your strengths — and your gifts.

There’s nobody else in your head with you, so go into yourself as deeply as you can. There is no need for humility. This is the place and time where you can rediscover yourself, what you’ve buried or suppressed… and ponder how powerful you can be if you allow yourself to shine once more.

Step 3. Acknowledge your personal truths in a list.
Since you are in a space where anything is possible, don’t be afraid to pat yourself on the back. It’s not arrogant to privately acknowledge and revel in your personal truths. Make a list of your talents and passions, paying particular attention to those things that bring you joy, as well as those things that no one can do better than you can. Not everything you discover will seem important or practical, but write it down anyway. It is still a talent or gift — it just may be one you’ve been afraid to embrace, or have not yet figured out how to put to good use.

Step 4. Imagine living your gifts.
Now that you have acknowledged some of the potential and aspirations that you have been holding deep inside of you, imagine how different your life could be if you granted yourself permission to let your inner light shine through! When you honor yourself and live your gifts rather than hiding them, you alleviate a lot of dissatisfaction and stress. From simple joys to world-changing endeavors, you can align your daily life with what you were naturally gifted to do. Not only will your life be improved, but you may just become a beacon of hope or inspiration to those who come into contact with you.

Step 5. Embrace your gifts every day.
Sure, it’s a risk to open up and share what you have inside, but your greatest changes and accomplishments aren’t measured by what you’ve done — they are waiting to be formed by what you do. Sometimes you just have to say, “What the heck? What do I really have to lose by giving my authentic self a shot?” By lifting personal restrictions and following what you believe, life becomes a playground of experiences to have and to share.

The light we are born with is always within us; we just have to tap into it and let it glow. When you believe in yourself, others will as well.

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