Speak Up: Stop Looking for Life Lessons

May 5, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Carmen Honacker

See Life’s Lessons in Your Rear-View Mirror

Rumki from Dhaka asks:

I went through a very desolate childhood. My only relationship ended two months ago. I am going through emotional pain and physical sickness. I try to find out the lesson offered by this broken relationship but cant find any. Can you please tell me what to do? I am feeling so overwhelmed with stress and depression. Can you please show a ray of hope for the future? Thanks.

Dear Rumki,

Sometimes when we’re looking for the lesson, we won’t be able to find it. It’s like looking at the proverbial needle in the haystack. Lessons are always learned once we have put a certain distance between the situation and ourselves, and can look at it subjectively. Hence, please stop obsessing over what went wrong. Instead, try to figure out what makes you happy in life. Try remembering what makes you smile and what motivates you in life. Read the rest of this entry »

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Shut Up and Just Listen!

May 4, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Theresa Danna

Be Heard Through Their Frustration

At the height of an emotionally charged discussion, you might feel like yelling, “Will you please just shut up and listen!” But that tactic most likely won’t achieve what you want to accomplish—to be heard. Instead, use these tips and techniques to get your point across to your loved ones.

Elements of Communication

With all forms of communication, there is a message, a sender of that message, a receiver, and a method of sending the message. Sounds simple, right? However, anywhere along that loop, there can be a breakdown. Even though you think you have an important message to communicate, you might not get the type of response you want from the receiver. Although each situation is unique, there are some common reasons why communication fails. Read the rest of this entry »

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Psychic Pierce: 3 Ways to Stop an Argument

May 1, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Holly Allender Kraig

You Can’t Argue With ‘I Love You’

Psychic Pierce ext. 5624 was so specific in how we relate to one another when we’re frustrated or angry, that I had to share it with you. Many times we allow our gut or instincts to push us along in how we react to situations. Without consciously thinking about it, we’re allowing our emotions to control us. Although Pierce and I were talking about interactions in general, these techniques can be used to settle arguments before they begin.

1. What You Send Out is What You Get

Pierce suggests to send out a positive attitude. “The more positive energy you send out, the more the universe sends back to you.” Here’s the key: you have to keep sending positive energy out. If you only do it a little each day, you’ll only get a little back. Read the rest of this entry »

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Eat Your Cake and Have It Too!

April 30, 2012 at 1:00 pm
By Psychic Spencer ext. 5643

Have it All

It’s true! You can lose weight, have the relationship you desire, and a career or job that is fulfilling and still have your cake and eat it, too! No, this is not an empty promise of dreams that never come true or about eating mini cupcakes or fat free cookies. It is reality. It can be your reality.

It is about small, tiny steps in the correct direction. One tiny step begins with a tiny question. If you want to lose weight successfully, ask yourself “What small, tiny step could I take that might help me lose weight?”

If you want your life long partner, ask, “What small, tiny step could I take, that will allow me to meet them?”

If you want that fabulous job or career, ask, “What small, tiny step could I take to get it?” Read the rest of this entry »

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Psychic Glenna: Win the Battle With Your Ego

April 24, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Holly Allender Kraig

You Are Not Your Ego

“Nothing is random,” Psychic Glenna ext. 5418 told me at the beginning of our interview. “We may not like it, but it’s certainly not random. Where we have control is how we perceive it.” That truth rang through me as I looked back at the situations I recently faced, and I was exhausted from dealing with everything. Not only that, but I felt at a crossroads in my career. Where was I to go to next? What she said next just about knocked me off my feet:

“We get in our own way.”

Here I thought I was working hard and being diligent on so many projects, but I think Glenna was right. I wasn’t finishing anything and, in some cases, getting nowhere on my dreams. I was getting in my own way. I was wrapped up in the little details so much I couldn’t see the bigger picture. I thought the little details were so important. Glenna has this uncanny ability to see all these challenges and then shift to the bigger picture. It’s like seeing where the road is actually taking you and why you’re on that path. She can even see when you’re headed down the wrong road. Read the rest of this entry »

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5 Signs He’s Heard You

April 22, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Natasha Jervis

Huh? You Say Something?

Active listening is extremely important when it comes to a healthy, solid relationship. It can make or break a relationship if it is used daily or if it is disregarded as unimportant. Communication is always important, but active listening is equally imperative for a grounded, successful relationship. Is he listening? Does he acknowledge what you have to say? It does not matter if you had a bad day at work and want to rant and rave, or if you need to express something that is bothering you in your relationship.

If you feel your man is not practicing active listening, you may have to take out time away from it all to discuss how you can improve this factor of your relationship. Many people do not know how to actively listen, and this is workable. Anyone can learn how to communicate more and how to truly place your focus on another human being. Here are five signs he’s heard you and knows what you are trying to explain to him. Read the rest of this entry »

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Mudras, Mantras and Meditation

April 20, 2012 at 3:27 pm
By Psychic Quinn ext. 5484

The Building Blocks of Spiritual Practice

Very often, I suggest that my callers meditate (creating transformation) to relieve stress. Meditation is also a form of prayer where you can use a mantra (a sound or word) to focus on that allows your mind to clear out the old, making room for fresh new thoughts. Meditation also opens up the mind to be able to use more of it. This has the bonus of bringing thinking that is more mindful and also a way to clear out old karma. While we meditate, we can pray as well, within the essence of meditation.

Karma is like this: say we have a bucket of water that has been sitting outside all winter and it has become dirty with leaves and bugs and soil. When you add a hose to this and turn on the water, the clear water displaces the dirty water and clears out the leaves, bugs and soil. Therefore, the water is representative of a mantra. In addition, the bucket of dirty water is representative of our life condition over time. The water is the new karma; the dirty water is the old karma. Read the rest of this entry »

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How to Stay More Balanced and Grounded

April 19, 2012 at 1:00 pm
By Psychic Hunter ext. 5507

Keeping Your Life in Proper Order

When it comes to staying balanced and manifesting your dreams, it is important to know how to ground and stay that way. Here are very practical ways of understanding the concept and making it your daily practice. There are two different aspects with regard to grounding that are important to know:

Staying Physically Grounded

To ground means that your energy is equally balanced throughout your body; your chakra system is clear and open, with your root chakra connected from the base of your spine all the way to the core of the earth. When somebody is grounded in the body, they’re healthy-looking and filled with energy. Decisions are easier to make and there is less of a “scattered” feeling. In this state of mind, those that practice physical grounding are able to create what they desire in their lives. In order to physically ground, you must eat a healthy diet. Avoid processed foods, animal proteins if you can, overconsumption of alcohol, and practice mindfulness in relationship with your body. Feed your body what it asks for. Exercise is also important for releasing negative and stagnant energies. Deep practices such as Yoga, Qi-Gong and Tai Chi are less physically strenuous to practice, yet they deliver life-long results. Listen to your inner guidance to find the practice that best suits your lifestyle and begin to create a consistent schedule to see results. This is not only the foundation to grounding but a way to build a loving relationship with your body as well. Read the rest of this entry »

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