Fall In Love With Yourself

December 6, 2011 at 12:00 am
By Taryn Galewind

Fall in Love With Yourself

Love thy neighbor as thy self… but what if you can’t love yourself? Everyday we’re told that we’re not lovable, not good enough. It’s an odd by-product of the media poop storm that bombards us with images of perfect people selling perfect products. Now how on earth will you build loving relationships if you don’t feel the love toward yourself?

My grandma used to tell me not to hide my light under a bushel basket. Yes, I knew what a bushel basket was—we picked apples in the fall and put them in such a basket to make lots of pies and applesauce. But I hadn’t a clue what she meant by hide my light under one. Do you know? Read the rest of this entry »

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Sex Q&A: Embrace Your Inner Goddess

December 5, 2011 at 12:00 am
By Psychic Liam ext. 9290

Should You Date a Younger Man?

Yvette from Nassau asks:

I am 51 years old, and a 27 year old man is interested in me. I am confused. He stirs me. I like him. We have done nothing, but we talk a lot.

Liam’s Response:

Greetings, Yvette, and thank you for sharing. Life experience combined with richness and depth are erotic qualities indeed. Unfortunately, they aren’t usually the ones embraced by Western culture. I have a feeling most of your confusion comes from the messages sent by society in general (and the entertainment industry, in particular) which work very hard to convince us that, with only a very few exceptions, the entire idea of a much younger man courting an older woman is rather comic, if not downright ludicrous. The modern “Cougar” is spoken of in scoffing tones because, though we know such interludes do occur, nobody ever seriously contemplates the mystical qualities or sacred undercurrents of such a relationship. Read the rest of this entry »

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4 Ways to Keep the Fire Burning

December 4, 2011 at 12:00 am
By Yashira McCray

4 Ways to Keep the Fire Burning in Your Relationship!

Once you’ve passed the stage of “just friends” and you’ve committed to a long term relationship, situations arise that can cause complications. The fire that was once burned begins to fade, and eventually fizzles out. There are many factors that can cause this to happen. Here are four ways to help you understand and resolve those issues.

1. Keep Meddling Friends and Relatives Out of Your Relationship! 

When going through typical relationship issues, it’s important not to complain to your friends or family members about resolvable problems. They may have their own biased opinions and it may not be the best advice. Calling on friends to complain about your mate is not a good idea, because once you’ve made up, you will regret the things that you’ve said. Try to find an unbiased mediator, a trustworthy person that is experienced in relationships, and can give sound advice. You will ultimately make the right decision, if you decide to stay together. Read the rest of this entry »

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A Guide to a Better Sex Life

December 3, 2011 at 12:00 am
By Eric J. Leech

Sexual Bliss is Just Around the Corner

Studies suggest that a good sex life helps people live a longer, better life. Of course, that could also be taken to suggest that those who are healthier and happier just have more sex. Either way, if you’re going to go, you might as well go out with a bang (pun intended). Let’s look at five areas that can improve your experience, just by following a few simple tips.

1. The Body

The Calming Effects of Exercise

We know that exercise is good for us, but most never realize just how good. One of the theories of performance problems in men and women is that daily anxiety caused by work, relationships, etc. can produce stress hormones (fight or flight), making it difficult to get in the mood. When you exercise regularly, you release chemicals (oxytocin) that have a calming effect over the body. When the body is relaxed, it’s better able to prepare itself for sex. One of the best exercises to curb anxiety is yoga. Read the rest of this entry »

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6 Classic Jerk Types

December 3, 2011 at 12:00 am
By Alina Mikos

Men to Avoid Like the Plague

He shows up anywhere and everywhere—at our jobs, on our dates, in our relationships, on the street and in the grocery store. Classically labeled as “The Jerk,” he can take many forms, and sometimes it takes us a little while to see him for what he really is. The good news is that we can take steps to armor ourselves against these bozos by taking a look at some typical jerk types to watch out for.

1. Two-Faced Jerk

This guy may speak the sweetest words to you, but what he’s telling his buddies, the neighbors, and your co-workers would expose him as Public Enemy No. 1 if you were to actually hear what he’s saying about you behind your back. You can often spot this guy by listening to how he speaks about other people when they’re not around—if he’s doing this to others, chances are he’s doing it to you. Read the rest of this entry »

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Modern-Day Goddess or Female Commitment-Phobe?

December 2, 2011 at 11:00 am
By Psychic Abigail ext. 9570

Are You Just Fooling Yourself?

I can feel, smell and sense a commitment-phobe a mile away. I deal with them every day in my life and my work, and it takes one to know and understand one.

After my husband died when I was 27, I shut down on all levels to love. I ran from my psychic gifts, because I knew he was going to die, and my efforts to prevent that didn’t work. It’s taken many years to come to grips with my own inner patterns. I used to say, what’s wrong with men today? Why can’t I find the right one for me? Well, it wasn’t something wrong with them, it was me. I was subconsciously choosing men who were commitment-phobes. And believe me, being empathic made me a real whiz at it. Read the rest of this entry »

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Signs You’re About to Cheat

November 30, 2011 at 5:30 pm
By Krishna Bill

Know the Warning Signs That Your Thoughts Are Straying

Are you done with your relationship? Have you hit a well of fatigue that just won’t seem to end? Are you looking around for greener grass? There are clear signs that you’re finished with your current relationship, and that you may be about to take action to end it. So you might want to keep a close eye on yourself and know the warning signs, so that if you do decide to end your relationship, you do it like an adult!

The Huffington Post reports:

1. You haven’t made love to your partner in weeks or even months. You find you avoid situations that could lead to sex. You lie to your partner and say you’re tired or you have a headache. This disinterest could be a sign that you are stressed, tired, ill or that the relationship is disconnected. It can also be a sign that one of you is out the door. Read the rest of this entry »

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6 Dirty Little Secrets of Men

November 29, 2011 at 5:00 pm
By Alina Mikos

What Men Don’t Want You to Know

While men may seem like open books to women, they still are capable of keeping certain aspects of their personalities secret. If you’re ready to get the lowdown on some “less than savory” secrets, read on!

1. Men don’t need romance. When it comes to sex, women may want or prefer all the romantic bells and whistles—such as candles, music, and roses—but if it were up to the men, they’d just prefer you (perhaps adorned in a cute teddy on occasion).

2. Every man has pictured you naked. It’s inherent in man’s nature to look at every woman and at times, imagine them au natural. This behavior is based on masculine instincts over which men seem to have little or no control, and rarely admit to women! Read the rest of this entry »

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