Spiritually Confused

SPEAK UP With Carmen Honacker!

November 16, 2011 at 1:00 pm
By Staff

Break Through to the Hard Truth

We’re proud to announce a brand new column from one of our fan favorite authors, Carmen Honacker (author of popular articles like “Keep Your Power!” and “10 Ways to Spot a Tool“).

The column – to be titled “Speak Up!” – will be your chance to get direct advice from Carmen in her signature blunt, straightforward style. If you’ve ever had a question that you couldn’t quite get a straight answer on, or that people treaded on lightly with you, and you need to make a break-through into reality, now’s your chance to get assistance. In addition to her own advice, Carmen will recommend two psychics to directly aid you. Read the rest of this entry »

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Quit Trying to Save People!

October 24, 2011 at 1:00 pm
By Krishna Bill

Kick the Chronic Helping Habit

We’ve all been there: we have that one friendship or relationship that seems to constantly revolve around us trying to “save” the other person. Maybe you’re trying to get them on their feet, or off drugs, or more spiritually aware. Maybe you’re in a relationship with somebody who keeps acting like an idiot, self-destructive or even abusive towards you—and you keep telling yourself that maybe if you just show that person enough love, they’ll change, and see the light and hope, and have you to thank for it all. Day in, day out, you soon find your time and energy becoming more and more consumed with trying to carry that person, trying to keep their head above water, or with dragging them to where you think they should be. And the more you do this, the less time and energy you have for yourself.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret:

They’re that way because they’re choosing it.

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4 Tips for a Successful Psychic Reading

August 8, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Aida ext. 5387

Navigate Through Life With Psychic Guidance

Looking for some guidance? A psychic reading can help navigate the murky waters of life in a way that can clear your path and move you out of the darkness of confusion and doubt into the light of clarity and confidence. Consulting with a psychic can create an area of calm where there was chaos, bring comfort where there was pain, and show alternatives where there was only what seemed to be a dead end. A reading can help connect you with your true purpose, true love or true self.

Now that you’ve decided to connect with a psychic, how do you go about making sure that your reading is the best experience it can be? Here are a few tips for making a great connection and taking away the answers you’re looking for.

1. Choose your psychic thoughtfully. At CaliforniaPsychics.com you are given all the tools to make a great selection based on your needs and preferences. Look over the psychics’ thumbnail information listed under each picture to determine who gives the style of reading that you are looking for: straightforward, compassionate, or inspirational. From there, you can decide who to look at further. Do you love the Tarot? Feel a kinship with astrology? Or do you want a medium who will connect with your guides and loved ones? Choose a few who meet your requirements and then read their bios, their testimonials and listen to their audio bios. These are your first contacts with your chosen psychics. Read the rest of this entry »

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The Imperfection of Perfectionism

July 28, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Theresa Danna

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to do your best, whether it’s a project at your job or a game of tennis with friends. It feels good to accomplish a goal, and often other people benefit from your efforts, too.

Problems creep into our lives when we feel that everything we do must meet strict, often self-imposed, standards. Behind the compulsion to always perform perfectly is fear—fear of not being accepted or loved by others if we fail. For some people, the addictive compulsion is to achieve a perfect weight or meet a physical beauty standard. But the underlying factor is the same: a belief that we are not good enough. Read the rest of this entry »

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6 Things To Do If You’re In Love With a Narcissist

July 5, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Psychic Cameron ext. 5412

Are You in Love With a Narcissist?

When most of us hear the word “narcissist,” we think of someone who spends too much time primping in front of a mirror. While we can all be self-centered from time to time, pathological narcissism is different. The people I talk to who have been involved with pathological narcissists find themselves devastated, trying to put their lives back together as if they had just survived a stroke. The pain and humiliation are indescribable.

Psychologists don’t always know why people exhibit narcissistic behavior, but the fact remains: pathological narcissists have no empathy for the people they harm, and often, whether they are conscious of it or not, systematically destroy the ones they are with. Have you been, or are you currently, in love with a narcissist? Read the rest of this entry »

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Is Judgment Day a Week Away? Hm…

May 13, 2011 at 1:00 pm
By Krishna Bill

With everybody so stirred up about December 21, 2012, some people just decided they wanted to jump ahead to the “fun.” You’ve probably seen the billboards around: the ones that say that “Judgment Day” is coming on May 21. But who exactly is responsible for this wide-scale hysteria-mongering? The group in charge of the campaign is run by Robert Camping (who has previously wrongly predicted end of the world dates, including one in 1994), whose followers have taken it upon themselves to tell the world about the upcoming date—take, for instance, one Robert Fitzpatrick—who has apparently invested his entire life savings into a subway campaign about the spurious “end of the world” date.

Bossip reports:

The end is nigh, insists Robert Fitzpatrick. And he’s put his money where his mouth is. If the world doesn’t end on May 21, one week from tomorrow, he’ll have wasted more than $140,000 on bus and subway advertising. The 60-year-old Staten Island resident, a retired MTA employee, says he’s spent at least that sum — his life savings — on 1,000 subway-car placards, and even more ads on bus kiosks and subway cars. They say: “Global Earthquake: The Greatest Ever! Judgment Day May 21, 2011.” Read the rest of this entry »

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The Blame Game

April 12, 2011 at 5:00 am
By Carmen Honacker

Who’s Playing It and Why

There is a short and a long answer to this question. Short answer: “Almost everyone is playing it. Because it is easier than looking at yourself in the mirror.”

“Blame.” The mere word suggests that something shady is going on. This word hardly ever has a positive ring to it, because it usually implies trying to “pin” fault on another. Most of us learn how to do it when we are little by watching our parents and peers and a whole lot of us never learn how to actually be accountable or take responsibility for our own actions. After all, that would mean we’d have to look at our own stuff, and god forbid, do some work. Read the rest of this entry »

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5 Signs You’re Overly Opinionated

November 1, 2010 at 5:00 am
By Stephanie K. Smith

It’s important to have opinions. However, if you’re one of those people who thinks they know everything, your opinion onslaught may be driving others (friends, colleagues, mates and dates alike) away – and fast! After all, nobody likes a know-it-all. Part of being a social creature is being able to recognize when to keep your mouth shut, no matter what your mind is telling you. Even if they think they’re just expressing themselves or sharing their breadth of knowledge in an effort to help someone out, the overly opinionated get on our nerves and rarely get taken seriously – even when they have something worthwhile to share!

Here are some signs you’re one of them:

1. You always dominate the conversation

Being a leader, a social butterfly or a charismatic person is one thing. Sure, sometimes you’re going to have to hold the floor, and sometimes it’ll happen even if you’re not trying – regardless of whether or not you fit any of the aforementioned descriptions. If, on the other hand, you’re always front and center and never seem to run out of things to say… there’s a chance you’re talking when you should be listening. Read the rest of this entry »