Love & Relationships

Get the Relationship You’ve Always Dreamed Of!

January 31, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Yemaya ext. 5143

Reach for Your Ideal Mate

We are creatures of habit. Change, although inevitable, is rarely embraced, yet it is the solid absolute easiest way to get what you want!

To those in unhappy relationships: Many people stay in relationships for reasons that have nothing to do with their happiness. How can we believe that anything but love and joy would bring us happiness? Fear of money, others opinions, conflict, risk of being alone, fear of what the other person will do; all these things are beyond our control and you are a merely sacrificing your life and happiness in vane. Read the rest of this entry »

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5 Marriage-Ending Communication Mistakes

January 30, 2012 at 1:00 pm
By Krishna Bill

Are You Communicating Properly?

Relationships are hard. Marriage is even harder. But there are some basic communication errors that we all slip into that, if we became more mindful of, would could circumvent. Yes, it actually does all come down to how mindful we are about our interactions with our partner!

The Huffington Post reports:

With all the celebrity breakups lately, many of us are debating, deliberating, and calculating the numerous reasons marriages fail. We all speculate whether it’s the usual suspects such as infidelity, discrepancy over finances, midlife crisis, or growing apart that leads to the majority of splits.
Obviously there is no simple answer to what causes the millions of breakups and divorces – both Hollywood and pedestrian – that occur every year. In actuality, there are hundreds of reasons why relationships end, and everyone has a unique story to tell. But researchers do point to five unexpected behaviors that if repeated over time, can cause permanent damage to any couple’s love bond. Read the rest of this entry »

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One Thing Every Man Needs to Hear

January 30, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Eric J. Leech

The One Thing Every Man Needs to Hear

There is one thing I think every man would benefit from: I’m talking about opening their eyes and ears to their relationships. Most men are familiar with the phrase “It’s like talking to a brick wall,” because we’ve heard it a time or two.

There are numerous studies that describe men and women as complete opposites. Men supposedly have an inability to read emotions, because we’re taught at a young age to resist our brain from empathizing with feelings. We’d rather stop the process at its physical state of arousal, which is why when a woman is describing her bad day to us, we prefer to try to do something about it, rather than just listen and understand. Read the rest of this entry »

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Sex Q&A: Should You Have an Affair?

January 29, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Liam ext. 9290

Just Because You Can Have an Affair, Doesn’t Mean You Should

Lorraine from Mbabane, Swaziland asks:

Your advice on my dilemma will be really appreciated. I just broke up with the father of my two children in the most horrible way! I had a cyber affair with a younger man I met online. Even though, I suspected that he had feelings for me, he never came out and said so. I could never gauge just what kind of relationship we had. I resigned myself to the fact that we would just be online friends (albeit with sexual benefits). He was shot on duty recently and almost died. He came out of his coma and has decided that he loves me and wants to be with me (even though we have not met personally yet). He sent me a mail declaring his love and intentions, then emailed my partner to tell him to leave so that we could be together, along with all our correspondence of three years. My partner has understandably walked out on me, but I am sitting in a fog of uncertainty. I don’t know if this man will be with me, or what his intentions are. Could you please help me?

Liam’s Response:

Greetings, Lorraine, and thank you so much for this thought provoking inquiry. In looking at your young friend, I see one inflamed with passion; alive with the ardor of his youth and the power of his time spent on the field of battle. His courage in matters of amore is very refreshing in our era of apathetic self-absorption… It makes me think there might be some hope for modern men yet. I’m afraid you had little idea as you indulged in your midnight temptations with this fellow that you were dealing with such a brazen knight. You are going to have to conduct yourself with a bit more cunning from here on out if you are going to survive this ordeal intact. Navigating such stormy seas is treacherous and my advice would be to put the brakes on both these men for a time. Exercise your prerogative with each of them to call a Lady’s Time Out, and get yourself some much-needed breathing room. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Are They Ashamed of Me?

January 29, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Tracy from South Africa asks:

I often read your columns and find your advice and honesty most rewarding. I recently broke off a relationship with a Taurean, because I felt like he was somewhat ashamed of me (I am a Scorpio). For example, when we are out watching a game, there is no physical contact what-so-ever. That was the deal. He didn’t want people to know, because his ex likes to make issues about everything. He did say he can’t offer more than that, but I don’t think I am prepared to go on like this. And, yes, I love him very much, but I can’t be something I’m not. I mean, I have to switch off my affection towards him in company. Like I said, I knew upfront what I was getting into, so I can’t really blame him. Sadder still is that we have a great connection, emotionally, soul, mentally and physically, but sometimes things are maybe not meant to be. How can I move on and start to heal, or is there any hope of fixing this relationship?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Tracy,

I really wish that what I want to tell you and what I have to tell you were closer to being on the same page. Unfortunately, the best I can do is express my heartfelt apologies, and warn you to brace yourself for what you are about to read… Read the rest of this entry »

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7 Ways to Say “I’m Interested” in Body Language

January 29, 2012 at 12:00 am
By LJ Innes

That First Conversation

Normally, when two people meet, long before those first few words are ever spoken between them, they have most likely already engaged in a conversation through body language. Sometimes consciously and sometimes not, your body is sending messages to people all of the time.

Like Venus and Mars

Being consciously aware of what your body is saying to others can only help you express the precise message you want to convey with confidence. Knowing body language also helps you read the other person’s message with clarity, although men and women, as you might have guessed, have slightly different versions of body language. Read the rest of this entry »

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7 Sexiest Things to Say to Him

January 28, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Alina Mikos

Share Your Sexy Side

While it might not take much to get a guy riled up, there are certain phrases that can light his fire higher and faster than you can say “Yowza.” Let’s take a look at a few zingers certain to prime his pump!

“You make me hot”
It’s simple but precise. Telling him you are hot for him lets him know that he turns you on and that you find him attractive and sexy.

“Let’s get naked”
As most men will find any opportunity to get naked with a woman, this line works like magic. You’re letting him know that you want to see him naked and do all the enjoyable things people do together when they are. Read the rest of this entry »

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Speak Up: Will They Change for You?

January 28, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Carmen Honacker

Create Realistic Expectations

Patsy from Pocatello, Idaho asks:

I have met a man who has had serious alcohol related issues for years and years. Is it really possible for him to be able to stop drinking just because he meets someone he likes now?

Carmen Responds:

Dear Patsy,

First of all, anything is possible. Is it likely that he will stop drinking? No, not so much.

People don’t stop an addiction because of someone else; at least not usually. Also, it is never a good idea to enter into any relationship in hopes that the other is going to change. This will only result in disappointment and resentment. If you want a relationship with this man, you do need to consider if you can stay with him the way he is right now! Read the rest of this entry »