If you’re hot for a Scorpio, and he’s hot for you, then you are probably someone who loves a mystery. It’s not so much that Scorpios want to be secretive; they just need to know they can trust you with their very sensitive hearts, so they’ll take their time getting to know you and even longer to trust you with their emotions. This all begins with the very first look, when their piercing eyes lock with yours. A brief, slow-motion moment that seems to last an eternity; you’ve been stung by the Scorpion.
Date a Scorpio
To date a Scorpio, you need both a soft heart and sometimes a thick hide. The more comfortable a Scorpio feels with you, the more they’ll open up, and the less they’ll hold back. Their words can sometimes be biting, but they simply see it as telling the truth.
Dating a Scorpio can be a challenge. It is important to keep it fun, keep it sexy and keep it all about the two of you. The well of emotion runs deep in a Scorpio and their powers of intuition are astounding. Alternatively, they can be possessive and jealous sometimes. It is a hard balance, but let them know if you’re dating them exclusively, that they are a priority, while also keeping your own identity. Scorpio will respect you more in this balance of power, and it will keep them in chase mode, which is the best place to keep your Scorpio while dating.
Love a Scorpio
It’s true that Scorpio rules the sex organs, but they’re not necessarily sex maniacs, they just know what they like and don’t apologize for it, why should they? They are constantly in search of the perfect love. Getting their full trust in you will be hard, but worth it. They can be the most loyal partners when truly in love and fulfilled in every way. That may be a lot for some to handle, but the depth of their love is strong and a prize worth attaining. Though they have a tendency to be the one in control, it is you who must be confident and in control. This is one reason why I love Aries as a partner for Scorpio. Aries’ need for freedom is matched only by their need to have a sexually fulfilling, exciting relationship. They drive each other passionately insane, at least as far as their sun signs go.
It would be impossible to sum up the complicated idiosyncrasies that make up a Scorpio, but as far as loving and dating a Scorpio go, these are the basics. Many of the things you read about them are mere myth. The best way to date and love a Scorpio is to know one yourself. They are a sexy jumble of emotion, and heart, they exude a certain quiet power, and when they walk into the room, heads turn.
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I am seeing a Scorpio and it seems like everything I’m reading is right on Q. He is passionate, loves sex (we rushed into this too early) but the sex is still hot and the calls and interest seem there on a daily basis. Worried about the unknown, when we’re together it’s usually hot and heavy whether in person or on the phone, but he lets out very little about himself and that is concerning. Almost as he guards what he says with just as much passion. I’m at a lost in a way because I’m a Leo and in much need of the same chase and attention. This is at times conflicting and worrisome. I’m impulsive, passionate and daring and when it comes to sex Leo’s and Scorpio’s have the best sex compatibility rating on the horoscope scale (very true!) but I wonder about everything else (we are not compatible signs) and at times I feel like pulling back. We have the most amazing, hot, rock the house, tear up the place kind of sex…….but is this enough to withhold a relationship on? How long is long enough and when is it ok to open up to a Scorpio without the risk of being stung?
i fell in love with a scorpio girl 6 yrs ago and guess what i am a gemini and yes it didnt turn out well. i never could prove myself to her. i just felt this bond between us but i guess she didnt. i got rejected the 3rd time by her about 2 years ago. the sad thing is i cant get over her no matter how much i try. well it reached to a point where misunderstandings led us to be even more apart. i truely liked her i still do. she said im not her type. from that day i have been trying to change myself. body and mind. i am just an ordinary looking guy with a ordinary job. i dont smoke nor do i drink anymore. i go gym 5 days a week to let my pain out on the wieghts. other then that i go work come back and well i dont have much friends either to talk to so i just do nothing. i know myself that this life i am living is very sad and i have to get over it but i just cant, i try so hard. i dont have any contact with this girl because well she blacked me from her life completely. Once we were really good friends and nowshe hates me to the guts because of things i wrote to her online as i was drunk one day. from the couple of friends i have they tell me the same thing to get over it and move on and yea they laugh as well so i dont mention it to anyone. i dont even think anyone would be able to help me.
Maggie,
He’s just using u for sex! he likes your sex but isn’t interested in anything else with you! can’t u see that? I’m a scorpio woman, emotional sex is what we thrive on. also if hes young he hasn’t met his mature side yet, we want someone that makes us feel comfortable in sex also. so my advice to you would be cut him off, don’t be available to him when he wants it, that will shock him out & upset him! it might even change the game up? but be prepared to play the game if that’s what u want to do?! cause we don’t stop till we feel we have won! I suggest you just stop dealing with him at all! he sounds like an A/H!
I am a single girl who likes to have fun. i am a very fun person to be around. I can be what ever you want me to be. i play hard ball at times but watch out if i am attracted to you your in for a ride so buckle up. i am also a lover when i love i love hard. and just want the same in return. i love to have my lover as my best friend as well cant get any better then that.
I am a scorpio women. All that you have said is true. I do not let others into my personal circle without a lo of thought and consideration. But, once I do it is hard to stop the flow of emotions that comes from me to my partner. However, you must know that in dating a scorpio or loving one, that you have to be patient. We will come to you in time and let you know what is on our minds. But be careful what you ask for, the truth can be brutal and I believe in telling the truth to my partner no matter what.
As far as the bedroom, I like to keep that private. What happens in there is no one else’s business unless I chose for it to be. And someone said something about us not liking to stray from our upbringing. That is correct too, it is very hard for me to risk something I consider to be taboo. We are complicated and are secretive but if we ever let you in, look out. It can be an amazing place to be.
I hope this helps some of you out there…
I’m dating one now and It’s driving me insane. We’ve known each other all of our lives, kicked rocks together and now learning each other on a romantic level and it’s very odd. He’s very to himself, came off very aggressive in the beginning but started to back off a little, don’t know why. Not a good communicator at all. No sure where this is going to end, and hope it doesnt destroy our life long friendship. i’m an Aries, so i thought this would be a good match. Only time will tell.
I am a Scorpio woman and yes I agree with
most of the article.
If you date a Scorpio and they are truely
interested in you wlll know just by our expressions and body language.
We will seem secretive and hard to get because we are very guarded and selective.
When Scorpio’s fall in love watch out , we love
like no other sign.
If you are with a Scorpio and not getting the attention and passion you crave wirhin a short while i am afraid to say walk away.
We never change.
Bonjour!
Je suis une homme poisson, né le 13 03 66, et je désire entrer en union avec : un TAUREAU, un CAPRICORNE, ou un CANCER , pour l’amour mais aussi pour si possible faire des affaires.
Merci
Cyriaque
Bonjour!
Je suis une homme poisson, né le 13 03 66, et je désire entrer en union avec : un TAUREAU, un CAPRICORNE, ou un CANCER , pour l’amour mais aussi pour si possible faire des affaires.
I had a scorpio for 2year and man he love his sex, he was younger than me, so u know he had all the energy i every wanted great experience. they are intense the most passionate lover i know. i would do it again and again. but they are very secretive and could be cold sometime, but what u expect they are scorpio they will sting you, when u lease expected…
I met a scorpio man four years. He approached me and i didntknow what would come out of this relationship but i kept him at arm length for six months. atfer the six months we blossom. he has ask to marry me. what everyone is saying is true. he’s kind of complications person at times. he had me strung out and i fell in love with him. they say a scorpio and leo are not compatible. we both know how to give each other the place that we need. maggie and carmen i agreed whole heartly with the both of you. all i can say a scorpio man is very secretive and do not like his business put out there. he’s private in the bedroom and its only for your pleasure.
I met a scorpio 4 years ago. I got stung with that first piercing baby-blue look. He did exude this amazing sense of self and confidence. I know he loves me deeply. I know he trust me with everything he has. We got married last month and it’s been amazing. Those arms that he stretches to keep everyone at a distance are now wrapped around me every day. He lets me take control most of the time now because I do like to be but I’m also a very strong person and feel worthy of his love and am very confident myself. Not bitchy, but confident in my ability to please him in public and in the bedroom!
Rose Cocca,
Unfortunately, we Scorpios are that way. And we don’t want to change unless we find it a compelling necessity to do so. here are a few tips I can say about myself and few other Scorpios I have met.
- Keep him interested. The moment you spill out all your beans at once, he will lose interest in you completely. We don’t want to date someone who is too easy to get.
- Play a bit hard to get, but not too hard. At the same time, know this. If you want to play a bit of hide and seek, most of us Scorpios too do the same way. We know women like us and we like to be chased. And if you feel that he is the one playing hide and seek, you may as well as make the first move. There is nothing wrong in that.
- if there is a Scorpio who is constantly willing to see you or talk to you, you know he is your man. We don’t believe in wasting time. We are hard to get close to. But we speak to a girl constantly only if we are interested. Else, we don’t even care. At the same time, also be prepared to know that he may not tell you he loves you anytime soon, but he will completely mean it from his actions.
- Regarding sex, unfortunately, it purely depends on the upbringing. We have very strict principles and no matter what, we never break them. So if he doesn’t want to have sex till marriage or whatever (due to religious reasons or anything else), don’t ever think of forcing him into it. You may just lose him.
Hope these tips help. Happy fishing
I have been dating a scorpio for three years and you are sooooo right!!!!!! still haven’t heard “I love you”. and even though he claims he is not a control person !! yea right- full of B.S. Nice guy, and I feel he is loyal, and I am not ready for a full scale commitment,but when he’s at my house, he likes to take control.
Are they all the same, they seem to keep you at arms length, and don’t let you get too close? He is driving me insane, I never know where he is or what he’s thinking, nothing, then suddenly he just shows up outta the blue for a night of passion, then 2 weeks maybe a month later no phone call or anything then here he is again. it is frustrating but, if you say anything you are afraid he will go away forever. What’s a girl to do??
i have met a scorpio and known them for some time and i have been reading about dating a scorpio on your web site and it seems true about dating a scorpio as i now he has feeling for me he is taking his time but only destiny will know just thought i would let you know that you are right about it.
how can anyone love anybody if they are not allow to go near them..sex is part of love…it has emotions..how can a relationship be exciting if they cannot see one other…im all fall it but how? i have a lot of trust …but how can i get to know him better…my heart has always been there..but he cant hold on to it…but i like to know a person better..i like to date before i become intermit with him..so i get to know him…