Red Responds - Part 5

Red Responds: Use Your Instincts to Find True Love

June 25, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Holly from Harbor Beach asks:

Why is it that when I start falling for a guy and think it’s safe to let him into my heart, they end up dumping me and using the line, “I’m sorry, I’m not sure if this is what I want?” Leading up to that moment, everything is fine. They always want me around, always hugging and kissing on me and acting like nothing is wrong.

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Holly,

The heart of the answer is very simple: You have not yet met the right guy.

You’re sweet, eager to please and very much hoping for and seeking a truly stable relationship. While all of these things are honest and honorable, it also makes you vulnerable. Some people seemingly can sniff out vulnerability and use it to their advantage. It seems as if you’ve run into more than one of these types of personalities. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Is Your Spouse Gay?

June 18, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Michelle from Monroe asks:

Dear Red, I’m married to a man who I think is “strange.” There are several reasons for this thinking, and I do love him, but I wonder if he’s homosexual. Certainly nothing wrong with being so, I would just rather not be married to a man who struggles with his sexuality, or is only in the marriage, because he feels guilty about his sexual preferences. Sex with him is alright, as I feel free to express my sexuality—freely. However, I long for someone stronger—at the same time, I would not trust a new man around my children. I want to be married. I’m just not sure about my husband, especially if he’s gay. Help me, please. Signed, Desperate

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Desperate,

Your husband certainly does seem to have some stronger feminine qualities to him, and does find some men very attractive, he doesn’t present as a man who is actually gay. Intrigued, maybe, but not gay.

Your husband does seem to struggle often with his sexuality, but not because he wants to explore a gay lifestyle. He actually seems a little repressed when it comes to his sexuality—both in the heterosexual and homosexual arenas. While he seems to be somewhat fascinated by gay culture, he isn’t desiring to live a gay lifestyle. It seems as if he has some notion that he’s actually a bit of a misfit—sexually and otherwise. Read the rest of this entry »

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He Popped the Question: Psychic Red Dispels Her Lingering Doubts

June 11, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Denise from Chicago, Illinois asks:

Dear Red, I had consulted with you about a year ago asking if there is a compatible mate in my future and about recurring past loves. You responded saying that you saw a marriage about three years down the road and that it would move rather quickly-picking out rings after five dates. You also predicted that the men would continue to come in and fade around me, which remained true.

I recently became engaged after three months of dating which is obviously very fast! This also happened with my ex husband, he purposed only four weeks into the relationship. I’m curious, is this an opportunity to learn from my past or to embrace who I am inherently? Your vision was three years down the road—so is this truly the one? Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Get Psychic Guidance on Your Dreams

June 4, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Valerie of Irvine, California asks:

Every time I dream, I dream of being in my hometown. Why is that?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Valerie,

It is very common for people to experience dreams of their hometown, or snippets of reality and fantasy of childhood. To fully explore and understand your dreams, and why your subconscious is placing you in your hometown, it would be best for you to talk to someone who specializes in dream interpretation. Discussing the details, especially repeated symbolism, can really help to make more detailed sense of the dreams you’ve been having.

When we dream, our minds often mix influences from the past, present, and sometimes—future. A common explanation given for dreams that place you in your hometown is that you are burdened with unexpressed feelings and repressed emotions. From a psychic perspective, it seems as if that interpretation does apply to you. From what I can see, you’ve been feeling a little stuck and stagnated in your waking life, and your frustration is being released and reflected in your dreams. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex

May 28, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Christopher from Chicago, Illinois asks:

I walked away from a relationship a year ago because I felt like I was just taken for granted—a third wheel, and I was cheated on. I thought I could manage to move on, but until now I still can’t stop thinking about us and what could have been. Sometimes depression is getting to me so that I neglect the things that are important in my life. What is it between us that makes it hard for me to move on? Why is it that sometimes I feel as if I made a mistake?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Christopher,

Getting over someone you loved isn’t an easy thing to do, even when it is the right thing to do. Healing takes time, and more often than not, more time than we’d like. Your karmic contract with your ex is done. There’s no going back. Do your best to accept this, and direct your energy into trying to move forward. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: How to Get Unstuck in Life

May 21, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

What Does the Future Hold?

Juliet from Kampala asks:

Dear Red, I feel like my life is stuck in one place with no progress. I’ll be 27 years old in July. I have a job that I don’t love and that earns me very little money. I’m not in a serious/stable relationship. Lots of men ask me out, but none of them seems serious (I’m a Cancer and really value commitment). Lately, I’m only being asked out by single fathers of two! Is this just a coincidence or does it have hidden meaning? I want to get married by the end of this year or very early next year. Will I meet the man of my dreams who will walk me down the aisle? I also want to progress in my career. I want to go back to school to study marketing and really need to know if this is a wise career move. Will my financial situation be better by June this year?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Juliet,

I know that you are in a frustrated and uncertain space right now, and I will help you as best as I can. However, I’m only going to be able to touch base on some of your questions through this column. In order for you to get the most clarity and information regarding your present and future, it really would be best for you to have a personal, live reading. I also want to encourage you to have your natal chart cast. By doing both of these things, you will gain much more understanding of what is going on with you and why, and that knowledge will help you to understand and utilize the information to your benefit. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Is Your Partner Afraid to Get Married?

May 14, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Roxanne from Stevens Point asks:

I’m engaged to be married to a man I thought was my soulmate. We have a great relationship outside of the discussion of when and how we will get married. His idea of marriage or why a person should marry is way different from mine. I think of the relationship aspect of it, and he thinks only of the consequence of it. First it was a prenupt, now its possession of life which he has little of and what he feels important to leave his children. I am beginning to wonder why I’m wasting precious time and effort into a partner that isn’t acting as a partner. Do you have an answer?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear Roxanne,

It is true that you and your fiancé have very different ideas regarding the concepts and legalities of marriage, but you also have very different previous relationship experiences that are influencing each of your viewpoints. This may add some complications to the traditional differences of male/female views, but these aren’t issues that can’t be overcome. Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Cope with Difficult Family Members

April 16, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Red ext. 9226

Betty from Mt. Pleasant asks:

My granddaughter, Taylor, is eleven years old. Ever since she was able to talk, she would say that people were “peeking” in the windows at her even though she was on the second floor. I recently asked her if she “saw” people, and she said that she did. They also talk to her. Her mom and dad were in the room when we were talking about this, and they talked to her other grandma. Her other grandma is Baptist, and told her that they are the devil. She quoted all those Bible verses to her. Now, she is not able to talk about it because her mom and dad will punish her. Is there any advice that you can give me?

Taylor is a very mean spirited child and says whatever is on her mind – most of the time it’s not good. I’m ashamed to take her out in public, because I never know what she’s going to say. Her parents think that whatever she says is funny, so that only encourages her bad behavior. She’s always in trouble at school, and she doesn’t have any friends. I try telling my daughter that she needs to work on the behavior, but my daughter thinks that I’m the one with the problem. I don’t know where to go from here, and I really want to encourage her psychic ability. Is there anything that I can do? Read the rest of this entry »

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