Can I Contact Deceased Loved Ones?

December 2, 2010 at 1:00 pm

What’s the best way to contact deceased loved ones? Will they speak to us on the other side? Learn how to tell when someone who’s passed away is around you. Here are some easy signs to get you started communicating with the deceased – who are very active, by the way, on the other side. When my son passed away from leukemia, I never thought I could recover from that, but he has helped me every step of the way. Since I am a medium, I had a head start in the communication department, but it really didn’t help me too much at the beginning. With practice, I believe you can connect with your deceased loved ones. Below is the short list of how to know that a deceased loved one is around you. Get in touch with a deceased loved one by talking with a medium today.

– A smell that reminds you of them: perfume, tobacco, pipe smells, cooking, incense, etc.

– Number combinations connected to when they passed or their birthday.- Pets going berserk, like they are playing with someone, or just staring into a corner for extended periods of time. Pets are very strongly connected to the other side, and are more sensitive to the energy there.

– Shadows moving around places they used to frequent.

– Hearing their voice out of the blue when you are half asleep or just waking up.

– Hearing their voice when you are wide awake.

– Lucid dreams, the ones that feel so real. This can usually mean a visitation from the deceased loved one.

– Columns of air, warm or cold, in places they used to frequent.

There are many more ways to know that a deceased loved one is around you, and they can come as one thing or a combination of things. The more you acknowledge the signs, and the more that you look for the signs, the stronger and more appropriate they get. You must ask them for a sign to begin with, and then expect the sign to be there. You can experiment with what kind of signs you want, and you can be as specific as you want. They are more likely to communicate with you personally than they are with me, and they are always ready to communicate with you when you need them.

Stay out of the fear of this type of communication, and you will be pleasantly surprised at the results. I was asked by quite a few people: “How do you know you are talking with your son?” My answer is always the same – “Because the alternative is unthinkable.”

Spirit communication like this is extremely positive for a lot of reasons, but the main reason I believe is so that we can be at peace ourselves, knowing that they are safe and happy. It can also help you get closure with a deceased loved one that you had an issue with. Once they’ve made their transition, they are with the angels, so they’re happy and finally “get it.”

I would be happy to answer any of your questions about spirit communication for future blogs, so don’t be afraid to ask.

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  1. varsha January 6, 2016 at 9:16 pm

    My rakhi brothe expired25 dec2015 he faal from teris I wanna know k how he fall nd where he is is he well is he happy is he wanna say smthing to me I m waiting I dnt wanna live without him plzz I request you only once I wanna atalk hin is it possible so plz meet him with me

  2. Dennis January 4, 2016 at 1:26 pm

    I recently lost my mom,I found her on the living room floor and she passed away from a heart attack.I try every night to talk to her and try to have her let me know she is ok. I ask her to make a noise or move something but I never seem to hear anything what can I do?

  3. Onewingangel November 6, 2015 at 9:02 am

    I just recently discovered that my ex boyfriend from 25 years ago passed away last year. I don’t even know how I even can across his name but for some strange reason I found his obit thru a unintended Google search. Anyways, this man touched my life in a way that I don’t think he realized. Truth be said, I have never really stopped loving him and have been single since then. I have had several relationships, but in the back of my head, have always longed for someone who possessed his qualities. My question is, does he know that he has never really left my mind or heart? I want him to know that I am happy that he was able to find someone he loved and that he lived a full life.

  4. mccart October 21, 2015 at 3:02 pm


  5. Lana Berry stepdad October 10, 2015 at 11:41 am

    My mom passed away 7 weeks ago. She died at home with cancer, so I don’t go to the house it’s up for sale. I live in an apartment about a mile from where mama lives. The idiot she married after my stepdad died tried to turn her against me. I saw her the morning she died. Please help me I need closure with her what can I do?

  6. peterspc October 5, 2015 at 6:10 pm

    a friend with a troubled history was found dead at his home and he often spoke of the spirit world and saying he would die soon and what he would leave and to whom he was 39 and I am 64 and I told him to look to the future and not the past and stop talking about dead people and I often said dead people are dead and that’s it . but he was determined to prove me wrong ? is this possible ?

  7. mary July 7, 2015 at 10:40 am

    my brother patrick joseph passed away in the year 1999..he was a cancer family suffered a lot to save him,but we could not …and we miss him a lot…initially he was often coming in my dream,but always in a pain situation,i did not see him happy anytime in my dream,i read out that the spirit will communicate and tell us that they are OK to convince us in some or the other ways,after 15 years i felt this that he is not happy,how will i communicate to my brother…he is not coming in my dream too never days….i want to speak to my brother,i want to know how is he…please guide me help me…how to communicate with my brother…i want to speak to him…please help me to speak to my brother…

  8. KC May 9, 2015 at 3:41 pm

    My dad passed away 2nd May 2015. He suffered last few years of his life, and I knew he would be passing soon. We didn’t get on until about 9 yrs ago when I came back into his life. You see I was a horrible son to all my family, the worst scum possible. My parents forgave me and my dad who wasn’t really a close man… detached sort changed to a loving and tactile dad. We go close just what I always wanted. I miss him so much, and I know its only been a week, but I should have sensed him or felt something. My dad was highly clairvoyant but supressed that gift due to religious beliefs. My dad supressed my gifts when I was a child, and even though I can sense spirit, he seems to elude me. I wish I could have told him before his passing how much I loved him and to say sorry again for being a bad son to him most of my life. I wish I could talk to him, hold him, cry on his shoulder, have the strength of my father that was always there but took for granted. I wish so much to join him…. that thought seems to get stronger by the day, over the last week.

  9. Frosina May 4, 2015 at 4:54 pm

    My dad past away last February.Help me please to talk to him. I missed him so much. Can live anymore. I want to know how’s he? Why he didn’t wait for me to get back home? What to do? Want to tell him help mum to live..and so on.
    Thank you so much in advance.

  10. Lauren April 2, 2015 at 12:52 am

    My 16 year old sister died a few weeks ago from a severe brain injury, she was brain dead. I’ve had two dreams about her; the first I was sleeping in her bed and woke up to her sitting next to me and then we talked about what happened. The next night I said before going to bed ‘if you’re around let me dream about you tonight’ and I did. However, this dream was about how she faked her death and was actually alive. Even though she is older than me, I was always taller. In this dream she was taller than me though, I think she wanted to know what it felt like. And just today, my dad’s phone randomly started playing the Titanic ‘my heart will go on’ one of her favourite songs. He had never bought it and of the hundreds of songs that could have played it was that one.

    Dad is really into seeing her in small things like a sunset or bird, my mum and I not so much. I think my sister is around and that she might be attached to something in this house, seeing as she died here originally.

    Is there anyway I can talk ‘talk’ to her like, or ask her if she is around. Can spirits make lights flicker or phones turn on or anything like that. I just really want to talk to her. But mum doesn’t want to use an oiuja board despite dad and I being okay with it.

    Also, my sister loved annoying people and she and I were both fans of a t.v show called Supernatural that has ghosts and spirits in it.


  11. Shelli March 16, 2015 at 6:07 pm

    When are you online?

  12. dmarantz February 2, 2015 at 3:16 pm

    I’m really sorry to hear about your fiance. You can make an appointment with a psychic medium by calling 1.800.573.4784 and connect with your fiance. Our psychic mediums specialize in connecting people just like you with loved ones who have crossed over.

  13. travis February 2, 2015 at 3:07 pm

    Hi.My fiance Kathryn passed away Nov 5 of a brain hemhorrage in her sleep in our bed.I want to contact her and feel her presence as I have moved out of the house we shared.Any suggestions would be appreciated.

  14. Sajeev November 25, 2014 at 9:32 am

    I want to talk to my deceased son or i want his presence in my house.

  15. latoya October 7, 2014 at 10:34 am

    My sister and I want to thank you your reading was so accurate and comforting so if anyone is looking to contact deceased love ones you have the right medium & Thanks again Hern

  16. winifred September 17, 2014 at 12:09 pm

    I lost a dear brother in May this year since the I have been so sad, I cry almost every day. the vacuum he left is so enormous I need to talk to him. my problem is that I am in Nigeria and I don’t know how to do it through you. can you help me?

  17. irene almaguer August 29, 2014 at 11:38 am

    My husband will b gone 26 years on sept12 2014 he had luekemia it was so sudden he went to hospital on july 4 1988 and died sept 12 1988 but i dont think he died from the disease it was the chemo that killed him i never remarried had 3 kids from him but if i could i would like to ask him to help me with his older son his son is in trouble and married to a women whos going to kill him if he doesnt get away from her she practices black magic and has him on some spell my son has 2 sons of his own and has abandoned them because of this women i need my husband help but im not sure he can come i need a sign from him that hes around and that he will help my son come home sane and alive

  18. Marjorie Pyles August 6, 2014 at 6:06 am

    My husband passed away on 7/3/14. I found him around 1:00 am in our bedroom. Life is not the same. I cry all the time. I do not stay home that much. The pain is so unbearable. He was my soul mate we did everything to gather. It is so hard to go on with out him. He was my soul mate. He was a great husband and father. I just wish he would give me a sign to let me know that he is happy and that every thing is going to be ok. I will never love any one as much as I loved him.

  19. MG August 1, 2014 at 3:29 am

    I lost my husband one and a half years ago and my heart is still crying for him. I just want to know if there is any medium I can contact him. I just want to know if he is happy and well. I don’t know if I can survive without him. I love him so much. There is no me without him. We used to live for each other. PLEASE HELP ME TO HAVE CONTACT WITH MY HUBBY.

  20. Renee July 18, 2014 at 7:24 pm

    I lost my son on June 30th2014 I’m unsure of everything I can’t sleep or eat I feel like I can’t go on without knowing where he is I am so confused all I do is cry its only been 3 weeks please try to help me I promise I will try to be open to what you have to say. Thank you!

  21. Michelle June 28, 2014 at 1:36 pm

    Hi I’m 9 years old and my sisters boyfriend died march 7 2013 and well in 2014 on the day eh diez i week upa round 2:00 in the morning and i saw a person kneeling well i thing praying inside my house by my door i was shocked i thought it was him (his name was Carlos Arenas ) i went running to my room and i started to cry cuz i was terrified but i was happy that it might be him and i told my mom she said that she is SURE it is him i didn’t tell my sister cuz i felt like she would not get over the story and i always pass where i saw that person and smile and sometimes i feel like he is with me sitting on the couch with me trying to comfort me and i pray that he shows up again and that i get to talk to him! Please can someone tell me if it was him or not please i need to know!!

  22. Jennifer June 20, 2014 at 3:08 pm

    My BF of 15 years passed away unexpectedly a week ago apparently from a seizure he suffered during his sleep. I miss him so much it’s unbearable. I’ve been reading on how to tap into your own psychic abilities to reach the other side. One article I read says to use a crystal pendant for dowsing/energy. Is there any particular crystal that is more spiritually charged than another? What are your thoughts of the following crystal pendulums–rose quartz, amethyst, black agate, tigers eye and clear quartz? I do feel him around me. I’ve had two dreams about him, one was just images but the other was very vivid. The morning after the funeral, I found several pennies laying on my bedroom floor next to his nightstand where he often kept change after emptying his pockets for the day. I know there was nothing there before. I feel he’s trying to contact me and I am looking for a way to make that happen more, I don’t know, vividly. What can I do, besides meditate, to allow contact with him? Please help.

  23. Bec June 17, 2014 at 4:58 am

    My fiancee passed away by another mans hands, I have been so torn apart, as my fiancee was a lovely person with a heart of gold and would do anything for anyone and leaving behind myself and his 8 year old son. I have been needing him and wanting hin to come home, but I feel he isn’t here :-( I wanted to die as I just can’t cope with it we were meant to grow old together and he was only 36 at the time I miss hum so much and I just want to see or here him or even feel hum around me to het through this. Plz help :-(

  24. Nicole A.P May 4, 2014 at 2:57 pm

    Hi, my boyfriend passed one week and one day ago in his sleep in my bed… I have at which been searching for any kind of sign for a goodbye or some type of miraculous way of showing me he is here…but unfortunately…no dreams, smells, sounds, ect….the only odd thing is the water was running my itself ONCE and it could have been the animals or my little sister….My sister is 14 and already is saying she heard him…(he knocked on her door from my room when he was there) and that of which she claims he did…but i believe she heard it because she wanted to so bad…then claimed he whispered for me….again she probably wanted it so bad because she was very close with him….I’d love an answer…thank you.

  25. Suzie-Wan To April 6, 2014 at 12:43 am

    My first lover passed Jan. 11, 1971. It about 43 years ago. Did you think that he reincarnated by now. Can I contact him? Pls. Help.

  26. Alan March 29, 2014 at 8:12 am

    Hi my Father passed away on 1/3/2014. He died by himself in the uk before I could get back for him. I got back and organized his funeral but have felt lost, devistated and lonely since I returned back home in Australia. There has also been a lot of family turbulence since my return. Can you help

  27. lisa smedy March 23, 2014 at 1:14 pm

    My fiance passed away 3 weeks ago.he passed away in his sleep and i miss him dearly as we were planning to get married this summer. Andrusha was only 25 yrs old.

  28. torren scott March 21, 2014 at 6:31 pm

    Last year feb the 16th my brother had an accident. He got crushed between a train an platform. After a complexes op. An induced coma, i chose to beleive he would pull through.. 3 days in intensive care, crushed organs an blood poinsioning brought my bros life to an end. I held his hand, as he took his last breathe. From time 2 time i feel my bros presents… words can not exspress how i crave his voice.. life can be tougth. Enjoy.. accept, an charrish wot we have.. im 29. My bro was 33. So young. Untill we meet again. Always in my heart.xxxx torren

  29. divya March 12, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    hi ,my grandfather died 6 years ago.and i want to communicate with him.he loved me a it possible?if so how can i communicate with him?

  30. sue March 12, 2014 at 2:39 pm

    i have just lost my hubby .had his funeral on monday .he died suddenly i wsh i could of done more for him when he was alive he was only 52 my age is 46 i miss him

  31. Karina Lozoya February 21, 2014 at 6:16 pm

    My grandma Mami Betty thats how everyone would call her she hated to be called grandma past away a few days ago that same day the electricity went out 4 times and the phones where messed up even my cell phone for a short while.My mami bettys eldest son was murder 2 weeks after i was born im 27 yrs old now the point is my mom has his picture in her living room and she told him while she cried jr you must be happy to be with my mom now and us here crying and heart broken the light started goin out slowly.I just want to know if shes with him and happy cuz thats what she wanted to die to be with him.I feel bad i dirent go see her in mexicali for 3 yrs my reason was that they are kidnapping children there i have 3 small kids so thats my big regret i let that situation get to me and not wanting to travel to the border line i live in texas is 16 hr drive there.I hope shes okay and happy now i love her and miss her voice so much.

  32. sarrie January 1, 2014 at 6:40 pm

    Gypsy: I can sense your pain and sadness. I’m so sorry for your loss. My father died in 2012 and the things you are saying echoes how my mother seems. You’re right about people ignoring you etc, it is so sad. In reality you will probably never get over it. You literally gave a broken heart. All you can do is remember him and honour him thinking how he would want you to be.get through each day as they come and remember how much he loves you. I pray you will find strength to find some happiness in being aalive.ive never responded to anything like this before. I’m from Wales (U.K) I have no idea why I’m sending this, if you’ll read it or if it will make a difference. Take care and God bless

  33. Gypsy December 4, 2013 at 3:31 pm

    Married over 20 years to soul mate, best friend, riding partner (Harley). Navy Viet Nam Vet. He battled throat cancer over 2 years bravely. Surgeries, losing voice box, stoma in throat. He was already an amputee, but worked, retired, rode Harley, active. Chemo, radiation, alternative, holistic, acupuncture, reiki, vitamin c injections, prayer chains of 1000s across USA and other countries, every religion. We thought we had it beat. He seemed happy, strong in Dec. 2012. Then feeding tube back in belly Jan. 4, 2013. 5 trips hospital, ER, blood transfusions, wound care to throat from burn holes, but he kept smiling, rode his Harley with me in June! Rode with his combat biker chapter, June. July, weaker seizures, could not talk with electro thing, his mouth filled with mucus! Spit cups. He still swore to me he was NOT going to die. July 23, his birthday, same day our anniversary. He could still stand a bit, walk a little, but went DOWNHILL so fast by end of August. Hospice. Hospital bed moved into house, so many meds, machines, no longer could stand, could not watch tv, or write on a pad. HIS LAST WORDS WRITTEN…I do not want to die…save me. This haunts me. He went from muscular 175 lbs to 110 lbs! His eyes FULL OF FEAR.

    4:24 am Tuesday, Oct. 1, 2013 I was holding his hand, nurse behind me, he took his LAST BREATH, his hand went limp. OMG. NO!!!! I stayed with his body till funeral van came about 2 hours later. Bathed him, saged him combed his hair, put on his favorite Harley t shirt, draped over him when they took him out to the van, screaming! Week later they brought him back home…IN A BOX!!!

    Agent orange cancer, on death cert. I am still fighting for VA widow benefits! Forced to sell his Harley, truck, got half what it is worth! Packed up house we loved. I move from FL to Arlington TX to daughters, Jan. 25. I also must leave behind 2 grandkids in Orlando,her kids as they got divorced, this will break my heart and leave behind friends and memories of FLORIDA! Talked to psychics. Nov 17, full moon, Hecates moon and Snow moon, daytime military memorial, wow. MANY BIKES, flags, gun salute, taps, I have folded flag now. That night, Pagan witch ceremony backyard around magnolia tree he loved, powerful circle and altar with candles, pics, all his things. Friend brought small Viking boat. We put in some ashes, roses, love notes, took to river, same spot we last stood on, candles around boat.

    High Priestess desecrated spot as sacred and holy, then boat lit on fire, put in river, balloons released, candles burned, each said farewells! OMG.

    I cannot bear to go into stores, restaurants, gas stations…ANYWHERE we used to go, I get anxiety attacks, sobbing. I “see” him every inch of house, yard, this street, memories, things he left behind, things he fixed or planted. I am so miserable, so heartbroken, unbearable. I am 69 now, health probs, feel SO ALONE.

    I noticed people we knew VANISHED, do not call or anything. Why??? Good friends now IGNORE ME AS IF I AM DEAD TOO. It adds to hurt, pain. HIS OWN FAMILY VERY CHRISTIAN ignore me, never called much, did not even acknowledge his death, none at military memorial, this hurt too!!! Why did they do that?

    I cry day night, pace floors, no TV on, no radio…reminders, painful. House too quiet, dark. Holidays make it worse, cancelling it all out, staying IN HOUSE to avoid it all. I feel empty, lost, dazed, scared, confused. No protection. ALONE!!!!

    I do rituals, burn candles, beg, plead for a sign, ask him all day and night to APPEAR, come to me and hear stories of other widows SEEING THEIR HUSBANDS!!! Why can’t I? He loved me SOOOO MUCH, I love him deeply. We had talks about death for years, wondering if true there is an afterlife…we did not know what to believe? IS THERE? How do living KNOW for sure? I must know. I MUST SEE HIM and KNOW he is ok and loves me, sees…me, helps me.

    Will he know I move 1200 mi away to daughters house, Texas? He has been there before on a trip we made Oct. 2011. Building shrine, memorial garden there. VA sending me his medals and letter of thanks from White House. HERO and always…my hero.

    Yes I thought of suicide. to join him and be in that better peaceful place all talk about so much! I did not have courage to go thru with it…or I would. I have lived 69 yrs anyway and SO MISERABLE and tons of problems, complications, worries and lonely anyway!

    DESPERATE for answers, sign, to SEE HIM again. PLEASE HELP ME, PLEASE HELP ME!!!! ASAP!

  34. Deekshaa November 20, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    Hi my name is deekshaa and my uncle passed away this summer and I promised that I would go see him when he was in the hospital but I couldn’t because I am only 13 and I wasn’t allowed into the emergency suite and the last time I saw him before he was in the hospital was like 7 months ago and I really miss him now and I feel horrible that I didn’t get to say goodbye! Now I sit by myself trying to communicate with him but it never works so I feel like I’m just sitting and talking and I really wonder if he hears me and knows how much pain his death caused me I was his baby doll and he was my hero I miss him a lot a few days ago my mom had a dream where he came to her and said the word “Khalsa” which in punjabi u say when a new baby is born or when someone dies so we called my Aunty and she said that was a way for him to communicate with her and he was saying bye to her since he didn’t get to and I never got to say bye to him so can u please tell me a way for me to be able to communicate with him pleassseeeee respond I love him a lot and want to talk to him and say bye to him and know that he is ok where ever he is and I want to tell him about how I feel and stuff please help me he was my hero that I loved the most

  35. Amanda Mullen October 29, 2013 at 3:19 am

    My daughter passed away five years ago. I use to feel her presents nut not anymore. I would love to talk to her and explain my life to her now. And ask her to help me.

  36. eric October 24, 2013 at 1:49 pm

    As my Father was at home on hospice dying, with the whole family around I decided to go in the back yard, and finish up his green house. I was putting rocks on the bottom all around the green house, one by one, just thinking of all the good times we had had together. He had cancer for 8 years. I almost finished it before he died as I told him I would, just a couple more rows to complete. I asked him for a sign, and I turned and there was a brilliant looking flower next to the sunflower I planted. Its funny because it wasnt there yesterday or the day before but it was 2 ft talll and in full bloom. After that I went inside and spent the last 3 hours of his life on Earth with him. He died at 6 pm. After a few weeks, I went out to finish the project, talking to him all the while as I put rock by rock on. All the while I was asking for him to give me a sign, and then a white dove came and soared over my head and did a huge circle around the clearing near the 3 closest neighbors houses shining brilliantly in the sunlight. I ve never seen a white dove in my life near home until my dad died. I didnt know what to think of it, but then I went and looked on the front of the bible that I was reading bit by bit over the last few years, and there was a hand, a light, and a white dove on the front. I studied the new an old testament and never realized what the dove symbolized and how important it was to Christianity. Not until my Dad died and a white dove came down and spent a little time at home. It was so funny how the dove fluttered around my mom as she pulled in from work soon after my dad died. There had to be a connection with everything. Just wanted to share this story, to give hope to all those in need.

  37. Tony October 19, 2013 at 12:03 am

    I lost my Mom last week on 10/13/13 I miss her so much. I want to talk to her and see if she is with my Dad and they are ok.

  38. Melissa October 15, 2013 at 5:22 am

    I desperatley need to talk to my husband. I need clarity and guidance. I need him to help me make the right decision and possibly and here’s to hoping that he will tell me if my instincts are right and if I should proceed down the path which I have been forced to choose.

    Please help me

  39. shaloo October 12, 2013 at 12:05 am

    My husband passed away 20 days ago.i cannot live without morning he come in my dream in white clothes.I hugged him tightly. His face was glowing,he seems very calm and happy. I ask him what happen to you? he told me that 4 people came to take me, 3 were very nice and don’t ask about the fourth person ! Then i ask him how he died? he replied don’ ask this! and now leave me i have to go, but i refused. and then immediately i saw the another world which very nice, full of peace and silence . I saw many acquainted ,sitting there silently. Then suddenly one boy came and pushed me hardly and then i woke up again lonely.
    Can i contact him again???

  40. tanuja bhupinder singh October 5, 2013 at 4:41 am

    i lost my husband on 17 july 2013. my husbad is coming in my dreams almost after almost every 3-4 days and 5 times i dreamt of him coming back to live which i always beg him to do. we had a love relation for 12 years since i was in ninth and my hubby was in twelfth and got married on 22 nov 2010. after two years, seven months and 25 days i lost my husband in a road accident when both of us were standing safe and sound besides the road for boarding a bus but a drunk driver hit my hubby. i have seen everything with my eyes and have done all the rituals but dont know why still dont believe that such a thing has happened and waiting for my husband to come back. i want to contact him tell me how

  41. Chinna October 2, 2013 at 6:57 pm

    My brother passed away in June. And none of us were there. I want to make sure he’s okay where ever he is. I want to ask him when he’s coming back. And i want to say we all really miss him. Not a minute goes by without thinking about him. I want to ask him why he chose to leave us.

  42. Chona puebla September 27, 2013 at 12:43 pm

    Hi”i like ur colomn,my live inn partner pass away jun 20,2012 in cancer and we have 3 kid’z,i need somebody who can help me 2 talk and see him.Coz i miss him so much! I dont have plan 2 get suicide,but it so hard accept that he left me and his kid’z.He is my life and cours my inspiration.And there is one thing that,i just 2 want know..If he love me for the 8year’s that been together.And i just want 2 know also if hes oky.plz…tell him that,i love him 4ever,and miss him so much!

  43. Sunita September 25, 2013 at 1:28 am

    I want to speak to my dad vv urgently

  44. Marissa September 12, 2013 at 8:21 pm

    I lost one of my closest friends June 5 2013 and he was the best to me. I only knew him for about a school year and he died 2 days before the last day of senior year. He always drove me to school and did anything for me. I never knew someone could be so kind hearted. The day before he died he got a check from the main office and I asked him what they will do with it if he died before he spent it. His answer was I don’t know and we laughed. He walked me to class and we parted our ways. I have never hugged him ever but when he was leaving I felt like I should have hugged him so hard, but I didn’t. I regret that now and I always will. The next morning I needed a ride to school but he was driving his motorcycle and I kind of felt like i shouldnt ride with him that day because it just felt like a weird day, so I asked my other friend. But before I made that choice I thought about it for a while. I went to school and got into study hall where him and I had study hall together 3rd period but he never showed up and I kind of felt like I knew he wasn’t show up all day and the night before. I went to 5th period and we got an announcement that he had died in a tragic motorcycle accident that morning. He skipped school tht day to ride his motorcycle in honor of his friend that had died a month earlier. I wonder if I would have asked him for a ride if I would still be with him right now or if I would have died with him. I miss him so much but the worst part is I never said thank you for all the things he did for me. He liked me a lot and I was to stupid to reliaze that I should have been with him because near the end I was falling for him, but I waited to long. The moment I found out he died I felt alone and I feel like I am never gonna find another man like him. He was the best and I love him.

  45. cheri September 7, 2013 at 10:52 am

    My cousin and my son’s father and their friend passed away right after each other. We were together for 7years and separated in 2012 our son is now 17months old but we were still best friends, my cousin committed suicide for absolutely no reason as things were going really well, and as for my ex he over dosed and their friend then hanged himself on his birthday a little while after that I haven’t made peace with losing them like that and I’m struggling to adapt we were getting back together the weekend he died we were both so excited but his girlfriend found out and I’m convinced she did something to him I desperately need to know what the hell happened I its been seven months now and I can’t sleep properly anymore please help me get into contact with him so I can tell him that I love him and that I will tell his son all about him and that I’m so sorry that we ever separated. Thank-you so much

  46. Savita August 27, 2013 at 4:55 am

    I lost my husband due to Cancer at the age of 37 in July 2012 only after 5 weeks of diagnosis. He was not ill only fever for one day and a spot on his left arm. His friend a doctor suggested him for some test. After one week of testing he is diagnosed with disease . He was in Police and with a height of 6’2 with 95kg weight. He drove himself to the hospital for the tretment and never came home. I just wanted to talk with him. After 5 months of his death once i smelled his body fragrance on my thumb nail. I for half an hour the fragrance was there but after that i never found any sigh. Please help me to communicate with my husband

  47. vernamae August 18, 2013 at 4:45 pm

    I had a termination of my pregnancy when I was 23 years…I think of my child every day, I regret everyday. I need to know If he’s on the other side. lost sleep thinking, wish my baby was here.

  48. Gail July 30, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    My ex died 3/8/2013. Though we had been broken up for awhile, we were talking again and trying to work things out, but she had hurt me very badly again in the two weeks before she died. I forgave her and I said so out loud when I visited her grave. I did ask for a sign that she was okay on the other side and the power went out in the house, which would have been like her; over the top!! She was the love of my life and I miss her and love her so much. I am not suicidal, but I, too, want very much to see her and hold her in my arms again.

  49. Sarah July 23, 2013 at 3:56 pm

    My boyfriend passed away in his sleep on 05/97/2013 he was only 25 and he was perfectly healthy besides from having Epilepsy.
    I am struggling to accept him been gone as I saw him everyday and we were so close we did everything together and I just want to hear his voice and be in his arms again. I miss him terribly I will never get over this as me and him had planned our future together people said it would get easier after the funeral I don’t think it has as I am still getting really upset whenever people talk about him.
    I really want I see him again and speak to him I want him to visit me let me know he is okay and he misses me and loves me and we will be together again one day.
    I feel so alone even though I have loads of friends and support I’m just so unhappy and constantly having suicidal thoughts as all I want is to be with him.
    He promised me he wouldn’t leave me and would always be there to protect me and take care of me but he left me I hate that he is looking down on me when all I want is for him to be next to me. I suffer from night terrors and when me and him went away for the weekend earlierbthis year he woke me up as I was thrashing about in bed and crying he cuddled me and kissed me until I fell asleep in his arms and since I still have them I have to seek comfort in his favourite jacket that still has his scent when all I want is to cuddle up in his arms.
    He also would comfort me and make me feel safe when I was scared which is how I constantly feel now.
    I have spoken to him before I go to sleep but I see it as pointless because he doesn’t speak back to me he also hasn’t visited me in my dreams .
    My parents say I should go see a bereavement councelor because I am struggling to accept his death and saying all I want to do is go to sleep and never wake up I don’t know what to do anymore as I am in so much pain.

  50. Alan July 12, 2013 at 2:35 pm

    im only 13, my grampa Died when it was 5 days to my birthday so it caused so Much pain and grief and sometimes i just want to talk to him and i do but im normally talking to my window i want to know how to contact him but i dont know how

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