Red Responds - Part 2

Red Responds: He’s in Love With Someone Else

March 11, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext 9226

History Doesn’t Always Repeat Itself

Sonia from Pune asks:

Why are people attracted to someone else when your present partner does everything to keep you happy?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Sonia,

Even in the confines of a loving and supportive relationship, many of us may find ourselves attracted to someone other than our partner. It’s primal human nature. Even when we are committed to our partners and relationship, sometimes we wonder about others, find particular things about another undeniably attractive. As human beings, we are here to experience a plethora of thoughts, feelings, and realities. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Reboot Your Career and Life

March 4, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext 9226

A New Life, a New Adventure

Paula from Whitehall, Pennsylvania asks:

I recently accepted a new position in Bloomsburg, PA. It will be my first full-time position in almost two years of looking. In the meantime, I have been working part time and doing freelance work. The new town is too far away to commute every day, so I will have to move there. Initially, I will keep up two households until my current home sells. After that the move will be permanent. I wanted your insight because this situation is bigger than just starting a new job—it is changing my whole life—moving to a new town, meeting new people and having a new home. It’s a little scary. I already have a rental lined up. Do you think this was the right decision for me? Will starting this new job and moving to Bloomsburg have a positive impact on my life in all the areas that are important? Or will the move prevent me from attaining true happiness?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Paula,

Congratulations!

Oh, it’s more than a little scary to leave all that is known and familiar to essentially start over someplace new. But it’s also kind of like an adventure, too.

Deep inside you, it seems like you already know you’ve made the right decision. Apparently, the Universe heard you with all those times when your frustrations were really getting to you and you asked for a new life. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Fix Yourself First

February 12, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext 9226

Allow Yourself to Be Restored

Andrew from Wellington, NZ asks:

I always seem to attract women that need to be fixed emotionally because of what other men have done though emotional or physical abuse. Once I have built up their self-esteem, shown them that they are fantastic and they did nothing wrong which basically changes their life around, they tend to leave and move on. Maybe my life path is about helping women, because of what other men have done. But slowly I am getting more than a little tired of this as I am finally realizing: what about me? I don’t want to sound selfish, but I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. So each time my heart is broken it hurts, and I do feel it deeply. Will this end or is this my path?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Andrew,

There is gentleness about you that you couldn’t hide if you tried. This is part of the reason that you attract “project” women. You have a gift—the ability to help heal others and set them on their path. You do have a natural empathic ability. And the vulnerability of the broken and downtrodden has a certain subconscious appeal to you. While the women of your past are certainly better for having known you, you have given a little piece of yourself away with the parting of each one. It’s okay that you’re beginning to see that, because it’s a key motivator for you to consciously recognize the reality of the potential impact these relationships have had, and will continue to have, on you. When you fully understand that, you will change your path. Until you recognize that, history will continue to repeat. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Get Married or Break Up?

January 22, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Either Commit or Move On

Mary from Colorado Springs, Colorado asks:

I am in a relationship with a man for seven years. I enjoy him as a person, and he is a wonderful man. But I seem to have a hesitation towards marrying him, and I seem to find myself distracted by other men who I end up finding are not as supportive and easy to communicate with as my current boyfriend. He keeps waiting for me and putting up with more crap that I think anyone should handle. I just wish I could move in one direction. Either commit or move on. Do I have an issue with relationships or is this not the right one for me?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Mary,

There are many wonderful qualities about your boyfriend, and he would be a safe choice for marriage. That seems to be a big part of your internal struggle—you really don’t want to marry for safety. You want excitement. You want a bit of “bad boy” in a good man. You want someone who will challenge you as a person, and your current boyfriend really doesn’t. To be bluntly honest, you don’t have the depth of respect for him as a person that you require of yourself for a husband or life-mate. Unless you choose to create a different outcome, I really don’t see you marrying this man. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Stop an Unwanted Infatuation

January 15, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

If They Don’t Have Sex, Are They Still Cheating?

Bonnie from Brighton asks:

Two years ago, I discovered that my husband of 24 years was involved in an infatuation with a younger woman. He had just turned 60, and I was 63. Daily for three months, they texted and spoke on the phone. He said they never had sex and met only one time for coffee, but I know he visited her briefly at her place of employment. Desperately, I want to believe that this was the one and only time he was unfaithful to me. We have rebuilt our relationship, and both made necessary changes. I’ve been happy for the last nine months with him. However, I saw a psychic when I was in Florida. She confirmed that he did not have a sexual relationship with her; that it was simply an old man’s infatuation with a younger woman. However, when I asked if it would happen again, she said yes it would. When she said it would be the same… an emotional affair without sex. She said I could change it. So my question is: is it truly over with this younger woman, and what can I do to prevent this from ever happening again. Am I wasting my time trusting in this marriage and this man? Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Will They Ever Stop Cheating?

January 8, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Friday Friday from Nigeria asks:

If I forgive a cheating partner, does that means that they will not cheat again? When should we accept them back into the relationship?

Dear Friday,

To forgive a partner of betrayal is no easy task. But, in order to truly forgive, and give your relationship a chance, both parties have to work on the relationship and rebuild trust.

When a person cheats, it doesn’t mean that they are destined to continue cheating. However, the opposite is also true—there are no concrete guarantees that someone will not stray again, given the opportunity. There really isn’t a blanket “yes or no” answer to such a general question. It really depends on the parties involved. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Remove New Job Jitters

January 1, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

You’ve Earned This New Job

Daphne from Jerusalem Region asks:

I left my last workplace, which I worked in for 13 years, in a negative way. I’m starting a new job next month in a place which I feel has new positive energy and is extremely demanding. Being new and coping with a new field within my work are a big challenge. Can you give me some insights about my new job and give me tips on how to succeed?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Daphne,

From what I can see, you made a very good choice with changing your working arena. Your new job will have its challenges, but is nowhere near as suppressive as the job you left. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Is He In Love With Someone Else?

December 24, 2011 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

He Should Only Love Me, Right?

Sonia Roa from Pune asks:

Why do people get attracted to someone else when your present partner does everything to keep you happy?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Sonia,

There are many reasons why people find themselves attracted to others, even when they are restricted by the boundaries of an existing relationship. Having a defined relationship and dedicated partner may dictate being exclusive—but being exclusive doesn’t mean that a person ceases to feel or find others attractive. Read the rest of this entry »

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