Capture a Gemini’s Heart

May 25, 2010 at 5:00 pm

Capturing the heart of a Gemini is best accomplished through their brain! Geminis love verbal self-expression, talking both in and out of the bedroom. They may be a talented actor like Johnny Depp, Angelina Jolie, and Marilyn Monroe. Or they may have the heart of a poet like Bob Dylan and Paul McCartney. For Gemini, it’s all about verbal self-expression — both in and out of the bedroom. So if you want to capture the heart of a Twin, here are some things you need to know.

Verbal Magic
The way to a Gemini’s heart is through their brain. As an Air sign ruled by Mercury, the planet of communications and intellect, Gemini craves a cerebral connection with a partner. Whether they’re discussing a scientific breakthrough, gossiping about a mutual friend, debating a political issue or talking up a sexy novel, they need a lover who appreciates their intellectual gifts. Engaging your Gemini in different subjects will keep them entertained and interested. Which is important, because they have little tolerance for boredom. Gemini thrives on variety, after all.

Fickle in Love
As a restless spirit, Gemini can be fickle. Because they’re intellectually oriented, their feelings can seem shallow unless you engage their deeper emotions. For Gemini, wordplay is foreplay, and not to be taken seriously — at least at first. If you’re in love with a Gemini, it pays to keep things light until you know for sure you’ve captured their heart. This may take some patience — and the ability to get beyond their brain. If your Gemini has some Earth influences (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn), sensual pleasure will open a door to their deeper feelings. If they have some Water influences (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces), sharing your feelings will inspire them to open their heart. Get more personalized advice, contact a psychic today!

Social Butterfly
Gemini is super social and enjoys a wide variety of friends. They can have platonic friends of the opposite sex, which is important to remember if you’re the jealous type. Trying to control a Gemini is like trying to hold onto air — they’ll slip out of your grasp for good unless you give them the space to enjoy their varied friends, interests and activities.

Cerebral Sex
Sexually, Gemini likes to have fun. Their versatility carries over into the bedroom, and they’re usually game to try new techniques, positions and locations. Sharing some laughter in bed is a must, too. Verbal naughtiness, either from your own imagination or from reading erotic literature aloud, will heat up your Gemini, too. Getting stuck in a sexual rut, however, will have them running for the door. Being spontaneous and changing things up occasionally will keep them captivated.

Split Personality
The symbol for Gemini is the Twins. As such, there can be two distinct sides to Gemini’s personality. The two halves aren’t split between good and bad, necessarily; they’re just different from each other. Still, this can be unsettling if you expect consistency in your partner. Just keep in mind that Gemini is adaptable and changeable, which will keep you on your toes.

With their wit, intelligence and social skills, it’s no surprise that Gemini is the master of flirting. They’ll charm you into delivering your heart right into their hands. Which is where you wanted to be all along, isn’t it?

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  1. Erryn July 2, 2014 at 10:20 pm

    I was married to a Gemini for 13 years. It was like living with Jekyll & Hyde and I’m hoping that this is attributes to mental illness and not the sign ’cause I find myself overwhelmingly attracted to Geminis. I’m a Virgo and Geminis know how to get my attention with their intellect. When I notice a guy and I feel that I am attracted, I’m floored that he too is a Gemini. I told myself that I’m going to stay away from Geminis because of the twin factor, but I don’t know if I can. No one else has kept my interest very long. I also think my moon sign is Gemini. Maybe that’s why. SMH!


  2. linda June 10, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    I’m a libra/scorpio i guess..i’m dating a gemini and at first we agreed that we would go out have fun but no falling in love or making out sex business..i was so keeping my word but somehow our second “outting” ended with a very passionate kiss and I was hooked after that..his boyish soft heart almost naive charm knocked my sox off he and I were not suppose to go there but we did everything semed fair but then all of a sudden out of nowhere he shut down began to ignore me and eventually banned me from coming to the bar where we originally met..i was so confused hurt and desperate to relive our first few dates but he began to make demands and just became a totally different person..i of course will not go out like a lil bitch so i turned on my scorpionic ways and got revenge cus he lied and ruined everything games is all he wanted “hide and chase him” i got bored asf quick now i make him chase me why did he do this smh he broke my heart and because of that we will never be what could have been..he got scared


  3. terrell June 9, 2014 at 2:02 am

    I’m a gemini…just felt like commenting about the Marilyn Monroe post…since my birthday is June 1st also. ;)


  4. Birdie November 23, 2013 at 9:45 am

    I am a Gemini woman, I really like this Pisces man. We both like each other a lot. we are both older and we know how to work with one another. I am very gentle with him and I know he loves that. We are very good together. it’s how you handle yourself and how mature u are.It is what it is. I know I will always respect him and he will always respect me. So far So great.


  5. Shelly September 25, 2013 at 11:42 am

    I’m in a friends with benefits with a Gemini, I’m a Scorpio girl. He confuses the hell out of me, he is like a butterfly.I work at a night club and that’s how we met. We both have gotten out of a long term relationship so we agreed no attachments. He flirts with girls, here and there. I see him talking to a lot of them but he never touches them sexually,but once a guy hugs me or starts flirting with me, his face gets serious for a second then he gives me sarcastic smiles. It’s getting worse every time we see each other. He gets jealous even if I comment about a guy doing something funny while flirting with me. He tells me he doesn’t want anyone knowing about me and him being together, so I avoid him at all costs in public and just talk to my guy friends normally, but him getting jealous is confusing me, if he wants something more.


  6. FABIO August 26, 2013 at 1:45 am

    I’M A CAPICORN LOVE A GIRL FROM 2 AND HALF YEARZ ..SHE IS A GENIMI
    FIRST YEAR WE WERE SO CLOSE TO EACHOTHER AND LOVED EACHOTHER SO MUCH
    BUT DAY BY DAY WE START FIGHTING ALL MOST EVERYDAY
    I WAS DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HER BUT I DON’T REALLY KNOW IF SHE EVER DID
    WE USED TO BROKE UP LIKE EVERYDAY AND I USED TO GO BACK TO HER
    AND STILL I LOVE HER AND WANT TO GET BACK TOGETHER BUT SHE DON’T WANT THAT
    SHE WAS REALLY SHY FROM THE START NEVER WANTED TO TELL ME ABOUT HER FEELINGS
    OR NEVER SAID I LOVE YOU BY HER SELF I ALWAYS HAD TO MAKE HER SAY THAT I’M REALLY
    CONFUSE I DON’T REALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO OR HOW TO MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE WITH ME SOME ONE HELP!!!
    I LOVE HER SO MUCH DON’T WANNA LOSE HER FOREVER :(


  7. antoinette childress August 4, 2013 at 9:04 pm

    Im a women married to a gem for almost two years and been friends for about 10 years. I love him so much, the flirting part makes me so mad at times and they know how to play the role till they get you and to make it worsest he a mommas boy and can’t get off his mommas nipples and get on mines lol, I love him so much but don’t know how long I can deal with this, im a taurus women


  8. REBECCA May 30, 2013 at 7:35 am

    MY QUESTION IS ,I AM GOING TO BE 53 SATURDAY JUNE 2ND ,AND I JUST FOUND OUT THAT A WONDERFUL FRIEND WHICH I LOVE AS A FRIEND BUT HAVE HAD FELINGS FOR HIM FOR ABOUT A YEAR ,HE ALSO IS A GEMINI JUNE 18TH HE ALSO WILL BE 53, I JUST FOUND OUT HE ALSO HAS HAD AND STILL DOES HAVE ROMANTIC FEELINGS ABOUT ME AS WELL,HE HAS FINALLY HAS ASKED FOR US TO START SEEING EACH OTHER,WE LIVE IN THE SAME APT. COURT YARD,AND I TRULY DO BELIEVE IN MY ASTROLOGY,
    I FEEL AT OUR AGE THAT WE SHOULD, AND I KNOW THAT I DO KNOW WHAT IT IS I WANT OUT OF A REALATIONSHIP AND LIFE , HE SAYS HE DOES TO SO I KNOW THERE IS NO SURPRISING EXPECTATION ON ARE PART IN WHAT WE WANT TO START IN THIS REALATIONSHIP,WE BOTH AGREE TO KEEP OUR OWN PLACE AND SEE WHAT EVOLES.
    I JUST WOULD LIKE TO HEAR WHAT IS THOUGHT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP. PLEASE HELP
    BECAUSE I DON’T WANT TO GET HURT BEEN HURT TO MANY TIMS BEFORE THERE IS NO CURE FOR A BROKEN HEART.


  9. jenny April 29, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    my boyfriend is just d same. he is a jealous type. but very flirty I hate it so much. I am a libra as all they said were compatible but I am very sensitive. and he is insensitive he cant understand why im upset. I can’t read his mind and he is very smart.. I actually dont know how to deal with him pretty hard. but I love him soo much.


  10. REL February 27, 2013 at 12:35 pm

    I’m a Gemini woman who has fallen for a Gemini Man and I can’t figure it out. I believe it is just sexual and I don’t know how to change it. There are days I feel I’m making headway and then other days I revert back to square one. We both are professional intelligent people. For a person who we only do is have sex with this person we surely text often. Help what do I do?


  11. Malik August 20, 2012 at 7:54 pm

    I am a Gemini, with DOB 10 June. Yes your article is a true reflection of a Gemini. I will stress on unpredictability of a Gemini, they are never predictable not even to themselves. That is perhaps the best part of their personality. Every one keeps guessing about them and about their next move and no one can have a real guess and then they bring out a surprise for every one and perhaps it is a surprise for them as well. They like variety in every thing but variety does not mean unfaithfulness. They may flirt but may never go to the extend of deceiving their soul-mates.


  12. C C August 18, 2012 at 12:30 am

    I’m a Gemini! My personality is typical Gemini, social,caring,fickle,outgoing,witty,flirty (Libra takes flirty to a whole other level of the actual idefinition/watch out!),accommodating (can thrive in any environment..wit & charm makes you the perfect catch as Gemini. Unless you get butterflies and your guy( whatever sign he is)leaves you actually only thinking of him & you don’te compare him to your ex’s or worry about anyone elses approval after your date, the date you relive in your mind as If too good to be true. Even if yiu feel like this …keep dating around or @ least make him(Libra) prove himself and wait to have sex. Likes the challenge.(attracted to extremlty pretty women) he will call for 2 & 3date even if he’s unsure(vein).don’t hold back when you Do have sex(he likes you to talk to him& show him what yiu want & like about him in bed.And libra doesn’t take constructive criticism well,for later when committed remain observant. Look out for particular patterns in behaviorShower him with compliments/ himself first. Embrace this feeling & prepare yourself if he dissappoints you. Libra is so full of charm, very picky, has high standards and controlling once he reels you in. Goes back on his word,is strong in his beliefs but oozes double standard later.wishy washy. Stay on top of your game


  13. jo July 19, 2012 at 3:49 pm

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  14. jo July 19, 2012 at 3:47 pm

    i have recently met this gemini guy..im a libra. he was full on from the start, texting every day, saying how he never felt a connection like this before, now he doesnt txt first..if i text, hes sweet and alls cool but i refuse to chase now.
    i think hes deep in thought but on same hand im confused and think should i just end it. its very early days though.
    any advice please?


  15. fickle gemini July 10, 2012 at 6:57 am

    i am a gemini and very hard to accept that i am damn fickle. i like variety. i can have a crush on any one and even forget about that person as soon as i see a new boy who gives a wow impression to me. you can say i change love time by time. and its very true that i like making fun and keeping others entertained. i do not like to hang around people a lot who are boring though i respect them. i like fun and entertaining guys not boring ones. seems like we geminians are never satisfied and want to experience everything. so less hope to be settled in a serious relationship. i am not being so proud of my negative qualities but the problem is i cant help it either. just waiting for a libra guy as many says libras are compatible for geminians. though i dont always prefer a libra and any zodiac guy would work if he would really make me fall in love with him and make me stable ofcourse. any improvements a gemini can make to eliminate its negative qualities then please share some advice that i can really put into action. i dont like to be a fickle person but i am and help me improve on that. anyone can help ;-)

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  16. peggy February 8, 2012 at 5:18 pm

    Hi I am a Gemini, and I believe quite true. 2 personalities, a real country hillbilly and a socialite. I love to deer hunt and fish and I have been a hostess and introduced a 3star General to the Army brigade at Ft. Meade Meryland. I don’t have much of a mean streak but I can be very stern and get my piont across. I am very loving and I thrive on showing it. I am a hugger and a kisser with both males and females. I do flirt, but I feel MY flirting is just my way of being friendly. I am very passinate with all that I do and all that I am. I get my feelings hurt easily. I have been married 4 times. 1Sag. 1Aqu. and 2 Scorp. They all were unfaithful. I am getting ready to become involved with a cancer a guy I knew in high school. I wonder how it will be.


  17. Rachelle January 21, 2012 at 12:39 pm

    Marilyn Monroe was born on June 1, 1926 The most famous Gemini!


  18. Dee December 8, 2011 at 6:54 am

    I thought Marilyn Monroe was a Leo?


  19. Rose O. November 13, 2011 at 9:09 am

    Hi! I am a Gemini, and yes the article is correct discribing a Gemini.
    I don’t have a boyfriend or husband but, it is correct if I don’t have
    variety I get borded I do like someone who is spontanious not just
    a home body or couch potatoe. Sexually its true also.
    As for flirting I have had friends say I sounded like I was flirting
    when having a conversation which was not true. For me you have
    to know the diffrence. I am just a people person. I had a boyfriend
    who was a Tauras and he never complained about it. Of course
    he was also a friendly people person also. For me talking to a person
    is very natural. I explain all this when I am starting a relationship (dating). I think I do have some Earth signs.


  20. Lal September 27, 2011 at 1:22 am

    i am a gemini and involved with a gemini so we both flirts, jealous and you can imagine what happens in the bedroom..


  21. Kemma September 24, 2011 at 3:16 am

    Alisa I’m a Gemini women and us Gemini’s may like to flirt, but when I’m with someone I am with them and only them. The flirt mood shuts down and is directed only to my man. If it sounded like he was cheating then I hate to say it, but he probably was. Even if it’s only on the internet. I believe “chatting and flirting” on the net is still cheating. It’s not loyal. When you say he gets jealous if you talk about other guys, I think that is just a guy thing. My boyfriend is the same way! If he is talking to a girl and it makes me mad I’m being stupid and it’s nothing because “Where do I sleep every night.” And “Why would I be making a life with you if I didn’t want to be with you.” But you can bet if I talk to any old guy friends all hell breaks loose! But yet we are being stupid when we get mad. It’s just guys. Sometimes I think he is the Gemini in our relationship and I’m the Taurus…


  22. Ebony Lewis September 19, 2011 at 5:21 am

    Im married to a Gemeni and everything you say is soo true ,especially the sex part he likes it ranchy and nasty ,im a sagitarius and he says im the only woman that ever satisfy him sexually and he dont cheat on me and never will ,im his fantasy wish of love ,he is very charming and says all the right things .i know he’s my soulmate and i love him very much but whenever i go to the mall or somewhere without him ,he asks me if any guys talk to me so there is a little jealousy involved but i like it ,,shows he cares


  23. Susan September 18, 2011 at 1:20 pm

    LOL. Laureance. I see you believe in karma too. Glad to hear from a level headed Gemini Woman.


  24. Laurence September 13, 2011 at 7:27 am

    Well, i am a Gemeni but female and yeah, most of what is written up there is true but the fact that your husband or boyfriend is having conversations with other women is just weird to me. And the worse is that he cant tolerate it when you do it!! It just dont sound to fair to me. I beleive in equalitie in a relationship and gemeni or not, he should know that we dont do to other what we dont like to get done to ourselves!! sorry for my french lol cuz im french!


  25. Susan September 12, 2011 at 3:00 pm

    I’m “involved” with a Gemini too. Everything you said about your GEMINI husband. He is flirty too. Tries to make me jealous with talking to and talking about ALL the Women he knows/or has known before me. But just like you, WHENEVER I talk to him about OTHER Men in my life, you can tell he gets J E A L O U S!!!!!!


  26. Alisa Rivera August 17, 2011 at 7:07 pm

    This describes the Genimi im married to perfectly!!! About the good and bad sides is true and the part about liking to have conversations with other women!! But i have read some of those conversations and it sounded more like cheating to me!!!!! Then he says it just conversation. But he dont like it if I say im going to have just conversations with other men. I dont understand this at all!!!!

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