4 Ways to Prevent an Emotional Breakdown

May 16, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Alina Mikos

Keep Yourself Happy

Emotions can be volatile things when not nurtured and processed properly. If you’re about to fling lewd gestures from your car to another driver who cut you off in rush hour, verbally snap at the painfully slow bank teller who’s just learning his job, or about to alienate a friend or family member with a snarky, petty comment because of your hostile mood, read on!

1. Finger on Your Pulse

Stay tuned in to you and all that’s going on internally as you change environments and interactions throughout the day. It’s easy to get so wound up in your emotions that you are oblivious to the turbulence you are creating in and around you until it’s too late. Learn your unique internal signs which signal an approaching emotional blowout. Physical clues often manifest as sudden tensions in your body or parts of your body, pressure in your chest or head, or an accelerated heart rate. When you feel any of these volcanic emotions, slow down and breathe! Read the rest of this entry »

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How to Get What You Want From Men

May 16, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Eric J. Leech

Saying Just the Right Things

How many complaints does it take to lose a guy? Only one if you’re doing it wrong.

Getting what you want from a guy is more about knowing how to complain effectively, than using any trickery, animal training strategies, or extreme bargaining tactics (bribes, sex, and so on). There are seven tips to being an effective complainer, and they are as simple as ordering a sandwich.

1. “Hold the mayo.”

When you are having a sandwich made at the deli, it is usually easier if you make one request at a time. If you yell out “I’d like wheat, pastrami, hold the pickle, extra relish, quarter the peppers, squeeze the onions, and hold the mayo,” you’re probably only going to manage to irritate the person behind the counter. The same thing goes with relationship requests. Guys don’t do well with lists; it overwhelms them. Have you ever seen a guy at the grocery store, wandering aimlessly through the aisles, forgetting half the stuff his wife mentioned? When it really matters that you have his full attention, only make one request at a time. Read the rest of this entry »

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Venus Goes Retrograde Today

May 15, 2012 at 4:10 pm
By Krishna Bill

Love Planet Goes Haywire

Starting today, the planet Venus goes retrograde for six weeks, likely causing havoc and mayhem in romantic relationships. It’s like Mercury retrograde for love! That means it’s time to get yourself sorted, pay extra close attention to how you’re managing your relationships, and possibly consult a psychic to make sure you properly weather the rocky road ahead.

“Change is always to be welcomed rather than feared because it leads to the best relationship choices and the greatest freedom.” - Faith ext. 9608

‘Write down the general characteristics of your ideal mate -  then become that person.  If you want someone who is kind, honest, attentive, a good provider - then develop those things in yourself.  Once you’ve done that you will be much less likely to settle for less of a mate than you deserve or stay in a poor relationship out of fear of being alone.” – Reed ext. 5105 

“Embark on an active journey to see what romantic potentials may await.” – Althea ext. 9582

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He’s Always Flirting

May 13, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Ophelia ext. 5078

I Can’t Stand It! Why Am I Not Enough?

A while back, I wrote a blog post for women about men. One commenter asked, why not articles for men? So this article is for men dating men who always flirt.

Men love feeling attractive to other men. I’ve found this is especially true for men who waited until later in life to come out of the closet. They didn’t get the chance to have normal adolescent dating experiences because they felt forced to date women when their interests were elsewhere.

The men I’ve know who came out did so in their early twenties, but I hear now, teens are coming out earlier and earlier. However, most of my callers are men in my age group or older dating men like them who didn’t reveal their true sexual sides until after their high school years. Read the rest of this entry »

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Sex Q&A: Ditch the Game Players

May 13, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Liam ext. 9290

They’re Older, But That Doesn’t Mean They’re Wiser

Barbara from York, South Carolina asks:

I am an older reader on this site, and have been involved with a man who is the biggest test of my integrity ever in my life. I would like to know your take on why men in their late 50s and early 60s, most of whom have been married at least once, tend to be game players. You would think by this stage in life that they would know what respect is for someone who has an attraction for them. A lot of these men are on online dating sites, writing very detailed descriptions of what they seek in a partner, and when they find one that fits all the things they say they desire, they push the woman’s self-esteem to the breaking point, make false accustions (which by the way are descriptions of their own problems), and then tell the woman she doesn’t trust a relationship. It’s very hard to build trust when the foundation is so flawed. I would be most interested in your idea of why men this age are wasting the last best years they have on such nonsensical behavior.

Liam’s Response:

Greetings, Barbara. I’m certain your experience is shared by many and, hopefully, I can put the issue into perspective. I warn you, a lot of my explanation will not be terribly palatable. Still I sense that you are tougher than most and I believe you will be able to take my observations on the matter and apply them in a fashion that will be advantageous. Just remember, it doesn’t do any good to become wrathful or despondent over the dictates of nature. What I’m about to discuss has nothing to do with what is fair or right or just. As Sergeant Barnes in the great cinema classic Platoon so wisely observed, “There’s the way it ought to be… and there’s the way it is.” Read the rest of this entry »

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Red Responds: Can Your Love Survive an Affair?

May 13, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Red ext 9226

Recognize True Love and Protect It!

LD from Atlanta, Georgia asks:

Can a relationship ever really make it? Even though it started incorrectly (example a love affair)?

Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:

Dear LD,

Generally speaking, relationships not only have the ability to endure, but they also have the possibility to thrive! So, yes, it is possible to “make it.”

One of the core issues people struggle with these days is “relationship pressure” —if you’re not involved, or haven’t found the right mate by a certain date. This is a pressure we have created for ourselves, and one that often times leads us to make relationship mistakes. Read the rest of this entry »

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Speak Up: How Do You Know It’s Love?

May 12, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Carmen Honacker

Changing With Your Husband as He Ages

Bonnie from Cary, North Carolina asks:

I have only been married three years. My husband has only had sex with me ten times, and I started those ten. When I ask about it, I get no reply. He never hugs me and the only real kiss I have recieved was on our wedding. He always says he loves me, but now I’m at my wits’ end as to what to do. 

Carmen Responds:

Dear Bonnie,

This is a tough one. The question I would have is how was your sex life while you were dating? Did he lose his interest after you guys got married? Either way, it’s time to have a real conversation about it. You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. Don’t accuse him, or put him down, because this is a delicate matter and requires diplomacy and sensitivity. Read the rest of this entry »

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Who Needs Marriage?

May 11, 2012 at 12:00 am
By Eric J. Leech

Is Marriage a Failing Institution?

Some statistics may suggest that marriage is a dying institution. According to recent Pew Research Center findings, only around half of all Americans are currently married. This may sound fairly normal until you realize that in 1960, that percentage was much closer to three-fourths. What’s causing the steep decline in interest? Financial burden isn’t having much of an effect, according to Pew.

Some naysayers claim the purpose of marriage is becoming obsolete in a modern society where people can maintain what they need for themselves with technology. Scientists speculate that by 2050, we may become so in love with our computers, that we may actually marry them—in other words, a handful of men and women may prefer robot companions to that of human. According to statistics, a portion of couples are already happy with long-distance Internet relationships rather than physical relationships, which isn’t all that different. Read the rest of this entry »

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